My Fiancé James said he loved me tons and cared about me so much! Throughout our relationship he has given me poems.
About 20 or so.
I was reading poems on the comp one day, when i saw the exact poem he wrote me. I was furious, so i goggled some of the other poems, and he didn't write any of them!!
Not one poem he gave me, he wrote!
His marriage proposal was a poem, here it is.
http://www.winlab.rutgers.edu/~diwu/Family.html
I accepted.
I have been looking for him for a while, because i'm mad at him for lying!
I cant find him anywhere.
No one knows where he his.
He has no family, so i have no clue where this guy is!!
I dont love him anymore, and he is a liar!
What should i do?
Forget about him..wait for him??
Please help!!
We are still engaged by the way!!!
2007-03-04 16:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by Massie L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He told me to my face that he wrote those poems.
He said it took him hours and hours and hours.
I do still love him, but i am just really mad at him!
How could he take off like that, if he did love me he would at least call to give me a heads up.
I'm scared, but at the same time mad.
He told me he wrote those, and now i found out he didn't!
What else has he been lying about?
It's one thing to give me a poem he didn't write, it's another to say he wrote just for me and it took him a while.
I appreciate those comments who helped me, but please dont get mad at me!
2007-03-04 17:17:40 · update #1
I do wish with all of his life that he is all right.
He doesn't work, we are in college.
We live together, so i cant go to his house, because i'm in it.
He is not at school, and i've looked around the neighborhood.
Make sure to pray for him!!
I'm defintly mad at him, but i hope he is ok.
2007-03-04 17:20:23 · update #2
Peoms are just words. Maybe he is not a romantic person as you expect him to be.
And since you can't find him, you can forget about him.
2007-03-04 16:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 10:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by pipe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he told you specifically that he wrote those poems himself, I wouldn't call him a liar. What is so horrible about giving you those poems? All the time people exchange poems others have written in the form of greeting cards. Couldn't it just be that he felt those were the best way to express how he feels about you? If he was intentionally trying to mislead you, that is one thing. Just don't beat him down immediately and throw everything away for something stupid like this...the thought behind the poems is still there.
2007-03-04 16:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by griffon1426 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem like you are a pretty nice lady. the kind that loves to be treated with nice comments and romantic surprises. i hope that you can find someone that can give you those things that you deserve and someone who will be very honest and caring towards your life style. because, i think that your fiance have been playing you. but don't be hard on yourself. life is full of games. don't you change how you are because some stupid guy don't know what he want. there are some nice guys in this world that know how to treat a lady. you make sure that when you do find him or when he finds you. you be prepared for the trip of your life. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU.
2007-03-04 16:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by WILLIAMS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is crazy and sad he had to do that... but in the same light he wanted to make you feel special so at least he did make an effort..as for the proposal that is lame all i got to say is if you trully love him you got to understand he doesn't have anyone to ask advice from so i guess that was his way of asking for help...i would say just talk to him about it and ask him why he didn't think his own words were good enough
2007-03-04 16:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ashton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've found out his secrets, and are mad at him, and he has taken off, forget about him. If and when he comes back, explain to him your reasonings. If you wait for him, you could be waiting a long time and in the process, overlook other good things.
2007-03-04 16:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so angry?? At least he took the time to search for the words to say when his brain couldn't say them. Do you give him cards? (yes, right) Isn't that someone elses poem that you are giving them? Someone elses creativity that you are giving them? yup..so you are "lieing" to.
Men aren't as poetic and fluid with their words as women are. So he went, prolly for MONTHS, to find the perfect thing to say to you, and all you can do is b*tch about it??? How ungrateful is that!!
Get over yourself, find you man, and apologize.
2007-03-04 17:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmhmm.....actually it is a nature of male gender buddy.
If they want to impress someone (in this context it is you) they steal ideas from some where or from some one.
and i want to know whether he has told you that he wrote the poem himself or just gave it.
if you are satisfied with my answer.mail me at sam890060@yahoo.co.in
2007-03-04 16:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something doesn't sound right. how can you be engaged to someone who you can't find? don't you know where he lives or works?
i have to suspect this post.
if you "don't love him anymore", etc. then what is there to "wait for him" for?
being engaged is a promise..a commitment..if you don't have that, you're not engaged any longer.
2007-03-04 16:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by annenymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the average person doesnt possess good writing skills if the words he gave you expressed his true feelings does it matter who wrote the words? have you ever received a card from someone?newsflash they didnt write it themselves so whats the difference?
2007-03-04 16:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by clever1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋