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sometimes i felt being abandoned because im adopted too. i felt that no one could help me.. i have a big problem that i cant even tell it to them. i know that they know about this too but why they cant help me with this.?

2007-03-04 17:28:52 · 4 answers · asked by rhean s 2 in Family & Relationships Family

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You need to find someone you trust that you can talk with about your big problem. Find a teacher, a friend, a school counselor, a therapist, a church worker.

2007-03-04 17:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Cris O 5 · 1 0

A mother cannot ever forget her child(ren). No matter what the circumstances. She did not abandon you. If she had, you would have been left all alone. You were adopted. That shows love, care aond concern for you. Yes, this adoption shows her love for you. Wanting you to be cared for and loved, and provided for in a way that she could not, at the time. What is your big problem that they know about? Why can't they help you on this-is "this" the quesiton you are asking us? Or, the big problem something else? As being your adoptive parents, they should be there for you for anything and everything you need them for. Please, ask if you can sit down and talk with them. Let them know if it's something that is confidential-so they won't mention it to anyone-to make sure they don't. I'm sure they care a great deal about you. I hope this helps answer your question and concerns. I wish you the best. Take care.

2007-03-05 01:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by SAK 6 · 0 0

there's no such thing as a mother who doesn't love her child or children.. i believe that even those who hurt their children physically or emotionally still loves their children.. an obvious sign of her great love to you is that she carried you to her womb for 9 months.. she sacrificed that long for you to see and experience the wonderful things in this world.. maybe she's just not ready to face her responsibilities as a mother but it doesn't mean that she doesn't love you.. don't feel abandoned because you are lucky to have a foster family..

2007-03-05 01:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by the-it-girl 1 · 0 0

Depends on the woman. some will some wont

2007-03-05 01:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by Freethinking Liberal 7 · 0 0

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