Family & Relationships - 4 March 2007

me and my blok have been together for about a year and we have just split up for good naw he has cheated on me 5 times and lied to me he went out last nite and didnt come back! he wont anser my calls its not realy in my nature to say realy horrible thing but i wanna txt him something that is realy mean and upsets him or something that will just upset him because he is always mean to me please can some one tell me something PLEASE!! THANX XXXX

2007-03-04 01:44:29 · 5 answers · asked by x HuNniBuN x 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a really hot guy, he is 27 I am 33. We had seen each other in passing and I ended up getting his # from his co-worker. We talked on the phone for weeks and kept making plans to meet that he would blow off (and I'd be there waiting like an idiot). We finally did meet for a few hours and we talked and chatted,kissed and were totally into each other. I point blank asked him to be honest with me, told him he can tell me anything about a girlfiend, wife etc, and he says he has no ties to anyone at all! I also asked him what it was that he wanted from me. He said to get to know me better, go out, have fun, and see where it goes. He tells me I am beautiful and he is infactuated with me. So we make plan to go out, I tell him to call me early (so I will know if I am getting blown off) and he never calls when he says he will. The thing is, he will call several days later with an excuse, "I was away", "It was a bad weekend". I just DON'T GET IT!!!! Do I have a chance here? Advice?

2007-03-04 01:44:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 01:43:48 · 13 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-04 01:41:51 · 5 answers · asked by Scully 2 in Friends

2007-03-04 01:41:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my boyfriend and i have dated for nearly 9 months.. he's a real genuwine guy. Ive always thought he was the one but my mom would never allow me to date, especially this guy.

a yr before we dated, he was so drunk off his face,a girl that had been chasing him went into the bathroom where he was, locked the door and ...stuff happened. (doesnt know i know)

Nowadays, she calls him most days, parties a lot with him and even spends all the "nye, aus day, etc etc" with him.

wen it was jus them two in the car and my bf turned on a sad love song.. she started to cry saying how lonely she was.

i think i have trust issues.. my boy is really someone u wud trust, yet is someone who clubs, parties, drinks alot.. what should i do? give him more time? end it? PLEASE HELP! im so upset

2007-03-04 01:40:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you take the gloves off for the actual ceremony, or do you put the ring over over top of the glove?

2007-03-04 01:40:43 · 11 answers · asked by Jamie316 3 in Weddings

So there's this guy and I liked him forever so when he asked me out it was one of the happiest days ever. Of course all good things must have an end. He lied to me and was a pretty big jerk and then he dumped me. This was all a pretty long time ago but lately I can't stop thinking about him and I see him in the hallway and he's so cute but I just want to get over him! Please help!

2007-03-04 01:39:21 · 4 answers · asked by RedFeather 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had this addiction for about seven months now, I try to keep it under controll, but it is a daily battle, it is so consuming, now my daughter has found out about it and through my habbit, she has herself become addicted, I think Yahoo Answers has alot to answer for, anyone else have the same problem???

2007-03-04 01:39:10 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and my bf are saving our virginity till we get married bubt how far is too far be4 that???

*six-twenty-six*

2007-03-04 01:39:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This past month he been giving hidden mean remarks, such as "everyone knows that, haha i cant believe you dont" Yesterday, he was talking to my mom, saying how he is annoyed of me and all. I heard and started crying, he heard and started comforting me like that didnt happen.

Now, today. my mom was cleaning, my dad walks in "you annoying, get away from me. ive got enough problems!" (hes still yelling at this time). He was always strict and contorlling, thinking whats best for me. (such as my future career). Why does he act like this, whats a good way to stop it?

(im not talking to my parents about this, and not going to as teachers)

2007-03-04 01:38:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-04 01:38:34 · 11 answers · asked by becca z 1 in Singles & Dating

can I do?

He thought the cat (always indoors) would like the snow and ice, put a harness on him and had him slipping around out there "skating" trying to make a funny video ... probably for about a half an hour to an hour.

He finally brings the cat back in the house, and the cat is limping and can barely walk .. he calls me all in a panic! I'm visiting my friend for the weekend 3 hours away.

I told him to take the cat to the vet immediately, but he refuses because it's the weekend and doesn't have the money to pay the emergency vet.

Help, anyone know what I can do?

2007-03-04 01:38:33 · 7 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-04 01:37:14 · 5 answers · asked by mermaid 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I absolutely love my wedding gown, I tried it on and it looks very pretty on me, though the picture does it no justice it looks soo much better in person. But now I cant decide which color bridesmaid dress I like best. Help me decide!

this is my wedding gown:
http://www.justinalexanderbridal.com/us_en/collection.php?linenum=15&totlines=-1&disc=
its the style number 8275, the pink and white

here are my decisions, we like them both!
http://jimhjelmoccasions.com/dress_db_occ/display_dress.php?imageno=2245&multimatch=x
this one is my favorite I think, but does pink and papaya look good together do you think?

or do you like this one, cause I think pink and wine look good together.
http://jimhjelmoccasions.com/dress_db_occ/display_dress.php?imageno=6645&multimatch=x

2007-03-04 01:36:16 · 16 answers · asked by *Baby Me* 1 in Weddings

The other night I went drinking with someone I suspect is attracted to me (and to whom I am majorly attracted as well). We're pretty comfortable with each other but are both shy when it comes to romance stuff.

While sitting there I allowed my leg (thigh) to press against his, where it stayed most of the night. My hand, while on my leg, would half rest on his upper thigh from time to time too. He didn't move away (except to scoot back in his seat occasionally), and I did see him looking at me sideways a bit, smooth his hair, touch his chin/mouth, and mirror some of my movements. When talking his mouth was right by my ear (the bar was pretty loud though)

Otherwise, he wasn't really showing a lot of interest - he was angled slightly towards me but not as much I was to him, and kept looking around the room. Would that he didn't get a lot of sleep the night before play a part?

I'm confused and not very adept when it comes to flirting/confidently reading signals; are these good signs?

2007-03-04 01:34:58 · 6 answers · asked by efansnet 1 in Singles & Dating

I didn'tgo to Prom last year at my old school but this year I really would like to go. Since I'm not dating anyone, my friend suggested I ask our guy friend who I feel close two even though we met earlier this year. He knows I like him so how do I make it clear I would like to go with him as friends and nothing more than that even though I have a crush on him. He's cool with me liking him and real nice about it. My other friends either live too far away and couldn't come or are immature. How should I ask my guy friend?

2007-03-04 01:34:50 · 3 answers · asked by Hiro a Hero? 5 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriends 1 year aniversery comin up and i have no idea what to get him

2007-03-04 01:34:25 · 5 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a 19 year old son. His father chose not to be in his life. He has graduated from high school complete one semester of college. He is in his second semester. I have always been there for him... Now it seems like he has no clue who he is. Doesn't know what he wants to do with his life. I want him to be happy.. I told him to look into the Navy, only because i think he needs to cut the apron strings.. If i die tomorrow i don't think he will be able to make decisions for himself. He doesn't have the confidence. My neighbor offered him an apprenticeship as an electrician. He is twiddleing his thumbs looking for me to make a decision. I don't want to... I want him to do it.. Even though it will hurt me for him to leave if he choose the Navy.. I think that is the best thing for him. Any advice..

2007-03-04 01:34:14 · 4 answers · asked by dottlander 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a boy you fancy says to your mate that he likes you as a mate but hes shy around you what does it mean and this boy knows i fancy him.

2007-03-04 01:33:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey, I'm just wondering what different girls like their boyfriends to do. I.E. My girlfriend likes it when I give her surprise kisses or when I come up and hold her around her waist from behind & stuff like that. Trying to get some other idea's on what I should do. We're in highschool she's 15 I'm 16 if that changes anything. Thanks for any ideas.

2007-03-04 01:32:24 · 12 answers · asked by new b-boy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 01:31:15 · 23 answers · asked by Norman T 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been separated for about 6 months. The whole time he has been telling me that he is not with anyone else and leading me on. I moved to another state and he came here to visit (he is still here). We slept together on Friday, well yesterday he tells me he's seeing someone for about 3 weeks. I took his phone and come to find out he has been with this person for six months and she is from work (I have met her before). He just lies to me over and over again. What hurts me the most is that he tells me he loves her. Realize I just found this out in one day and the only reason I did was because I looked thru his phone and called her. How can I take him out of my heart. I am a professional women and was doing great before he came here. I think he broke something inside of me. How did he forget a five year relationship in one month. Please help your advice is needed.
Thank you

2007-03-04 01:30:47 · 20 answers · asked by marla g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know how to tell them that i have signed up

2007-03-04 01:30:14 · 28 answers · asked by i_am_the_meerkat 2 in Family

I'm a prep but alot of people under estimate me i'm in all advanced classes and i'm really smart well obviously but people think b/c i'm preppy i'm an annoying and stuck up person but i'm actualy very down to earth and i'm not going to change for some people to like me b/c i already have like a ton of really good friends.but i just wanted to know if you thought preps were annoying b/c i just want to know why they thyink that??

2007-03-04 01:29:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-04 01:29:19 · 19 answers · asked by topal2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i met a friend online and we were good friends. recently, yahoo deactivated my acount and didnt tell me why, i was just chatting on my messenger and suddenly my account was deactivated and yahoo told me that they could not retrieve my password anymore. so i started a new account, the thing is, im feeling guilty because i couldnt reach my friend. and the worst part is that i couldnt remember his yahoo id because it contained some difficult numbers. if im not wrong it was john_1_(and some numbers). and my last account was carmen_from_my. can someone tell me how i can reach this friend somehow eventhough i have to go thru thousands of files and pictures, i'll do it. i tried yahoo 360 but it didnt help much because most people dont put much info in their 360. do someone know how i can find members with the yahoo id of john_1_

2007-03-04 01:29:03 · 6 answers · asked by getting_bored 5 in Friends

At the beginning of our relationship she used to dream about having sex with me(I was a virgin) and she seemed turned on by the fact that I was a little bigger down there. She has had sex with a lot of guys before me, so I know she used to like having it.

Lately however she just makes me feel bad for even wanting it. Everytime I ask for it she always says "Later" and when later comes, and I think she's forgotten about it(I try to be patient) I ask, and then she gets upset and then comes out with the "Oh, I didn't know we were talking about that." I just don't understand...

I as ok with her having a lot of sexual partners before me, even though at first when she told me It was kind of a shock, I still remembered why I loved her. She also pulls the "there are more important things than sex" card. Even though we both work, I go to school and we both spend time with our families and are preparing for a wedding.
Just recently she said "Well maybe we shouldn't have had sex to begin

2007-03-04 01:28:57 · 17 answers · asked by Jim 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-04 01:28:49 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Animal♥queen♥ 2 in Family

My bf of one years, recently has been spending a lot of time out of town, during the week and weekends. I may see him once or twice a week and we live 10mins away from each other. Last night I had a dream about him cheating on me, should I suspect anything? If so, how do I bring it up?

2007-03-04 01:28:08 · 3 answers · asked by SEXY LOVE 1 in Singles & Dating