Family & Relationships - 4 March 2007

people have asked what i like about this person and i could never give a real answer other than qualities that alot of other women have. ive been thinking for a few days now and i cannot come up with a definate reasons that set a person apart from someone else. so im asking women what is it about them that they want men to like them for (excluding something like "i want someone to like me for who i am")

2007-03-04 18:52:04 · 8 answers · asked by thelittlelim 2 in Singles & Dating

where can I find a picture of an old friend of mine. I found one once on the internet, but can find it again. I told her about this pic, she did not believe me. in it she in wearing only a skirt and a bra dinking a beer. I need to find it where can I locate. help. she will think i made the whole thing up

2007-03-04 18:51:28 · 4 answers · asked by K D 1 in Friends

Heavy drinker or alcoholic?

A friend of mine drinks heavily all the time. They are not antisocial with there drinking but I have noticed how often said person likes to get drunk. I have talked to my friend about the amount they are drinking and they responded by saying that they are not an alcoholic but a very heavy drinker. My question is there a difference between heavy drinking and alcoholism or is this person just in denial.

2007-03-04 18:51:01 · 24 answers · asked by preenster 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have tried many things, but it just seems bad luck follows me everywhere i go and im starting to hate my life. i feel completely unattractive, both inside and out, and get very anxious about work or social settings. i have learnt the guitar, tried exercising, saying/writing things down, but nothing seems to work. religion is not an option, because i cant buy into it. i realise that i am ugly (yellow teeth, very hairy back and shoulders, covered in freckles, short, overweight, pale, dry skin) and i just feel so ripped off with the way i look. i am 21 and never had a gf, or even a girl interested in me. i am too embarassed to talk to family or friends about how i feel as i see it as a weakness and something i should be able to deal with. i have also been smoking marijuana for the last couple of years since my father past away (i already felt bad about myself before this happened though). so what can you do to lift your self confidence and feel better about yourself?

2007-03-04 18:50:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 18:48:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends, such as daily chatting, or texting. Anyways, she always brings up a situation where guys (many of them recently) confesses they likes her and she alway tells me she blows them off. She even goes as far as pasting her conversations in a chatbox for me to read. She has claimed that i am like a best frien d to her and that she is my personal stalker. Why is she doing this?

I feel like this is a warning (like dun ruin the friendship)? I do see her as a good friend though.

Reasons i might think otherwise are that she spends time during her work to write me letters, calls me during breaks to grab food, and quotes chat conversation from and puts it into her profile. She has also subtly asked me to have dinner with her.

Is she trying to make me jealous because i feel like this is more intimidating?

2007-03-04 18:47:31 · 10 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

Yes, Yes, I know it sounds like a stupid question but my girl and I have been dating for a while now. We've came pretty close but she always stops me right before. Then she gets all frustrated because she says she really wants to do it but her gut keeps telling her no. I think it is that she is just scared because it'll be her 1st time. She's told me over and over that she wants to do it but she stops it from happening everytime. What can I do to help her get over her fear and doubt?

2007-03-04 18:46:45 · 25 answers · asked by Running Man 2 in Singles & Dating

I just moved from Iowa to California after getting married to my husband. I don't know anyone here save for a sister-in-law and her family, and a brother-in-law. This is the first time I've moved since I was 6 years old, so I'm a little clueless. What are some good ways to make some new friends in a completely new city?

2007-03-04 18:46:41 · 10 answers · asked by Citrine Dream 4 in Friends

my boyfriend of one year always has to get drunk before he has sex with me can you tell me why this is and am i wasting my time and deserve something better should i let him go cus its just messed up in my opinion

2007-03-04 18:45:25 · 17 answers · asked by poohbear27 2 in Singles & Dating

i liked my ex-best friend and i told her about it and she ran away crying...then i called her and asked her if we can still be friends sahe said she needs some time to think of us bieng in a relationship and us bieng friends then another friend of mine had feelings for me and she kissed me and my best friend (who i like)saw it and said its over for us bieng friends and in a relationship she said she was there to tell we can be in a areltionship but no then now she is leaving the town and moving to san fransico,ca we live in san diego,ca i tried to stop her but she won't listen....i don't understand what to do please help me....

2007-03-04 18:45:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My little sister and I belongs to a choir group. There is a guy in the group which is very nice and gentleman. When the first time I saw him I know that I am attracted to him and I know I feel the same way too. But I have noticed that my sister is trying to get close to him. One day she admitted that he had a crush with the same guy. It is the first time that my sister confess something about the guy she likes and I can see that he likes that guy as much as I do....

It so hard for me to give way to my sis, but being her elder sister I need to. The guy is asking me why I am so far to him and why i'm ignoring him...

It is unfair with the three of us...What should I do?

2007-03-04 18:44:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pls tell me the name of healthy condishner

2007-03-04 18:41:58 · 10 answers · asked by pooja 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 18:41:40 · 6 answers · asked by srinu c 1 in Friends

LETS LOOK AT HISTORY:

1933 Hitler gains power- 2001 Bush gains Power
Hitler attacks hiw own country (reightag) BUSH Attacks his own country (9/11)
Germans dont believe Hitler attacked his own country....Americans Dont believe Bush attacked his own country

Hitler Passed Laws Idiencial to the U.S.A. Patriot Acts.

Hitler Invaded Poland.

Bush invaded Iraq, Afganistan, and Will Invade Iran.

Hitlers Appoval rating was at 30%, Bushes Approval Rating is at 30%

Both Hide behind the christian faith, Neither are christians, they hide behind the faith to steal trust. like preists did to molest children.

Hitler Killed 6 Million Jews.

Bush, WILL....According to Patriot Acts 1 &2 and the Military Commisions Act of 2006. Terrorists can be deatained and KILLED without a trail

The governments Definiation of a terrorist is Christians, Gun Owners, Liberals.

We are moving into the TRIBULATION

The point is, Supporting Bush, is the same as Supprting HITLER.

2007-03-04 18:41:01 · 14 answers · asked by Historian 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yesterday me and my girlfriend broke up.We had a few drinks , and she started to act uninterested in me,she was going to her friends talking, laughing,I told her,i need you tonight to be with me.We were really drunk.She told me, i can't, im sick..The same day we had a great time, laughed, it was great. When we got a little drunk, s*it started do happen.The same night, i got a message, she wanted to brake up with me. I answered " i don't respond to messages, i'll see you tommorow, and we'll talk." Today we got together, and we talked. I asked her why she said that, was it something to do with me, did i do something wrong.. She said you are perfect, thats why i can't date you anymore. She said she didn't loved me, but she liked me very much. I do love(d) her, maybe thats why. I have to mention,she cheated me once with a celebrity,she was sorry and i forgived her.Today we agreed not to date anymore,but we will still make out when we feel like it. What should i do? me 18, she 15...

2007-03-04 18:40:39 · 9 answers · asked by hazard 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 18:40:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 18:39:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, the reason I ask is, obviously i'm Spanish. And majority of Asian Women who are into interracial dating is either dating a White guy or a Black. I ain't racist or anything, I love every race. But it seems like I don't see any of my race and an Asian race together. As for me, I don't smell, I'm not lazy, I don't steal, I'm not a bum, and I don't do all those other things that people claim Spanish people to be. I'm much better than that, and making alot of money with my father's buisness with investing and construction.

Do Asian Women Dislike Spanish? Will I ever get to date one?

2007-03-04 18:39:47 · 18 answers · asked by Tidus 2 in Singles & Dating

We have booked a male stripper for my bachelorette party. On the invitations I want to mention something warning guests that there will be a stripper so they aren't shocked or whatever, What is a cute clever way of wording the invitations?

2007-03-04 18:39:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-04 18:38:56 · 11 answers · asked by srinu c 1 in Friends

a guy?..I mean do they even know what kind of guy they want? I happen to see they are more interestred in a guy that can help them waste them than protect them....what do you think?

2007-03-04 18:37:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a little situation, the girl i like iz dating someone that lives about 1hr 30min away. How do i get rid of the guy without hurting her feelings?

2007-03-04 18:36:56 · 12 answers · asked by blankstarefan 1 in Singles & Dating

shes 22, im 16.9. Shes a bit quirky-never been on a date til like a month ago but she has alot of g friends

-Shes my dancing teacher (i take dancing lessons once a week at a studio - one on one for 2 hours) , and shes 1 of those very pretty but a little cudly, only a tiny bit. Shes very funny, we have fun together and we joke around and stuff. Were very very alike!
Sometimes it gets a little beyond fun though like stroking hands when were just standing still
What do u think it means?? - playfull or something more?

She asks me questions too, like 'do you have a girlfriend' and she tells me everything. I just wonder if she sais all this stuff 2 her other students or just me??

when she asked me if i had a g.f. (i dont) she said "i'd go out with you".She sais she likes spending time with me aswell

What do you reckon i do. I dig her so much its lame, everything bout her aswell.

I still DONT no if she likes me THAT way or not?

**were in AUS - NOT ILLEGAL -consent is 16

2007-03-04 18:36:25 · 16 answers · asked by che 2 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been unemployed for several years because I wanted to write my book, and she blames me for it. I live with her.

2007-03-04 18:36:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-04 18:36:15 · 16 answers · asked by ptrfeiss 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my gf been together for 2 years and it was long distance relationship. to make it better I been calling to her every day... it was fine she was happy , I was happy , but lately every time i call her it just not same anymore, we cannot have an conversation without getting in fight. i cannot go visit her because if i go back to my country i going to get drafted to army, and i don't want that. Last time i saw her it was like 6 month ago and i will able to see her only in 9 month or more. i just don’t feel like we going t last for that long if our relationship will stay the same... and other time i talk to her and i said that it is possible that in 1 year or 1.5 we will be together and she didn’t even get exited, she just sad, " oooo yeah . that's good..." i don’t know what to do... anybody know how to make it better? Or I just overreaction

2007-03-04 18:35:31 · 3 answers · asked by russian samurai 2 in Singles & Dating

when a girl makes a guy wait to have sex, she is considered to be respectful, responceable, and in control of her life and body. but when a guy makes a girl wait to get married he is considered to be inconsiderit, selffish, and only thinks of himself. why is this?

2007-03-04 18:34:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u usually think if someones good looking or a pretty boy that theyre a player. i find a lot of ppl think this way, even if the person doesnt try to play girls..what do u think

2007-03-04 18:34:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in outside sales and recently met this girl who use to work for my client. We have had meetings which eventually lead to lunch which eventually lead to dinner. She no longers works for my client now. I find her really attractive and she has a lot of qualities I love in a woman - education, drive, energy, and will to work. I am the same way. So far, I have made all the attempts to have lunch or dinner, she has never set anything up. However, she has never cancelled or reschedule, she invited me to drinks afterwards, and even introduce me to her cousin and friends - both male and female. I am a little confuse if she is interested in me as well, or strictly platonic. Also, I am 6 years older - 30 to 24. What signs should I look for?

2007-03-04 18:34:13 · 9 answers · asked by Confused Prince 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-04 18:32:40 · 13 answers · asked by netta 2 in Singles & Dating