long distance relationship .... help pleas?

Question

Me and my gf been together for 2 years and it was long distance relationship. to make it better I been calling to her every day... it was fine she was happy , I was happy , but lately every time i call her it just not same anymore, we cannot have an conversation without getting in fight. i cannot go visit her because if i go back to my country i going to get drafted to army, and i don't want that. Last time i saw her it was like 6 month ago and i will able to see her only in 9 month or more. i just don’t feel like we going t last for that long if our relationship will stay the same... and other time i talk to her and i said that it is possible that in 1 year or 1.5 we will be together and she didn’t even get exited, she just sad, " oooo yeah . that's good..." i don’t know what to do... anybody know how to make it better? Or I just overreaction

Answer 1

Man, our long distance relationship worked. In fact, we're already married. Yes, it's hard but it's all worth the wait. Just keep your promises even if it is just a call or something like that. Surprise her sometimes. Best of all pray and have faith in yourself and your girlfriend and your love to each other. Tell her to hang on until you are reunited. My husband just went home to the US and again, we're away from each but this is gonna be the last time. In a few months, God willing, we will be together ready to raise our own family. Tell her if she really is serious with you, she has to be patient. You should go through a process. Talk to her.

Answer 2

maybe 1 year or more doesnt sound exciting to someone who really wants to be with you right now! but i would wait happily and longingly if my guy said that to me. better that than never!!
maybe youre over reacting. peace

Answer 3

Long distance relationships don't work, and it sounds like she found someone else anyway.