hello,
well i have a stipulation and don't know what to do......well my youngest childs father is having twins or he thinks.......i have no order for child support and he see's his daughter when he wants and most weekends.....i do not believe in keeping children from their fathers......but my question to you is would you take your anger and fustration out on your ex????or not see your child due to the new ones coming???? i am just worried on how he will treat her and i do not want her to be hurt by this at all.......and yes i do care for him alot but have kept my self up by not getting too involved in the situation he is in i and just worried for her sake.....any advice would be greatly appreciated!!!!
2007-03-04 02:39:08 · 2 answers · asked by wendy p 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The right thing is NEVER show anger in front of the kids.
Praise in public, punish in private.
2007-03-04 02:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all,you should not worry about "Her" situation. Your situation comes first. Because you have not asked for child support,then you are letting him know,that he does not have to help you support the child that "Both" of you are responsible for. Just "seeing" his daughter is not enough. The financial well-being is very important. It appears to me,that you are really angry,because he is having children with someone else,not the fact,that he may walk out on her. (That should not concern you). Anyway-You are responsible for making sure,that "YOUR" child is being taken care of. It would not have mattered to me if my (ex-husband),would have had 100 other children out there,just as long as he took care of mine!
2007-03-04 10:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋