2007-03-04 18:32:40 · 13 answers · asked by netta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him, you truely can't have be a happy couple if one isn't happy.
2007-03-04 18:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've been with this guy since you were 14 and he was 17. Basically, you and him grew up together. You've had two kids too.
It seems the relationship has worked out pretty well - other than the fact that he hasn't gotten a marriage license and paid for an expensive overpriced diamond ring.
If it's working, don't mess with it!!!
If he's a good boyfriend to you and a good father to your kids, what's the problem???
There are a lot of great relationships out there that didn't involve a wedding gown and a tuxedo!! And there are a lot of people who are legally married who have terrible relationships!!!
As long as he's good to you and the kids, and you love him, you should stay.
2007-03-05 02:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been together for 14 years, got two kids and you're 28...Where the hell are you planning to go? Did you suddenly win the lottery?? What good do you think you're going to generate under your present circumstances, if you walk out? Did you plan on taking the kids with you, or were you just going to come up missing, because I'll tell you now: you've got a long, hard road ahead if you go it alone after this long...
2007-03-05 02:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you going to leave? is it because you are unhappy or because you aren't married? Is a ring and a piece of paper going to change how you feel? If you really love him it won't matter to you. If marriage is a high priority for you why not ask him. Have you sat down and tried to discuss what the problem is? This is not a decision to be made lightly you need to think about you but you also need to give some consideration for your children though.
2007-03-05 02:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 yrs ? and not married? How about stay and think about marriage? That kind of seriouse situation that u've to think about seriouse, analyze relatioship and where is going to take you couple years from now down the road with no marriage. When i mean it serouse decision, i mean you should ask your friends and familly,for advice because they know your situation, realtionship better than any one of us here on yahoo. U know times flies by really fast, that what i noticed. Kids grow, we dont get any younger and we cannot come back to past and change things.
2007-03-05 02:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by M A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay and convince him that you want to be married. Tell him it would be better for the two children to know that their Dad and Mom are also husband and wife. There has to be a connection between you after 14 years. Why not close it out with marriage vows?
2007-03-05 02:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After 14 years of being there, why leave now?
2007-03-05 02:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't tell me u don't love him completely after 14 yrs togetherness?further who wants to take care of ur 2 kids?who wants to face the consequences?think twice b4 ur made ur decision.
2007-03-05 02:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if youve been together for 14yrs that would be considered a common law marriage. why not make it official? you didnt pose a problem other than that.. so, why leave?
2007-03-05 02:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why its hard to leave ....i suggest u to add some more information about why u wan't to leave so that i we can suggest u something good.
2007-03-05 02:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by *~*A$!F*~* 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No don't leave. You may have to get a job and work.
2007-03-05 02:37:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋