Ive been dating this guy for almost 2 months now. We have never kissed but we both want to. Well when he leans into kiss me i always pull away and I know im nervous because ive never kissed anyone before and i dont want to be bad at it. Soem of the reason im nervous is because we were just about to kiss and my mom walked in so now everytime he tris to kiss me i think of that and pull away. Is he mad at me? How do i make myself not nervous? Should i have my eyes closed? What should I do!!!!! please help me
2007-03-04 02:41:09 · 13 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok.. everyone is always nervous before ur first kiss and there is no way around tat *except getting it over with*! I went through the same thing u are going through. i was so nervous... but i went in and after the first one its as easy as eating pie.
***How to Kiss
When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.
What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.
On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...
****French kissing
(or Frenching)
French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.
Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)
or until your annoying little brother starts taping you
with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents.
See www.how-to-beat-up-your-little-brother.com for details! LOLOL
**Kissing with glasses or braces
If either of you wears glasses, just take them off
before kissing.
If either has braces, the important thing not
to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the
braces will dig themselves into the inside of
his mouth. Ouch!
If you both have braces, don't worry! During
normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they
can't get tangled up with each other!
****Kissing do's and dont's
A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad
breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and
have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer
him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and
onions just before. Or at least make sure
you're both eating spicy food, so neither will
notice.
Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's
as gross as kissing an ashtray!
You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or
after you kiss. The other person won't understand
it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were
laughing at him!
If u ever need anything else email me @: godsbaby42@yahoo.com
*Much Love* **God Bless**
2007-03-04 02:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Kat I think you are very interesting and I think it's so sweet that you haven't kissed yet. Oh! how wonderful and thrilling it will be when you finally do. I can't imagine the thoughts you have been having over kissing this guy, and I can imagine he has some of the same too. You both sound so precious. The time will come, and it will be as natural and special because you have waited so long. Just be yourself and you probably will close your eyes. I'm pretty darn sure you'll be good at it. Don't be afraid, you won't be bad at it. It will be even more the special and sweet because of the anticipation. If you keep resisting though, for too long he will begin to think there is something terribly wrong. I believe it is probably his first too, it sounds like it very well could be. Just let it flow- and ride with the tide. You need to relax more and let nature take it's course-kissing that is. just kissing. you precious thing I know it will turn out great for you and him too. Just relax. You thinking too much.
2007-03-04 10:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably nervous to kiss him because it would be your first kiss, or that you were traumatized from that incident with your mom. First kiss isn't always that bad. When my first boyfriend tried to kiss me, I would pull away, but I told myself if I pull away he would think that I didn't want to kiss him when I really did want to. One day, I admitted to him that he would be my first kiss. He didn't laugh about it, let alone get mad. Instead he was willing to teach me how to do it! It was just kissing, but when he dropped me off my house we kissed and I thought of the kissing scenes I've seen in movies and the detailed kissing parts of romance books I've read, and so I French kissed him!
It's normal to feel nervous in your first time. You just have to be brave enough to do it, or else you would never find out how good a kiss can be. It doesn't matter whether you close your eyes or not when you kiss, but usually people close their eyes so they could truly feel the heat of the kiss.
2007-03-04 10:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by Luna 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You must be very young. When he leans over to kiss you, just gently lean foreward with your lips open about 1/8 of an inch and follow his lead. It will all be very natural after a couple of times. You can close your eyes because if you leave them open and he leaves his open, you will suddenly feel stupid.
Being nervous is natural. Relax.
2007-03-04 10:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by happydawg 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to make you not nervous. it's your first kiss, you'll remember it for the rest of your life. and when your about to do it dont thikn about your mom because thats probably not gonna happen again.. or just lock the door so it wont happen.. and as for what you do.. close your eyes and just follow him.. its not hard.. just copy what he does.. let him lead the way... if you dont kiss him soon he might get annoyed.. because 2 months without a single kiss has to be killing him inside.
2007-03-04 10:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by Pookie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u like him u should feel safe and comfortable waiting the kiss. plus where he want to kiss u on the check or lips??? that also make a difference.
by the way be nice do not push tell him that someone might see u could be much nicer than pushing him
2007-03-04 10:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just close ur eyes, and tell urself, if i don't do it know, i never will. Go faster than usual, cuz if u don't, then u might pull away again. Don't be nervous. Everybody must overcum this thing @ one point in their life
2007-03-04 10:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, i've never kissed anyone but dont think about your mom just think about him and if you have to, close your eyes. Just breathe and live within the moment! good luck!
2007-03-04 10:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Karen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i used 2 be like that.... when he leans in judst give him a peck... u dont wanna make-out on ur first time... the increase the time that u guys hold ur lips 2gether... after a while ull get used 2 it and ull make-out... well about ur mom thing... i happens 2 everybody.... judst be calm relax, closed ur eyes when ur feel ur lips are almost touching nd enjoy.... need anymore info im me....
2007-03-04 10:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by ♫♪Expecting #1!! ♫♪ :} ♥june 15, 2011♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old are you that you have never kissed someone before
you would findout if you would just not pull away everytime
2007-03-04 10:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋