In High School Environment, there is nature, that people go for beauty first then whats inside. In college I see its the same. I have been brainwashed by it in high school. But now in College, i try to rectify the situation and see it as Inner Beauty first then Outer beauty. But no matter how much i try, i always go back to the way I have influenced in (outer beauty first then inner inner beauty). HOW DOES RID THIS BAD HABBIT?
2007-03-04 16:27:14 · 11 answers · asked by I LOVE BEING A NORTHERN YANK! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude im going to the military. Im from the being fat. Soldiers are most physically fit people in this world.
2007-03-04 16:32:52 · update #1
It's not really a bad habit. Whatever you find attractive you go for it. I once heard this man say that looks get you in the door but it's the personality that keeps you in the house. I mean c'mon no one would eat food that looks bad.
This will only become a bad habit when you judge people solely on what they look like and nothing more. Til then chill.
2007-03-04 16:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by Delaiah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter? After all, whatever it is that attracts you, after you get to know the person you will evaluate them on their entire personality, not just their outer looks or even just their inner presentation. Mother Nature gave us the genes to be attracted according to what might be best for each of us for purposes of reproduction. But if you're looking for a partner for something other than reproduction, then your criteria might be different. Either way, no matter what it is that attracts you in the first place, you always have plenty of time to make a more detailed evaluation before making a commitment.
2007-03-05 00:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok to tell you the truth inner beauty is something fat chicks made up as an excuse for them to think of themselves as having a chance of getting a hot guy. the truth is pretty girls will always get the guy and the ugly chicks have no hope unless they get skinny or plastic surgery and thats the truth. but you should do both its good to have inner and outer not just one. sorry to burst your bubble
2007-03-05 00:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by Gonzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I think I understand your question.....phrasing was very difficult for me to read....but....
First, realize that attraction is not defined completely the first time people meet. Attraction can develop over time, and with more personal interaction. Seriously, I dated a guy, and when I first met him, I thought he wasn't my type. After a while I realized that our common interests and personal style suited us for a closer relationship. So.....you may want to consider that it takes time for people to see inner beauty. And it is worth it, because someone that recognizing that in you is far more valuable than a dozen people thinking you are a pretty face......
2007-03-05 00:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal_Blu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah thats the reality unfortunately. It happens at school, work, basically everywhere! The evil Media has a lot to do with people thinking that outter beauty is everything.
2007-03-05 00:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it a bad habit? There's nothing wrong with being physically attracted to the person you are with. It's just that should not be the ONLY attraction. The ultimate relationship is a physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual attraction.
2007-03-05 00:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i met this guy on the internet and i fell in love with who he was on the inside. then i saw a pic of him one day and i was like wow, he's the whole dream guy ive been dreaming about. lol. i reccommend we learn to get to know ppl before we judge how ugly or beautiful they are...u know how some ppl can be really attractive but have the worst personality and it makes them ugly? well, get to know the person on the inside before you judge them. also looks are the first thing we go for cuz its our first impression. we can look at someone before we talk to them so its easier to judge by look first...hope this helps..good luck.
2007-03-05 00:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERYTHING WE SEE IS BEAUTIFUL THIN PERFECT GIRLS ALL OF OUR LIFE, I SEE IT FOCUSED ON MEN TOTALLY, YOU ARE SMART IN THE FACT THAT YOU SEE THIS, JUST KEEP TRYING AND MABE YOU WILL OVERCOME IT, BUT DON'T BE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF IT IS LIKE YOU SAID A F---IN SOCIETY ISSUE AS IS MANY THINGS , EVEN MY HAPPY RELATIONSHIP. BUT I SAY TO H--L WITH THEM I WILL BE HAPPY! JUST KEEP GOING THRU LIFE WITH YOUR EYES OPEN AND AN OPEN MIND!
2007-03-05 00:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it is a powerful societal ill. Fight the power that be.
2007-03-05 00:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you mature this should change all by itself.
2007-03-05 00:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋