Those of you how read my last question "what the hell?!" you know that my bf dumped me 2 weeks ago. Well, there is this guy named John that i really like. He made me laugh everytime i cried. We have known eachother for alittle for than a semester (of school). Me and him talked for a while on the phone, and came clean about how we thought each other was attractive. Its weird now, because we planned on going out the last 2 fridays. and his mom needed him to work and his car broke down. so we didnt go out. at all. I call him maybe, every other day, and he rarely answers, and when he doesnt he doesnt even call me back. Is he not interested? Maybe im just covered in "guy repelent".
2007-03-04 00:48:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not covered in guy repellent! Be aggressive, but not too aggressive! Tell him you're not gonna wait around forever!! To me it sounds like missing your dates was coincidental, but he should call you back that's not right! Don't get mad or anything, just say that you don't wanna get hurt again and find out where he stands on the subject!
Good luck!
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2007-03-04 00:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by bloodcanticle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety you are young. Chill and enjoy hanging with friends and family and date if you are old enough. I take it you saying semesters that you are at least in college. Believe me when I say that if someone is interested you will know and donot call him back unless he asks you too. If you seem too pushy then that may be what is scaring them away. Let it happen naturally and let them do the pursuing at firt until you kniow the guy is sincere. If he is it will show. Put more of your time in your studies for now and when you least expect it , it will happen. Good luck honey and no you are no loser. Just in case. If you are making out with any of these guys that have dumped you ,stop. Or if u are not serious and just looking to get laid wear protection. o.k... Please donot take it personal. I am a mother of a 25 year old and I know I worry about him and tell him whether for fun or not wear protection and wait on taking the chance of getting a baby until you are older and ready. Good luck to you...
2007-03-04 09:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by copperfish310 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your b/friend dumped you 2 weeks ago..the attention/affection you got from John, who makes you laugh when you want to cry is nice, but you can't cling on to him. Perhaps you're scaring him away calling every other day...perhaps he feels you're pushing him into a relationship he's not ready for neither are you. You need time to get over your b/friend dumping you , not jumping into another relationship*...IF john has had to work lately and his car broke down...it doesn't mean you have "guy repelent" on you...I would suggest backing off of John, let him call you when he's good and ready to call you..he must have your number...pick yourself up...and go on out with Friends....have fun..live life*
2007-03-04 09:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do i have 'loser' stamped on my forehead?
Do you have a recent photograph to e-mail me and I can tell you.
Ha just kidding! Some times guys get busy and can't always do what they want. Here's an idea, if you want to be around him and he's working on his car. Show an interest. Tell him I've always been interested in cars maybe you can show me how they work, or maybe I can help you. At least that way you could spend some time with him
2007-03-04 08:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Circumstances are a lot greater barriers than we know, he may not be lying but on the other hand be prepared to say bye to him and even if you lose him you are not a loser. First of all, start noticing your positives and be confident, don't be too possessive you'll get someone else like you got this one out of nowhere. Try to analyse where do you go wrong and don't repeat the mistake.
STOP PITYING YOURSELF, YOU DO HAVE SOME POSITIVES FIND THOSE. BFS WILL JUMP OVER EACH OTHER TO GET YOUR COMPANIONSHIP.
2007-03-04 09:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by sanjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit pushing. You didn't read the comments on your last question. You need to work on your self esteem first. You are not a looser unless you think you are. You teach other people how to treat you but you can only do this if you know yourself. It would seem to me you are being a bit pushey and boys can take that the wrong way - here I am come take me. That isn't what you want to convey. Listen to what you are saying and doing.
2007-03-04 08:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by charliehc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not u its the guys u are getting involved with. not everyone is going to like us, but if he is not calling u back, u need to get over it and move on. don't internalize it, or blame yourself. this one is not the right one for u, theres another who is, just be patient and wait. this has nothing to do with u, got to be more selective. maybe he was uncomfortable about u talking about the ex. sometimes we have to put the past in the past, not keep talking about it, or bringing it up.
2007-03-04 08:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like HE has loser stamped on HIS forehead.
2007-03-04 08:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's giving you a sign, he's not interested in you. If you he really liked you, he would of stayed intouch with you. Do you notice that your calling him and he's not calling you. There's your red flag....
2007-03-04 08:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by Shanee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many details. I don't think you will get good advice in this forum.
Good luck !! G-d bless.
2007-03-04 08:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋