've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends, such as daily chatting, or texting. Anyways, she always brings up a situation where guys (many of them recently) confesses they likes her and she alway tells me she blows them off. She even goes as far as pasting her conversations in a chatbox for me to read. She has claimed that i am like a best frien d to her and that she is my personal stalker. Why is she doing this?
I feel like this is a warning (like dun ruin the friendship)? I do see her as a good friend though.
Reasons i might think otherwise are that she spends time during her work to write me letters, calls me during breaks to grab food, and quotes chat conversation from and puts it into her profile. She has also subtly asked me to have dinner with her.
Is she trying to make me jealous because i feel like this is more intimidating?
2007-03-04 18:47:31 · 10 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
women speak a different language.....sort of indirect a lot of times. I would ask the ladies on here what this means but my guess is that she either likes you or she is pulling your chain.
2007-03-04 18:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously likes you. If you don't like her back and just wanna be friends, tell her you have a crush on some other girl. Make up a dream girl and start telling her (since she is just a friend) how much you like this girl. And ask her some advice on what to do and what girls might think. If this girl friend of yours really has a crush on you, she might back off and might even quit being your friend due to the heartbreak. But she'll eventually bounce back as a friend though, after she falls for another guy.
The risk is your's to take. I'm just suggesting a way out.
Good luck!
Oh and the worst thing a guy could do after finding out a girl has a crush on him is by becoming a pig-headed j**k (sounds a lot like your girl-friend, though. LOL). The actual good guys know how to take compliments and still be nice.
2007-03-05 02:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by sk|TTLes™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is confusing. How did she subtly ask you to have dinner with her? She did or she didn't. Figure out which it is first. She could be just a good friend, even with all this activity. Women aren't always trying to make guys jealous, even though some do that still, when they're immature and petty. If you like her how about asking her how she feels about you and telling her how you feel? That way you're not confused. Good luck.
2007-03-05 02:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ruprecht 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From her behavior towards you I would say she would like for your relationship to be more than just friends.
If I were you, and just wanted things to stay the way they are, I would tell her nicely without hurting her feelings.
Take her out for a pizza or something and in conversation tell her how you feel about her as a person. Let her know that you really think she has allot of good qualities, you do not want to lose her friendship buy by her behavior she does make you feel uncomfortable, as you are not ready for anything more than just friendship. And you really don't want to lose the relationship you do have with her.
2007-03-05 02:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not entirely sure what she is trying to prove here. Maybe she is trying to make herself sound a lot more lusted after than she really is? In order to make you jealous maybe? Perhaps she is trying to coax you to make a move. Whatever it is it is a Little bizarre the way she is behaving. I mean, i don't know how old you guys are but it sounds like she is playing hard to get.
2007-03-05 02:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's into you and tells you about other guys cuz she's comfortable enough to talk to you like a girlfriend. but she's probably more trying to make you jealous to see if you like her back. Go for it! Ask her out, see where it goes. ;)
just make a mutual agreement between you guys that you'll take it slow, to be sure you dont mess up your friendship.
and dont be intimidated....be a man.
Tell her this...."Who's yo daddy?!"
then she'll fall in love with you.
LOL!
2007-03-05 03:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kimber Gem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hesitate urself n go 4 it as she likes u very much.take care.
2007-03-05 02:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry for her she being so nice and you taking all her action in negative tone
2007-03-05 02:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a lucky bastard - ask her out already! :P
2007-03-05 02:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by i♥sf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just want you to be her bestfriend not boyfriend
2007-03-05 02:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by marinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋