The other night I went drinking with someone I suspect is attracted to me (and to whom I am majorly attracted as well). We're pretty comfortable with each other but are both shy when it comes to romance stuff.
While sitting there I allowed my leg (thigh) to press against his, where it stayed most of the night. My hand, while on my leg, would half rest on his upper thigh from time to time too. He didn't move away (except to scoot back in his seat occasionally), and I did see him looking at me sideways a bit, smooth his hair, touch his chin/mouth, and mirror some of my movements. When talking his mouth was right by my ear (the bar was pretty loud though)
Otherwise, he wasn't really showing a lot of interest - he was angled slightly towards me but not as much I was to him, and kept looking around the room. Would that he didn't get a lot of sleep the night before play a part?
I'm confused and not very adept when it comes to flirting/confidently reading signals; are these good signs?
2007-03-04 01:34:58 · 6 answers · asked by efansnet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like some good signs, persoanlly I would have tried a bit more of a "move" if I were you, see if the situation happens again and try a little something-something :)
goodluck
2007-03-04 01:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well atleast you have passed a message across. But it is not enough. Timidity is what you,re displaying and some guys in his shoes may take advantage of you. Try muster courage and say something, it may not be direct but since you like the guy why don,t you coment on something about him, problably how fine his shirt or shoes looks and wait for his smile or nod. You give yourself more respect that way. Goodluck.
2007-03-04 01:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to read every single move he does and figure out what it means.
Just enjoy being with him, and like you said.yo0u're both shy so he's not about to hop on ya in the club or anywhere else for that matter. Sounds like he Respects you and enjoys hangin out with you. I' m not sure what you're looking for......he was there with YOU*
2007-03-04 01:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you had all the right moves. .. it just wasnt the time and place to continue your romantic night.. try to get together again,but in a quieter place.
2007-03-04 01:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good signs. just play it by ear and dont analyse too much. it will all become apparent
2007-03-04 01:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead
2007-03-04 01:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋