i know something is wrong with her it seem like everytime i attempt to go and talk to her and ask her what is wrong she starts to cry and don't want to see her cry i wish she would talk to me and tell me whats wrong or whats going on with her love my sister i just wanna help her and be there for her if shes feeling lonly or what i just want her to tell me. do i just straight up ask her what is wrong did something happen to u how did u get like this?
2007-03-04 00:35:55 · 5 answers · asked by ms nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stop, don't ask her anymore! Talk about other normal stuff. Get her out of the house make her laugh. When she is ready she will tell you. Meantime getting her mind off whatever it is will help her.......
If you stop asking and hounding her she might blab everything to you.........
2007-03-04 00:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just being there for her is most important, maybe mention that you know something is wrong and that you lover her very much and just want to be there for her and don't want to see her go through whatever it is she is going throuhg by herself. Let her know that whatever it is you aren't the one to judge or be upset you just want to help her through whatever. Let her know that if she doesn't feel like talking about it right now then whenever she is ready you will be there to listen. Just take her and hug her and let her know that you are there for her no matter what...
2007-03-04 08:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by cehajw1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard. Is she a student? You could talk with her guidance counselor. If she is an adult, talk with her boss. Many workplaces have counseling services for people in need. Maybe you might talk with her church and see if there is a counseling group.
Good luck and g-d bless.
2007-03-04 08:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mood swings honey mood swings don't ask her about "whats wrong" get her mind out of that area and go take her to like movies, ice cream, anything she loves....
2007-03-04 08:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by katiebug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try again,say her that you just wanna help her,and that you wish her the best!!!
2007-03-04 08:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by Melinda Gordon <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋