Yesterday me and my girlfriend broke up.We had a few drinks , and she started to act uninterested in me,she was going to her friends talking, laughing,I told her,i need you tonight to be with me.We were really drunk.She told me, i can't, im sick..The same day we had a great time, laughed, it was great. When we got a little drunk, s*it started do happen.The same night, i got a message, she wanted to brake up with me. I answered " i don't respond to messages, i'll see you tommorow, and we'll talk." Today we got together, and we talked. I asked her why she said that, was it something to do with me, did i do something wrong.. She said you are perfect, thats why i can't date you anymore. She said she didn't loved me, but she liked me very much. I do love(d) her, maybe thats why. I have to mention,she cheated me once with a celebrity,she was sorry and i forgived her.Today we agreed not to date anymore,but we will still make out when we feel like it. What should i do? me 18, she 15...
2007-03-04 18:40:39 · 9 answers · asked by hazard 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For ALL of you that say thats illegal or smt, i'll tell you that we haven't had sex yet... It's not all about the sex... i just want some love and attention... which i didn't get from my ex gf. But i love her... She is the most beautiful thing in the world... great body, face (she's a model)... anyway what's LOVE? And after we had a talk today, few hours after that, we were out in the city, drinking coffee, sitting on the same table. when her friends went out for a sec, she told me that it was really strange sitting opposite of eachother, and not kissing and huging. She told me to come closer, and we made out. It was really strange for me too, when we kissed it felt a little better. She told me that if she misses me this week, we will get back together... I don't know what to do... Is she making a fool outta me, what is it?!... I really didn't wanted for this to happen, this breaking up sh*t. Advise me PLEASE!!! I can't be with her, i can't be without her. I'm a total mess, HELP!
2007-03-04 18:40:53 · update #1
Mm... seems like she doesnt feel any more excitement in ur relationship. First, dude.. u need to chill. This phase is always the hardest, but with time, you'll be fine. Just be strong and resist wanting to contact her the whole time . Love is when ure ready to be committed to be with each other no matter what comes along the way, be honest to each other, loyal and be there for each other no matter what. It's what attracts you internally and not because of outward appearace. I wouldnt go back with her if i were you though because she's a bit selfish to think of going back with you only because/if she misses you. That's called putting her comfort first instead of thinking both ways. She cheated on you and only tried breaking up with you through sms instead of in person- and thats only because she's drunk. Is that called honesty? From what you said, i trust that you can still be good friends and it seems that uve got a long way ahead of you. Let go of this relationship and move on. One day you'll find someone that you'll truly love and love you back. This relationship, even if good, isnt matured enough. Good luck! Who knows, maybe one day when both of u are old enough, you guys might learn to love each other again?! But for now, dont pursue something thats not worth pursuing.
2007-03-04 19:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by Serendipity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like she is confused about her feelings for you. Why not let some time lapse, stay away from her for a little while and then see how things go after that. You may love her but if she can't be sure of her feelings you are better to just leave it for a while so she can think. But the fact that she said you are perfect is a bit weird, i don't understand. If you are perfect why is she confused about how she feels? I'm not sure just give it some time and then you's will both hopefully know where you's stand. Good luck.
2007-03-04 18:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's only 15. She doesn't know what she wants. Maybe you should move on and date other more mature people. You are too young to tie yourself down to just one person. I'm glad to hear that your relationship is not based on sex. Be careful with that, by the way. You are legally an adult and she is still a minor. If you two do ever have sex, she is below the legal age (depending one what state you live in) and her parents could freak out and sue you for statutory rape.
2007-03-04 18:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL, YOU ANSWERED THE QUESTION ALREADY. SHE'S 15. SECONDLY, YOUR 18. THAT'S NOT A CURSE, BUT IT IS REALITY. YOU TWO WILL BOTH FALL IN LOVE AGAIN PROBABLY 20 MORE TIMES BEFORE YOUR THROUGH. WHEN YOUR YOUNG, ITS VERY DIFFICULT BEING HURT. ESPECIALLY BY SOMEONE YOU CARE ABOUT. IF SHE'S CHEATING ON YOU AT THE AGE OF 15, ITS PROBABLY A BLESSING YOU TWO ARE DONE. ANY GIRL WHO'S WILLING TO CHEAT ON THEIR BOYFRIEND WITH A COMPLETE STRANGER (CELEBRITY OR NO CELEBRITY) IS NOT THE FUTURE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. THINK ABOUT IT? SAYING THAT YOUR "TOO PERFECT" IS ABOUT AS WEAK A BREAK UP LINE AS YOU CAN GET. I'VE BROKEN UP WITH QUITE A FEW CHICKS AND NEVER GOT THAT ONE. (LOL) I THINK YOU GET THE PICTURE. LAST BUT NOT LEAST, YOU DO NT HAVE TO HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL UNDER 18 TO GET IN TROUBLE. ITS CALLED STATUTORY RAPE. YOU DEFINITELY DON'T NEED THAT AT YOUR AGE. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-04 18:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by mike w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will from the sounds of that she is in control of the relationship. it sounds like she might have gotten a little bore or got a taste of something exciting. hey if you want to wait on her all i can tell you is that you better pray or hope she come back to you. that is pretty much all you can do. or you can start to get over and move on which may take some time but you have to make a decision and stuck to it. give her a little time and then decide to move on or wait. i hope i got the point across.
2007-03-04 19:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really hard to udnerstand. from what i can see. it may be that she decided to see somebody else. it may be that her friends told her somthing about you. there are a million possiblities. there isnt enough information given here to tell why she broke up with you. it might be sometihng that happened that night it might be something that happened in the past. definitely talk to her and try to weave the question into it. but dont make out with her if youre not gonna go out with her because that made lead her on or create a bad relationship between you guys.
2007-03-04 18:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably dumped you because you were to easy. You gave her everything without making her work for it. Plus, if shes fire hot and 15, she has her whole life ahead of her probably wants to see what else is out there. Sorry man... next time date someone over 18 so you can have sex with her at least.
2007-03-04 18:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a model - so she can pretty much have anyone she wants. And there'll be guys knocking on her door. It sure is hell ain't easy dating one, as a male. You have to be super-secure in yourself. Pull yourself together!
2007-03-04 18:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by i♥sf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much info..
2007-03-04 18:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋