Family & Relationships - 4 March 2007

I had a gay male friend who's as beautiful on the inside as he is on the outside. Whenever we go out girls either stare at him or look at me with pure envy. He's really sweet, really keen, understanding and has a really high EQ.

He recently came out and told me that he had become straight. He said he no longer felt attracted to guys and desired women more and was glad never to have slept with a guy. He then admitted that he was in love with me. He loves me.

However, I have a boyfriend that he doesn't know about. He's a really great friend and I don't want our friendship to end by me rejecting and hurting him. How can I handle this situation?

2007-03-04 18:08:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, I met this great girl a couple months ago and we went out and everything and we both like each other a lot, the problem is her older sister is very very protective, she basically runs her life. And its been hard for me to get a second date with my girl because of her sister. I don't know what to do. I have some ideas,tell me what you think or share some of yours. First idea, is leave a bouquet of flowers by the older sisters door step with a letter asking her permission or just ask both of them out that way the sister could get to know me better. Second, show up at the sisters work, and pretend I ran into her by accident and start a conversation and start to build up from their, because shes seen me but we've never actually talked before. Pleassssse help if you guys have better ideas.

2007-03-04 18:08:24 · 3 answers · asked by 619 1 in Singles & Dating

again!U should go to my profile to get the detailed question, Please do. Anyway I was just wondering where You think I would stand with this lady. I met her in the bar/restaurant. we talked a little. I think she flirted back she said she didnt have a dude. I left my number on the check. that was friday today is sunday I went there for drinks again and she came up to me and asked how the rest of friday went. (i drank some there) I told her I was planning to come in thursday she told me I work thur nite so told her Id see her then. so what you think what is the best way to win her ladies?

2007-03-04 18:07:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i let my friend move into my house with me and my family for a week. last night i found out she stole my bank card and took my money and she was stealing clothes from my sister. she was my good friend for about 8 years and im tottaly upset she could do something like this to me. i dont know how to react or how i should handle this, ive kicked her out, but i feel i need to do more..what do i do?

2007-03-04 18:05:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-04 18:04:34 · 19 answers · asked by netta 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's sister is 17 years old. She's been smoking pot for years now and she even has done 3 hits of E with alcohol. Her father doesn't do anything to help and things are just getting worse. My question is, how do i get the police involved? I have evidence of her smoking weed on more than one ocacassion (pictures) and things have gotten so bad that when she is high she has all her friends over trashing the house and stealing my boyfriends stuff.

This is been going on for 2 years now and there's nothing i can do myself, the father isn't doing anything at all, infact he's practically helping by not following through with her punishment. She's out of control and this is just an extra burden on my life. Any advice would be great. Thank you in advance.

2007-03-04 18:03:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you tell your own husband that youu want a divorce? We've been married for 4 years and I've lost love for in a year and a half ago. And I havent cheated but im inlove with someone else. Someone who treats me with more respect than what I am getting now.
FTI: My husband get violent when he gets mad. What should I do and how should I tell him....????
PLease anything will help... Just no sacastic comments

2007-03-04 18:03:46 · 15 answers · asked by Dana D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This might sound very immature. But I want to make my boyfriend jealous because he always does that to me. So what do I say when he asks me where i'm at? What does i say when he asks me what am I doing? Whats a way to make him jealous. Please help even though i know its childish!

2007-03-04 18:03:45 · 7 answers · asked by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm looking for tips in just starting to talk to woman. I've been outta the game for awhile and just thought I'd ask for some tips

I broke up with my GF in Jan. Haven't had any luck since. I see tons of hot chics at the gym I'd love to ask out.

2007-03-04 18:03:16 · 2 answers · asked by Frak 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 18:02:59 · 6 answers · asked by lil c 1 in Singles & Dating

So, I like this guy.
Sometimes he randomly comments facebook or myspace telling me how gorgeous I am. I say thanks and we move on with our lives. The other day he came up to me and started telling me about the Taking Back Sunday concert. I froze up and couldn't think of anything to say. I'm pretty sure he thinks I hate him. I don't know what to do...Every time he talks to me I can't ever think of anything to say..

2007-03-04 18:02:24 · 9 answers · asked by cfg-osu1@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering. And also what do u say to a friend to get them to be your friend with benefits, particularly girls. I don't think u say let's be friends with benefits or am I wrong. Thx.

2007-03-04 18:01:26 · 7 answers · asked by i_luv_krista_allen 2 in Friends

I need straight guy friends hit me up!

2007-03-04 18:01:14 · 2 answers · asked by Jay! :D 3 in Friends

2007-03-04 18:01:11 · 9 answers · asked by daisymashobra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was talking with my friend today and she said if she or anybody had a boy/girl friend. They would still think other people are cute/hot, like celebrities, etc, etc. I find that surprising and a little dissapointing. Because as for me, if I like someone, I can only see them and everyone else just doesn't seem interesting AT ALL to me. So my question is if you like someone, do you still check out other people and you find them attrative? or are you only attrated to your mate, or that special person?

2007-03-04 18:00:50 · 4 answers · asked by dot. 3 in Singles & Dating

I was wrenching at work triing to bust a bolte louse,I was pouling a bunch of face's at the time.out of the corner of my eye I saw my supervisor heading my way.I turned my head to see what she wanted.At this moment she was just inches from my face,Too close for comfort,Then she turned and past me by never saying a word.What do you think was going on.

2007-03-04 17:59:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 17:59:11 · 2 answers · asked by Ruprecht 1 in Friends

Parents.... the most important persons in our life. Their policy is to give give give & give. Giving love, care, attention & a bright future to their children. We needed them badly when we were born. Because we were unable to feed ,clean or look after ourselves. We needed their supporting hand on each & every step of our growing childhood. Our bright future was always their aim. Now after growing young, we care about our dreams our future... what about them? our parents? I saw many people running behind their dreams fulfilling their needs ignoring their own parents. Is it really easy to ignore the persons who thought about your happiness, future & succsess before you? Is it so difficult to live with them & give them the same care, attention & love that they used to give you when you were small?
My main Question is... Is it easy to live without parents? And the excuse used is 'we don't have time for them!!!' Can a person be so much selfish?

2007-03-04 17:58:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Just wanting some help on what I could buy my husband for our 10th anniversary. It has to be something made from tin........any ideas please.

2007-03-04 17:56:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend really cant understand his self. He is so unpredictable.

2007-03-04 17:55:30 · 9 answers · asked by eugene c 1 in Friends

WITH an exception of a few great men .

2007-03-04 17:55:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure if this is really even a question. More of a rant I suppose ;)

For a couple years I've been outside the U.S. doing church volunteer work in Asia. I had a girlfriend when I left, but I didn't really think anything about it. Now I'm back, she's married, and I can't help but compare any girl I potentially date with her.

Wierd huh?

I'm 21, single, and never been involved with anyone too seriously. I had plenty of friends, and in high school I dated alot, but now the only girl that's really out of reach is the one I compare every other girl with.

Maybe I'm a perfectionist, but I can find flaws in almost every girl I see, and only really find a select few very attractive.

*sigh* what's wrong?

2007-03-04 17:54:32 · 6 answers · asked by Hunter 1 in Singles & Dating

I never have been very good at the singles/dating scene. But I'm ready to start looking around again. I've been married for most of my life. I'm not looking to get married again necessarily, but would love to have a girlfriend/companion.

2007-03-04 17:54:30 · 2 answers · asked by jimmyjohn 4 in Singles & Dating

How would you react?

2007-03-04 17:53:52 · 18 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you know when your in love

2007-03-04 17:53:15 · 15 answers · asked by VIRA 1 in Singles & Dating

this man's elderly mom was dying of cancer so i (d) took her to love with him. 6 monthes after her living there the wife went and bought her a condo and on Christmas eve the wife left. I started see9ing him in june. we were very close and by the 1st of the yr later she and their grown children wanted them back together so she moved back in. he now text messages me and calls but i don't respond. he says he made a monumental mistake because he does not understand how he could fall in love in 6 months verses being with her 30 yrs. she did not want him until she found out about me. when his mom pasted she never even went to the funeral. am i wrong by not giving him another chance and feeling hurt because he promised me he was getting a divorse. instead his wife wanted them to try and hold their family together. why didn't she want this before i came into the picture. I ended up feeling used because i have never dated a married man in life, never beleived in it. he still contacts

2007-03-04 17:51:09 · 10 answers · asked by dd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It dependes of what? Only the age? how does it start? What a about a man that exercise on daily basis?

2007-03-04 17:50:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been friends with this guy for 9 years and he has loved me the whole 9 years, I'm not very atracted to him physically BUT when I'm with him I'm always happy and smiling I talk to him almost everyday for hours; But, I'm currently seeing someone it's pretty serious going on 4 yrs. but I can't ever be myself around him. With my friend I can sing to a cheesy song at the top of my lungs or say anything at all, not with my b/f I'm very uptight for whatever reason....Lately I've been questioning if it's love that I feel for my friend or is it the fact that I'm not happy with my current B/F??

2007-03-04 17:49:59 · 4 answers · asked by Danny82 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How will it affect my digestion?

I suspect she did this because I got the stragest feeling after eating it.

2007-03-04 17:49:44 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There was this girl i use to talk to alot, we were friends n stuff and i liked her as more than that though. Everything would all be good. Then just suddenly, outta nowhere, she stopps talking to me and ignores me when i try to talk to her? She acts like she never even knew me.

Then i said something mean about her to her ex and she emails me saying that im a 'backstabbing *****'?

2007-03-04 17:49:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating