Family & Relationships - 4 March 2007

I really like this guy. And we used to go out. Then I broke up with him. I didnt think I liked him anymore so i told him to go out with this one girl. Then he did and i started to like him again. He said he still liked me too but he liked his girlfriend just like a little bit more. Now he isn't acting the same as he used too. I want to get over him but I dont think i can.

2007-03-04 17:34:48 · 16 answers · asked by Alana 1 in Singles & Dating

I read of a German couples who are brother and sister; are going to court to live as man and wife. They are already had 4 kids.
I was wondering why it is wrong for sibling to be married. Not that I agree with it. It sounds real sick to me. But I was just thinking. When did this taboo start and why ? Anybody knows ?

2007-03-04 17:34:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dont have any good friends. I feel everyone around me is very selfish. I always try to be a good friend, I am 22yrs old now but I still dont have any friend other than my bf, we are very good friends from last six yrs. But I also feel the necessity of having other friends. My thoughs doesnt match with anybody else, everybody around looks very mean. Why it is so hard for me to find true frnds? Is anything wrong with me?

2007-03-04 17:33:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Omg ive liked him for like 4 years and she knows that but lately shes been huggin him and hangin wit him and flirting and i told her i liked him and she seemed to didnt care how i felt and shes gonna ask him out soon and i dont want this to happen.
What should i do?

2007-03-04 17:32:31 · 10 answers · asked by ҉Single Chick~a~Dee҉ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 17:32:29 · 22 answers · asked by daisymashobra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when i needed him he was there when i was crying he was consoling me n now i will say i quit will HE not get hurt

2007-03-04 17:31:45 · 9 answers · asked by dhwani a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell your girlfriend to just drop an argument....like you start arguing and it gets to the point where it seems like your just goin in circles in the conversation so you say jus drop it and forget about it,but they keep tryna to keep the argument up...would it b ok to say that..

2007-03-04 17:31:36 · 16 answers · asked by Tony E 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 17:30:53 · 11 answers · asked by Dr. Atlas 2 in Singles & Dating

is it wrong to be in love with a married man,,like i've been in love with him for years 15 to be exsact ,,and i see him all the time,,we bump into each other everywhere,,even driving,,i daydream,,i talk all the time about him and its driving me nuts,,everywhere i go everything i do i have him in my thought and i feel somthing from him when hes around,,but he's married and im not gonna cross any lines,,i'd rather it be a clean break ,i dont want to be labled a homewrecker,,i have more respect then that,,im in love with somone i cant have till shes out of the picture haha..i remember the first time i saw him ,,it was at a party 16years ago and we coulld not take our eyes off one another,,,,all the way out the door and my sister and i had to leave to go to another party,,but i sure wish i stayed,,

2007-03-04 17:30:47 · 5 answers · asked by darkangelflea 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 17:30:26 · 6 answers · asked by Bee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't agree with the whole idea and it come's inbetween his family and I! what should I do? I don't want it to come between my husband and I! well to tell you more about it! his family want my kids to know about the plig way I don't! My husband doesn't beleive in it eather. Its just hard to deal with! what can I do? I don't want to make them hate me! I don't know Help?

2007-03-04 17:30:10 · 18 answers · asked by Roni Lynn 2 in Family

2007-03-04 17:29:28 · 6 answers · asked by Christa C 2 in Singles & Dating

after my brokup with me he told the girl he was trying to get with, that he never loved me and was not physically attracted to me. NOW, I can honestly tell you he told me many times How much he was attracted to me and he showed it when we were together. Also, his mother use to tell me I was very beautiful and lets just say I dont have a problem getting a date. I am not vain But the reason I am asking is because he hurt me very badly. I was close to him and his opinion of me mattered. No matter what, I would have never devalued him to be with another guy. Why did he say this. When I confronted him he told me that wasnt true, but if she is a liar why did he continue to be with her? She is the one who told me. Needless to say I severed all ties with him because I dont trust him in any manner anymore. Can someone tell me what or why he said these things about me, I never did anything to him, in fact he broke up with me to be with her. They are not together but remain friends, I found out

2007-03-04 17:28:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sometimes i felt being abandoned because im adopted too. i felt that no one could help me.. i have a big problem that i cant even tell it to them. i know that they know about this too but why they cant help me with this.?

2007-03-04 17:28:52 · 4 answers · asked by rhean s 2 in Family

2007-03-04 17:28:33 · 4 answers · asked by Name 1 in Singles & Dating

I am having the most wonderful relationship with this man who is 20 years older than me. I ma 32, he is 53. Of course i am confused since i did not expected God send me a man his age. We are soul connected, great communication and chemistry, sex is incredible, i mean beyond believe. Last night we went to the Opera and i could see people looking at us. I felt a little embarrased since they might be thinking i am a gold digger. We are so happy, but...i do not know. What will happen in 10 years when i am 42 and he will be 63? Should i live him even if i feel this great with him??

2007-03-04 17:28:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Greetings,


I have a friend who is black. She hates to see interracial dating. She gets so mad when she sees black men with white, asian, or hispanic women. But for some reason, she told me she is addicted to watching pornography with only black men and white, asian or spanish women. She says that the pornography that is black on black does not turn her on. But the one that is interracial turns her on. But then she told me that she does not get turned on by watching a black woman with a white,spanish or asian man, but only when she sees a *black man* with a white,asian or spanish woman. What is wrong with her??


She feels as though she is obssessed. She has only told me about this problem. I have tried to talk to her but it doesn't help. What can be done to help her, she really doesn't understand why she feels this way?? Should I advise her to see a psych?? Please only honest answers, this is not a joke. This is serious. Please help.

2007-03-04 17:26:48 · 5 answers · asked by Tonya 3 in Singles & Dating

Even though you can tell, they love their wives and family? is it a game?

2007-03-04 17:26:33 · 14 answers · asked by seven-11 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is 27 and I am 22, and we have a 1 1/2 year old son. We have been married 2 years. The past 6 months to a year have been hellish for us. I found out my husband was having an affair with a woman he met at a local bar. I was completely devestated, and he initially turned everything on me blaming me for it and saying HE wanted to divorce ME.
Subsequently, I was suicidal and had to be admitted to a hospital for a few days, but was able to pull myself together for my son. After many battles, and a restraining order, we decided to try to work things out. Shortly after my husband lost his job as a police officer to a DUI.
I have been forced to work full time and be away from my son. We argue all the time, and I am admittingly a ***** to him because I cannot get over my anger and frusteration with the affair and him losing his job. I don't want my son to grow up in a broken home. I have a horrible negative outlook on EVERYTHING. Help?

2007-03-04 17:26:25 · 17 answers · asked by CB84 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I understand the concept that all cheating is bad however, I don't have a girlfriend right now but me and an old friend mess around sometimes while she has a boyfriend of over a year. Their relationship doesn't matter to me and I'm getting mine, so am I wrong?

2007-03-04 17:26:17 · 13 answers · asked by jjsingh97 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends husband is currently stationed in Iraq. She lives with her mother (with her children) until he ocmes home. He has been there since they got married. He does not send her any money to take care of bills and she currently isn't working. Does he have a obligation from the military to financially support her while he is away? I say yes but she said he can if he wants to, but he said he doesn't HAVE to.

2007-03-04 17:25:54 · 5 answers · asked by Nubian Princess 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I got drunk with my boyfriends best friends. I tried to kiss one and I guess I was putting my fingers on his pants line indicating I wanted to put my fingers below. I felt terrible and I kinda had a thing for the guy but not enough for it to change how I felt about my boyfriend. I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND sooo much and I wouldnt ever want to hurt him. We've all kept it from him for like a month and I feel like I need to tell him in case someone else does.
I would want him to tell me if he tried to kiss my best friend...
idk Im sooo broken up about it and its eating me alive.

I need advice asap.
am I bad person?
should I tell him?
Should i keep it private?
help me please.

2007-03-04 17:25:06 · 19 answers · asked by Omission is betrayel 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. i borke up with my Bf in nov. started seeing a new guy in dec.

Because of the break up... i was very hesitant about things going far.... i wanted to but... for the longest time i felt guilty and would always stop things at the last second. So in the last month. i got over my guilt... and started to relax and i want to take things furthur but now he's holding back. The last time we hang out(2 days ago) i put all my best moves on him... and he told me he had to leave. Is he no longer interested and doesnt wanna hurt my feelings or am i just putting to much focus on little details?

2007-03-04 17:24:41 · 5 answers · asked by juli_jugz 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 17:24:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Long story short...my boyfriend has feels for someone else, but still loves me, and I still love him. He's really confused...we had a big fight tonight and he said he doesn't think we can be together but then once he saw how hurt I was he said that he wasn't ready to give this up. He said that it's wrong for him to have these feels when we've been together for four years now...he also said he wanted to be with her when I asked...I'm so confused! I think maybe he doesn't want to really end this because it will really kill me...i think I might be in denail too though...because when he says he needs more time I think there is still hope...I love him so very deeply...he said our relationship isn't exciting anymore, we know each other too well and that we are living like we are married...he wants a week, I'm going to give it to him...but honestly do you think he will come back? Am I just in denial that it might really be over?

2007-03-04 17:23:59 · 16 answers · asked by wilsonfromthefrew 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so... I have been in a long distance relationship for the last six months and will be visiting my girlfriend soon. Both of us are virgins however she has told me she is ready to go all the way when ever I am. I think I may be ready but I was wondering if I should discuss it with my girlfriend before going up to see her.

So my question is, would it be appropriate to ask if I should bring condoms and whether or not she'll be on the pill or not? It would be great to just have the moment happen spontaneously, but I don't want to buy and bring condoms up for the first time and have her think that sex was always on my mind and I planned on it.

What should I do?

Thanks

2007-03-04 17:23:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok.........I met this guy through MySpace. When we first started talking (only online) his status said "Single". We never hung out and only talked every once in a while.. so when his status changed to "In a Relationship" I didn't care or think much of it.

So.... we randomly decided to meet up not too long ago and we hit it off. I didn't want to ask about the relationship thing since I didn't to look obsessive or anything since I just met him and didn't know how he felt about me..

Now it's really bothering me.. I dont know how to bring it up without sounding dumb.. because you know when someone says something about MySpace in real life everyone laughs or whatever.

Also, if this helps, on his top friends there are a bunch of people and I am the 2nd girl.

Thanks anyone for your SERIOUS answers! Sorry this is dumb.. but I'm trying to figure it out!!

2007-03-04 17:23:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 6 1/2 months old. When I am with her during the day I am very happy. I do everything for her. She is my sunshine. But when my husband comes home I get so moody and crumpy. I know it's because he doesn't help me around the house or do what I ask him but I get so moody with him.

2007-03-04 17:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-04 17:22:27 · 10 answers · asked by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend said to me today that, "Your Life doesn't have to completely revolve around me." I do agree with his statement, no one should focus all their time on one person and if they do then who will they have to fall back on? Well anyway my question is how do I show him that I have a life beyond him? I work full-time as a nurse and talk to him about that a lot. I have friends but don't hang out with them a lot. When I have any free time I make him the priority and will hang with him before I do anything else. Any Advice?

2007-03-04 17:22:10 · 6 answers · asked by juniper 4 in Singles & Dating