worthless? somone u love so much but you feel like they dnt care about you? they say they do and make make plans with you but nothing ever comes of it? and when you try and talk about things thats eating you up inside and they just get all defensive and walk away and leave you crying and all alone.
2007-03-04 00:22:38 · 27 answers · asked by me_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yup!!!just got out of one of those relationships, it is terrible
worse than any physical abuse, when someone you love
cannot see you or acknowledge who you are it can crush
you.....................find yourself someone, who makes you
feel good inside, you are with the wrong person.................
2007-03-04 00:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by gorglin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know it's easily said but honest,I wouldn't get upset if nothing came out of plans that had been made with someone that makes me feel worthless,actually my main plan for the future would be to dump him quickly.Basically the purpose of love is to bring happiness even through life highs and lows.If this relationship only brings you frustration,low self-esteem and eventually results in you sobbing your heart out every time you try to set up a discussion then you might consider call the whole thing off.
2007-03-04 00:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by valerie_adele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure have honey and as the saying goes, that which does not kill us makes us stronger. If someone is making you feel that way then they are someone that you don't need in your life. If they won't talk and won't see the pain that they're so obviously causing you, walk away from them, the hurt that you'll feel for a short time after doing that will heal and you can move on with your life. Good luck.
2007-03-04 00:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by babydee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
Yes I'm here at this stage also. My wife says she loves me but i just don't feel it from her. Its a very awful feeling and situation to be in. I've tired everything to win her over bought a new house, taken her away to swanky hotel. The works! Its very frustrating because you know that something is wrong and so do they and you try to talk but it just explodes like a bomb. Its awful to feel so unloved and blame yourself. I'm finding it hard to accept the fact that you cant make someone love you no matter how hard you try.
Take care
Idai
2007-03-04 00:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by idai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very selfish thing. We fall in love with someone and then we want them to fill all of our expectations of love. But they have a whole different set of expectations. We do things for them that WE think should really be meaningful to them, but again our actions are more about ourselves than the one we love, and these big gestures are meaningless to this other person who is dissatisfied that their expectations of love are not being met.
Just an observation. With the exception of cheaters and players, the rest of us want to do right by the one we love. But sometimes it takes a mind reader or two people who really are a perfect fit.
Try to communicate or be happy with the comedy of errors that is romantic love.
2007-03-04 00:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets hurt from time to time, There is a time to say enough is enough. That time seems to be right now for you. This guy is a parasite. He gets what he wants and leaves you in despair Find someone who will return your love, not trample on it. You're a wonderful person and wonderful people deserve to be loved. God Bless
What a Wonderful World!
2007-03-04 00:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by The Polish Prince 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband makes me feel like that on a regular basis. It is not nice and you feel as though you are doing all the giving while they take, take, take. Sounds like you need to talk about this to your partner and sort it out now. Don't let anyone treat you so bad that you feel this way. Just remember you are worth so much more.
2007-03-04 00:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes both people in a relationship are both hurting and need a shoulder at the same time it makes it hard 4 either 2 empathize.if you really love 1another seek outside help b strong 4 each other and remember your a team,allies.your team will b stronger 4 fighting through it.
2007-03-04 00:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by combustable2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i know how u feel the guy io have been with on and off for 7 years makes me feel like that, only problem is i love him so so much, iv left moved away met other amazing guys that have gave me the world and still i have came back, he never talks, doesnt take me out, doesnt appreciate me at all, he does wat he wants and goes out every weekend while i stay in. he always blames me when we break up or argue makes me cry and feel so rubbish, but i stay cause when im without him i miss him, there are good times in between but mainly its like this. u think readin it wat am i doing? but he has another side which is wonderful like he will cook my dinner, he gives me lifts everywhere and stuff. im confused too i feel like im always crying and on my own tho. x x
2007-03-04 00:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how much you want him. Could be better to tell him all that and see if it changes. If not, another one will be along soon! It is a well known fact that there are thousands of people out there who are potentially compatible with us. Trust me! HTH LOL
2007-03-04 01:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by R.E.M.E. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very valuable lesson - anyone who makes you cry more than once isn't worth it. Hold your head up high and walk away. There's someone out there far more deserving of your affection. Good luck and please don't waste any more time on him.
2007-03-04 00:28:08 · answer #11 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋