You are having a good time with this new person, but suddnely you do not know if he is doing things put a smile on your face or just to feeds his ego. You both have great chemistry, but the guy is stingy. The person wants to be with you all the time, or gives too much freedom... What are those things we really need to pay attention before getting into a serious relationship???
2007-03-04 17:05:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Core values and traits should be the foundation for any relationship. Do you both believe and think the same way about the most important issues in life? Either it be family, children, career or morals. Does your personalities click? Is there a comfortable and great chemistry? Even if you two are really different, but do you share the same goals, interests or things that would either balance you out or you can learn from?
2007-03-04 17:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best policy is to stop analyzing ever little thing about him. Step back and look at the entire picture. Look
at him as a man, with both his faults and his good points,
but don't dwell on either...just dwell on him.
Now, ask your self. Do I love this man enough, and does he
love me enough, that we can enjoy spending the rest of our
lives together? If so, then you have your answer. I do hope
you were talking about a husband when you said partner.
Just be glad that he is not perfect in each and every way.
Anyone who puts on a mask like that is one to really stay
away from!
2007-03-05 01:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Northwest Womps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into yourself to find out what kind of relationship you want. You will find that you will be attracted to the same kind of relationship you have with yourself. If you don't like yourself, you won't like your chosen partner. If you can find it within yourself to love and accept yourself, to accept yourself without judgment, then you will find a partner who you will recognize as good for you. Look at your friends who are in happy relationships...and the friends in unhappy relationships. I'll bet the happy ones feel good about themselves and the unhappy ones are unhappy with themselves. But the relationship with yourself comes first. Learn that one and the rest will follow.
2007-03-05 01:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey moon period. Every one puts their best game on when you first start seeing someone. After about 4 to 5 months, their true self starts showing. What you need to pay attention to isn't their faults, its wether or not you can live with them faults.
2007-03-05 01:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe you really 'just know', thinking about your relationship is normal, but seriously questioning the motives of your partner, bad sign!
2007-03-05 01:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you are looking for in your husband-to-be. Some prefer job stability, money, property etc..so what do you think is yours?
2007-03-05 01:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure he's not violent
not too clingy
honest
and all other qualities that you look for in a person (looks, smarts, etc.)
2007-03-05 01:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by Ocean Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋