Family & Relationships - 4 March 2007

She's a cutter. She keeps telling me that she wants to stop but she can't. She doesn't do it deep and she does it in places where it's easily covered up. Like, on her legs and her upper arms. She tells me she wants to stop...people see but they don't say anything to her. I'm really worried about her, so are some of her other closer friends. What can I do? She doesn't want to tell her mom.

2007-03-04 02:54:12 · 7 answers · asked by EmoGeminiDrama 2 in Friends

should i date his friend who is a year older? his friend has asked me out. i like him but don't know if i should date him. thanks for the help.

2007-03-04 02:50:16 · 29 answers · asked by magicalle 4 in Singles & Dating

and does it bother you if people can see you sitting on the couch watching tv? I was at my moms house visiting and I closed the curtains after it got dark. My mother opened the curtains back up and told me that nobody could see in and that I was paranoid.....(I clearly made eye contact with somebody and I only glanced down) I have a 16 yr old sister and a 9 yr old brother and they live alone with their mother.

2007-03-04 02:50:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-04 02:49:48 · 14 answers · asked by Kantham J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

its a work colleague, so no escape

2007-03-04 02:49:34 · 13 answers · asked by kerfuffle_123 1 in Friends

2007-03-04 02:49:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 02:48:13 · 3 answers · asked by val_larner 1 in Family

Alright. I was with this girl for 2 years and I treated her pretty well and she broke up with me for someone else. I initiated no contact about 3 weeks ago and I think it is driving her nuts. So here it goes. Last night I recieved a phone call on my cell phone at 3 in the morning from some guy that I don't even know. Apparently he called me just to tell me that my ex was drunk and that she hooked up with somebody last night. Then he said that, "I don't like people that treat girls like crap" and he was trying to make it look like I was trying to pick a fight with him and the only reaction he got out of me was, "thats nice....it's 3 in the morning and i'm going back to bed". What I want to know is why my ex won't just leave me alone? I gave her the space she wanted and I have left her alone, so why is she sending me text messages trying to be my friend and then having someone call me at 3 in the morning? If she really cared about her new guy then why am i even in the picture?

2007-03-04 02:46:55 · 11 answers · asked by Phila 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I like this guy and now he hate me for something i said to his ex girlfriend that was a mistake, while i was in 8th grade. and after they broke up i put myself out there for him to notice that i was free. but instead he's going out with another girl and now im in 11th grade and he's graduating this year. should i apologize for what i said to the ex and explain to him what i meant to say or not and have him hate me for the rest of my life?

2007-03-04 02:46:18 · 9 answers · asked by keithurban20 1 in Singles & Dating

Hes told me this a couple of times, but then he never does. But most of the time when he says hes going to call he does call. Should i be mad when he does this? He alwasy apolagizes when he didnt call

2007-03-04 02:45:11 · 9 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

So... a lot of people say that when a guy likes you, his pupils will be larger... is that true?

2007-03-04 02:44:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is 16 and im only 14 but hes a sophmore and im a freshmen, and i like him a lot and we have been dating for almost 2 months but i really want to know whats on his mind

2007-03-04 02:43:04 · 21 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

I need some real help! My husband and I just had our second son a couple weeks ago, and I have noticed some serious changes in him ever since. He has never been what you might call...sensitive, or helpful, but he loves me very much. We are both young (23) and despite using VERY good birth control, now have two beautiful kids. Our first son is 16 months, and our second is 2 weeks old. My husband has always been an avid video game player, and can be rather childish and immature sometimes. We have always butted heads on issues like diapers, going to the grocery store, taking out the trash, and keeping the house clean. Basically I have to accomplish all these chores, or beg (literally) him to help with them for a couple days. Case in point, I am still recovering from the emergency c-section birth of our newest son, and there are six bags of garbage sitting out on the balcony, waiting to be taken out. I don't ask more than once, maybe twice a day because I don't want to be a nag.

So the main reason for this post...He is having a hard time dealing with our children. He has been losing his temper with our toddler quite frequently. He won't feed or change the new baby, even on nights when he has the next day off (which is the only time I ask him to do it)he won't feed the new baby a single bottle so that I can get a couple hours of uninterrupted sleep. On his day off he sits around the house playing video games, and insists that I play too, if we get interrupted in the middle of an 'important' part by one of the kids he gets angry and starts pouting like a child himself. He won't help with the dishes or anything else on his day off, he doesn't even pick up his own dishes. Even the days that I am having a really hard time, he won't help me when he gets home from work. He won't feed our toddler dinner, or get him ready for bed. He just comes home from work and launches himself right into an all evening session of World of Warcraft (which I play with him after the kids are in bed or napping just so that we do SOMETHING together). But when I decide to go to bed he gets upset because I can't stay up later.

I have tried to talk to him about this, his usual response is, "I hate this." "I hate having kids." "I hate babies.". Don't get me wrong, he can be a great father, for about three minutes at a time, after that he gets bored and loses interest in his kids. I love my husband, and I realize that having two unplanned kids in two years is stressful...but I'm the one that had to have them, take care of them everyday, and still take care of the house. I don't know what to do to make him happy. I honestly don't think that I can take on any more of the responsibility, It's already like I'm a single parent. Has anyone else dealt with this before, or any men that can give me advice on how to save my marriage, I love my husband dearly, but I fear we are headed for divorce if things don't change.

2007-03-04 02:42:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just curious.

2007-03-04 02:41:36 · 4 answers · asked by Lying from you 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 02:41:26 · 3 answers · asked by eddy m 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating this guy for almost 2 months now. We have never kissed but we both want to. Well when he leans into kiss me i always pull away and I know im nervous because ive never kissed anyone before and i dont want to be bad at it. Soem of the reason im nervous is because we were just about to kiss and my mom walked in so now everytime he tris to kiss me i think of that and pull away. Is he mad at me? How do i make myself not nervous? Should i have my eyes closed? What should I do!!!!! please help me

2007-03-04 02:41:09 · 13 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

he wants to put all different size marbles into my bum i dont no what to say it sound like fun but will it auctually be fun. help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-04 02:40:50 · 14 answers · asked by dee 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have something we need to figure out rather quickly. It is a VERY hard yes or no question. I don't want to decide on my own and yet he doesn't want to talk. I don't want to push the issue with him, but we have very little time to make a decision.

I know I'm being quite vague....but why won't he talk to me about something that is SO important to both of us?

2007-03-04 02:40:40 · 4 answers · asked by virtuouskelly 3 in Singles & Dating

I am on an online dating service where either the guy or the girl, after they have read each others profile, can begin communicating by asking the first questions. It seems to me that the guys don't respond much if I start the communication process first. My question is do you prefer the girl initiating the communication or would you rather that you did?

2007-03-04 02:40:26 · 3 answers · asked by Just Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

hello,
well i have a stipulation and don't know what to do......well my youngest childs father is having twins or he thinks.......i have no order for child support and he see's his daughter when he wants and most weekends.....i do not believe in keeping children from their fathers......but my question to you is would you take your anger and fustration out on your ex????or not see your child due to the new ones coming???? i am just worried on how he will treat her and i do not want her to be hurt by this at all.......and yes i do care for him alot but have kept my self up by not getting too involved in the situation he is in i and just worried for her sake.....any advice would be greatly appreciated!!!!

2007-03-04 02:39:08 · 2 answers · asked by wendy p 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i've got a stead,he loves me alot.but recently he felt that he like a girl,and he told the girl that he liked that girl.The girl doesnt want to hurt me ,thus she told him to avoid her just to stop his feeling from increasing.the girl once liked him before but i dont know if she still liked him.Am i in their way or what???????

2007-03-04 02:37:29 · 3 answers · asked by sueann1993 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

complete the sentence by telling me what you think love is like

2007-03-04 02:35:47 · 23 answers · asked by †ღChristian♥Girlღ† 2 in Singles & Dating

Life is importent. During the short period of life , we must be happy and make others happy. A family is an important part of one"s life. I want to be a good husband.

2007-03-04 02:35:31 · 26 answers · asked by Kantham J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think it is. I hate romance. I have never thought about getting a girl because she would be intimidated by my dictator like personality, and romance is something I don't need. I would kill myself if I started to fall in love with someone, but that shouldn't happen because I'm blocking any attempt of someone trying to actually like me. And I can prevent myself from falling in love with someone. I am a soldier, not some loser who actually "loves" someone in their life. The only thing I have time for is shooting guns at target practice and bossing people around.

2007-03-04 02:35:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 02:34:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I turned seventeen in February and I have one of the most strict dads to ever breathe air. I don't have my license, and my dad won't let me get it yet, and I don't know why. I've had my permit since June, and been driving and practicing ALL THE TIME, and he says I can't drive and I'm not ready to yet. That's so unfair, and I know that isn't his real reason. I CAN drive. He has other reasons for why he really doesn't want me to have it. Also, he won't EVER let me have guy friends, and he definitely won't let me have a boyfriend. I do though, I talk to him often, but we can't ever hang out. If I ask my dad to hang out with him he turns me down. My mother allows me to hang out with him sometimes, without my dad knowing. My dad always says he doesn't trust me, but how can I earn trust with him if I can't go do anything to gain it? I haven't done anything in the past to have lost trust either. I get decent grades, help around the house, and I'm even trying to get a job. Help :[

2007-03-04 02:34:31 · 12 answers · asked by erika 2 in Family

ok my bf just dumped me. how can i get a new 1 w/out thinking about my 'x'?

2007-03-04 02:32:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are you against love marriage

2007-03-04 02:31:12 · 18 answers · asked by SEITHINTAZAR S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-04 02:30:45 · 13 answers · asked by masturbator 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been going to school with the same people since 4th grade (im now in 11th) and im getting sick of these people. the only way i know to meet new people is through the internet but that is dangerous. i don't know what to do!! HELP!!!

2007-03-04 02:30:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends