Life is importent. During the short period of life , we must be happy and make others happy. A family is an important part of one"s life. I want to be a good husband.
2007-03-04 02:35:31 · 26 answers · asked by Kantham J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be your wife's equal - no more, no less.
2007-03-04 02:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by bluejeanbaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First to be a good husband depends on the wife..If you have a neurotic wife.it is very difficult.Some women moan about things all the time that don't matter to other people.So to be a good husband ..work out what your wife needs to stay calm and happy.Some women like problems,this makes them feel as though they matter as "they are the only ones who understand the problem and it's up to them to solve it"if this is the case with your wife.ask in a "sincere way" -is there anything I can help you with-She knows you can't as there is no problem,so she will say no it's nothing that you would understand..But at least she will know you care enough to ask..Now and again treat her to a meal out.all the works wine flowers etc..if she likes chocolates buy a box unexpectedly..( if she asks why you bought them say Because I love you) this will allay fears that you have been up to something..Do the washing up after a meal .remember she has "Spent all day slaving over a hot stove"..in reality "5 Minutes with the microwave"..But say the meal was great,even if it tasted crap..If you want to be a good husband get a book on the subject.All wives are different .so don't over do the good husband bit as they are suspicious creatures and will think they have to watch you as you are up to something,..by the way ..every day tell her how beautiful she is ..okay..Flirt with her as if you've met her for the first time..make her feel important to you.DON'T PLAY THE FIELD .Stick strictly only to her..DON'T TELL LIES...women remember every word you say..and will bring up something you said 10 years ago..so watch what you say..only say what you mean..(nothing hurtful..)
2007-03-04 10:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by silver44fox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always tell your wife that you love her everyday, especially at night when you go to bed. Always put her first above everybody else. Always treat her with respect. Spend all the time you can with her. And keep in mind that even though you are married and have alot in common you are still two different people and do not always think alike and do not have to. If you can do all that you will have a successful marriage forever.There is alot more to marriage than just taking your vows, it doesn't stop there it's an ongoing promise that you should keep until the day you die!
2007-03-04 10:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When two people live together they come from different culture, nature and upbringing.
To be truthful there would be differences also and reason is above mentioned things, but understanding and giving time to each other will always work out for lifetime and sometimes these differences will bring you closer and making your relationship stronger.
No matter whatever is the situation always respect your wife and her ideas.
Both of you must read Mens are from Mars and Womens are from venus.
2007-03-08 07:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by kaliaarti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women don't always want you to make big gestures, it's the little things that count, make her feel she's the only woman for you. write love notes to her, get a card just because, and when your just sitting beside one another reach out to her, touch her, kiss her, and always look into her eyes like there are only 2 people in this world. and it's wonderful to hear a man ask a question like this, i hope my husband reads this and will do more than he is doing right now to make out marriage work. glad to know that some men still want to be a good husband.
2007-03-04 11:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by greeneyed_angel362002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being yourself a happy husband will make the person who loves you happy because you're sharing the state. Remember that happiness isn't a thing you get, it is something you let it flourish inside yourself, so it doesn't depends on something outside or others, it depends on you.
2007-03-04 10:57:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be soft, speak softly, don't exert works beyond her capacity. Co operate her in her works. Appreciate her. Do not try to find fault in her. Do not have high expectations from her. Have lunch etc. together. Go for sight seeing together frequently. Take care of due her requirements of entertainmentes. Insist her to be honest and just with all and before that set your such example too. Do not scold her loudly and in presence of anybody else . Explain with love. Always take care of her due requirements. Be religious.
2007-03-06 07:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the 5 love languages by Dr. Gary Chapman. Its the best book ever to help understand what makes u and your wife feel loved. Its been a great help to me and my husband
2007-03-04 10:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by =]smile[= 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
put your wife first before anyone else. love her in spite of circumstances, know ahead of time that there will be days when theres troubles, and days of joy. and not to give up when the chips are down, just stay in there and keep trying. always put your family first, love your kids, be supportive, be the safe haven she can go to in troubled waters, never criticize, name call, or say hurtful words, as once spoken they can't ever be taken back. be always positive even when theres a crisis going on.
2007-03-04 10:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Listen
2. Don't let her regret her choice
3. Never make her feel insecure
4. Take her to dinner or a date atleast once a week
5. Call her atleast 3 times a day from work
6. Discuss before you make any decisions
7. DO NOT THINK ABOUT CHEATING
2007-03-04 10:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
buddy u r allready a good husband to ask this question!!!!Keep it up,it shows how much u care 4 ur wife.
There r very few ppl who even think about this.
My advice 4 bcoming a good husband is -allways b honest with ur better half,they really deserve d attention n love .
2007-03-04 14:55:21 · answer #11 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋