ok my bf just dumped me. how can i get a new 1 w/out thinking about my 'x'?
2007-03-04 02:32:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-04 02:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u want a new one...just because your ex-boyfriend dumped you, that's why or is it because u need someone.Ask yourself first that. If the first one is your answer then don't just jump into a relationship because that won't be successful. If you still love your ex-boyfriend then win him all over again with your love and never let the ego work.If it still doesn't work-out then think this way that, 'He's a loser!' because he won't ever get someone more loving than you and you deserve someone much better and you will meet the right person someday. You won't have to search for him.
2007-03-04 02:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by jrom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time alone for at least 2-3 months... in order to move on, and get another bf, you have to forget about your old one first. Then, when you think you are almost completly over him, go out there again and find youself another guy... but you always need some time first, so just keep that in mind.
2007-03-04 02:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, give it some time. Sounds to me like you're just getting some one to replace him. Wait a while and you'll forget about him when you find the rght guy. If he dumped you, he's not good enough to even think about.
2007-03-04 02:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by Swini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't recommend you hop from one guy to another just to get over the first one. It will only cause you more pain *
Why did your boyfriend dump* you? Did he give you a reason??
You need to try to move on, but not necessarily with someone else ASAP* ...you need your heart to heal before you get involved with someone else.
Would you want the guy you're hoping to hook up with to get over your b/friend,...be in the same situation as you are....having been dumped by a girl..and wants to try to forget her , so goes out with the next person(you)* DO you honestly think that relationship will go anywhere??
Just go out with friends , have fun...and don't be so keen on jumping into another relationship right now..it won't help you to forget your ex*, it will just be someone to spend time with to try to get over him* It wont work out*~ again..YOu'll be causing yourself heartache...not worth it* Don't go LOOKING For Love...let Love Find you* .....but to do that...you need to get out with friends and start having FUN* LIVE LIFE~* GoodlUck*
2007-03-04 02:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allright, the suitable subject to do is write a leter telling her the way you sense and what you could choose to have substitute. you notice what she says and take a verify out to discover a place the place you could in simple terms talk. speaking is the main substantial subject that needs to ensue right here. Cumunicating is the suitable subject to paintings out a realationship with somebody. Your letter has to describe each and every little thing out of your component of veiw. once you talk, you may get her component. i'm hoping this helps! :)
2016-10-02 08:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u cna not forgot totally a person u was friend with but u can feel nutral after some time towards him.
try to be friends with other new people & do not compare them with ur old "x" if u was able to mengle with new people that mean u r in the right trck.... take time only
Good luck
2007-03-04 02:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting a new boyfriend will not help you get over your ex. belive me i have tryed. no matter what you do you will always find a way to think about him.. the only then you can do is try to have a good time.. it takes time to get over someone and if you find another person you like thats great.. but dont go out with someone if you are still thinking about your ex because it is not fair to that person.
2007-03-04 02:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by Pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time frist to get over him a little bit cuz u wuldnt go very far thinking about someone else
2007-03-04 02:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello apanda you deserve some time to yourself and live will get better for you dear in the long run it you will find someone who will wantto be with you and will find your happiness and the love you deserve to enjoy
2007-03-04 02:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by haroldgardner62002006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋