My little sister and I belongs to a choir group. There is a guy in the group which is very nice and gentleman. When the first time I saw him I know that I am attracted to him and I know I feel the same way too. But I have noticed that my sister is trying to get close to him. One day she admitted that he had a crush with the same guy. It is the first time that my sister confess something about the guy she likes and I can see that he likes that guy as much as I do....
It so hard for me to give way to my sis, but being her elder sister I need to. The guy is asking me why I am so far to him and why i'm ignoring him...
It is unfair with the three of us...What should I do?
2007-03-04 18:44:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie i would choose my sister cause u know what hunn guys come and go and ur family is ur family! unless u really love him then u should tell ur sister that ur feelings are stronger than hers ! well families do betray u sometimes oh well all i can say is the guy better!
2007-03-04 18:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Mei-li, kamusta na? The answer is really simple. Who does the gentleman prefer? I'm not telling you to be selfish to your little sister, but as much as possible, find a way to be tact in this one. In the long run, it might be wiser to come out and be honest as early as possible. That is, provided that the said gentleman has already laid out his feelings for you in the open. If not, everything might turn out to be embarrassing.
By the way, don't ignore him for the sake of your sister. But don't flirt, either.
2007-03-04 18:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dowland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did you tell your sister you liked him also? either way...she will be crushed to know it. if he's not with either of you....you couldve told her that he has feelings for you when she confessed to you ...so she could also understand the predicament.
my cuz liked a guy that liked me. he had no interest in her.
i married him. she and i still had a good relationship in spite of it.
his best friend became her boyfriend. he hasnt made a choice, but if he chooses her...she may feel bad for a time until she gets another crush on. peace
2007-03-04 18:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your sister know you like him ? Is he closer in age to you than to her? Why don't you both just be his friend and find another. Sometimes guys are nice to one sister so that 'a good word' would be put in on their behalf to the other sister. Good Luck honey, my mom's always taught me to have my sister come first.
2007-03-04 18:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by STAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you both like him but whatever you do do not let a guy come between you two. Your sister is WAY more important than a guy , guys come and go . Sisters are forever.
2007-03-04 18:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by yummybebe_16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step away and let your sister go ahead. Guys are reclacable, sister's aren't.
2007-03-04 18:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like tragedy at your age I'm sure. Let it go. Love your sister.
2007-03-04 18:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by squealy68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to be brave and talk to elder sister about it. Give her a chance of truth if you love her and .. him.
2007-03-04 18:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose neither, because, for one, i'm a guy and i don't date guys, and 2, i don't have a sister. . . LOL
2007-03-04 19:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy Medlock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u two love each other then go ahead cos this's ur future with the guy n not ur sister.
2007-03-04 18:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋