what should i do?

Question

i liked my ex-best friend and i told her about it and she ran away crying...then i called her and asked her if we can still be friends sahe said she needs some time to think of us bieng in a relationship and us bieng friends then another friend of mine had feelings for me and she kissed me and my best friend (who i like)saw it and said its over for us bieng friends and in a relationship she said she was there to tell we can be in a areltionship but no then now she is leaving the town and moving to san fransico,ca we live in san diego,ca i tried to stop her but she won't listen....i don't understand what to do please help me....

Answer 1

for starts, how old are you both?

supposing you two are high school or older, i'ld say she just had a huge misunderstanding or she was already stressed with the thought of leaving town and that kiss from that other girl was the last straw... certainly since she doesn't want to talk i think you both HAVE drifted apart unknowingly... this situation is very difficult indeed but can only be solved if you meet her for a date to talk... just explain how you're feeling about EVERYTHING--share like best friends :) make sure after you share with her she shares with you everything too... explain to her that talking it out will make her feel better--she only needs to start talking... gd luck...