There was this girl i use to talk to alot, we were friends n stuff and i liked her as more than that though. Everything would all be good. Then just suddenly, outta nowhere, she stopps talking to me and ignores me when i try to talk to her? She acts like she never even knew me.
Then i said something mean about her to her ex and she emails me saying that im a 'backstabbing *****'?
2007-03-04 17:49:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My sister used to do that. In fact I think she still would given half a chance.
Look I don't know what this girl's particular problem is but I think she is trying to pretend she is better than you. Some people often do that when they are around others with more money, more popularity or a higher social status, than them or you. It is there way of trying to make you feel inferior and to make themselves feel better.
As it happened with my sister though, as soon as the person with the higher social status left room, my sister was like best buddies with me again.
The only thing I can suggest you do is ignore her. Get on with your own life, and make friends and girlfriends with people who accept you as you are, regardless of your social status.
2007-03-04 17:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not into you obviously- and the time she spends talking to you. That is my guess. She's bored and wants someone to just talk to. When she hasn't got another boyfriend. If you said the comment to her ex- that really blew it. She might think you are a nice sweet guy but not the typical bad boy that all women seem to go after...My advice keep your mouth shut if you want to get on her good side- confess to telling her you said something to her ex and tell her you only did it out of anger. Tell her you are interested - if she says she only wants to be friends ---move on --- she's not worth your time and energy--and guess what if she is not interested -- years later she is going to regret it- if you are that nice guy all women push away. Look at it as Her Loss Someone Elses' Gain....
2007-03-05 02:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by lashes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said something mean about her and she finds out, what kind of response did you expect from her? Next time try being a better friend. Maybe she was just busy with other things to make time for you.But in any case, saying mean things about a friend isn't cool.
2007-03-05 01:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by chicklette0008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you say something mean? IF she is ignoring you it can be for a lot of different reasons. Maybe she likes you..Maybe she needs glasses....maybe she has a lot on her mind...maybe she has nothing to say. If you seriously want to be friends with her again..just talk to her, or send her a nice e-mail.
2007-03-05 01:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by ME!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ask why she did this? well the last sentence of your said it..you backstab by telln someone that she used to love things that are mean about her...even if she stopped talkn to you, you should of never say anything mean about her. Could of just ask her friends why she stopped talkn to you or something.
2007-03-05 01:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by KrucialEleM3nts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes a backstabber.
Try being a little nicer the next time.
2007-03-05 02:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably made her mad because you didnt ask her out. So she started thinking why is she wasting her time on you. After all, there are more fish in the sea.
2007-03-05 01:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl being a girl
also a classic case of u like her she dont like u
so she will be mean so u wont like her back
2007-03-05 01:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like an immature B*tch to me. Tell her friends she has an STD then move on.
2007-03-05 01:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to grow up, and next time keep your comments and feelings about some1 to yourself unless you plan on telling that persn your self.
2007-03-05 01:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by VIRA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋