should i date his friend who is a year older? his friend has asked me out. i like him but don't know if i should date him. thanks for the help.
2007-03-04 02:50:16 · 29 answers · asked by magicalle 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Dont date his friends. When you do things like that it makes you look trashey. Just move on. There are too many guys out there for you to have to date your ex's friends. It makes you look desperate for attention.
2007-03-04 02:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him then why not!
But Ive got to say that if hes still his friend you,re going to hear about him and maybe even see your ex all the time.I think in an ideal world another lad who isnt your exes friend would be far more ideal!
If its just a ploy to make your ex jelous dont go there!
Find someone else who you truly like more than just a friend!
2007-03-04 03:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by Lorraine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice for you is to have many boyfriends and try not to be hung up on any one guy when your young and finding the type of man that suits you best. Make all those suitors you have work hard to keep your attention. Competition is what keeps them all interested in you. Read a little about Darwin's theory of evolution sometime.
2007-03-04 02:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by bobweb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason why you can't date his mate. If your ex boyfriend dumped you then he obviously doesn't want to be with you so be with someone who does. It's none of your ex boyfriends business who you see anymore. It doesn't make his mate off limits. Go for it!!
2007-03-04 03:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to wait a little time before you do this if you just recently broke up with your bf, just out of respect. Also, tell his friend to ask his friends for permission. It's just one way to avoid day-time soapish drama that you really don't want.
2007-03-04 02:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Giant Donut 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't date him if you don't like him,nothing wrong with just being friends.You will give the wrong message to him if you date him.there are many great guys out there find a new one.Good Luck
2007-03-04 02:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's daft enough to dump you then you date who the hell you like. Good luck
2007-03-04 02:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by simon m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not a good idea. dating his friend will open up a channel of gossip. His friend will tell him all of what the two of you do
2007-03-04 02:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the boy who has asked you out and say you're concerned about your ex and don't want to come between them. he's probably already thought about this anyway, so he will reasure you and you've just earned brownie points with your new bloke!
2007-03-04 02:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Katie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with it, since your broken up with the boyfriend, its okay. u owe nothing to someone who dumped u. your free as a bird.
2007-03-04 02:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋