Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

I am 21 and i haven't dated in about 5 years - i have been in a committed relationship all this time. N.E way i am single now and there is this guy that i have been interested in for a while and i really want to approach him.
I am pretty sure that he is attracted to me cuz he is always staring ,saying hi to me etc. even we don't talk much.
I have never approached a guy before because i usually wait until i am approached. This time i don't really want to wait.
I decided that talking to him abt. my feelings is out of the question because i will sound nervous and he will not be able to see the wonderful person that i really am.

The question is: Would i come off as being lame if i pass him a note in class telling him that i think he is really hot and i want to get to know him better?
This would probably be o.k. in high school but is it too immature for a 21 yr old girl to do this?

He is a bit quiet so i am not surprised that he hasn't approached me

2007-02-27 17:44:59 · 4 answers · asked by J_J 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 54 years old and my wife died when she was 51 years old. She loves me so much. I don't have any feelings for her. We have been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. She died from an accident. I didn't kill her. I told her "I love you" countless times. My feelings for her wasn't that deep. If I left her, I won't have anymore sex and she'll be heartbroken and I will start paying for child support if she did got pregnant. I never fell in love with her. If I did fell in love with her, I know I will be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I am sad. To be honest, I am not sad. Before she died, she said, "I am very happy to have meet you in my life." When she was alive, I treated her like a queen.

2007-02-27 17:44:55 · 6 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Family

And i'm using the word "DRUNK as a metaphor to mean anything that overwhelms us, over powers us, leaves us in a babbling heap, mesmerizes us, and things that are knock out! to the senses and sends us into a stupified state of being, besides alcohol many things that happens to us in life drukens us, could be anything.....has this ever happened to you?... let me hear ya.

2007-02-27 17:44:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All of us are married but, one is going through a divorce. We all flirt with each other. It is one male and two females. I really want to be with him. We have talked about it several times.This other females also flirts with him. So we were going to arrange to have a 3some ( on his birthday) and we have a bet on who will back out first. We all have talked about it. We even talked about our excuses of getting out of the house. So i guess we have already started the process of our 3 some. What should I do?

2007-02-27 17:44:43 · 16 answers · asked by needing attention 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 54 years old and my wife died when she was 51 years old. She loves me so much. I don't have any feelings for her. We have been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. She died from an accident. I didn't kill her. I told her "I love you" countless times. My feelings for her wasn't that deep. If I left her, I won't have anymore sex and she'll be heartbroken and I will start paying for child support if she did got pregnant. I never fell in love with her. If I did fell in love with her, I know I will be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I am sad. To be honest, I am not sad. Before she died, she said, "I am very happy to have meet you in my life." When she was alive, I treated her like a queen.

2007-02-27 17:44:06 · 12 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Friends

I am 54 years old and my wife died when she was 51 years old. She loves me so much. I don't have any feelings for her. We have been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. She died from an accident. I didn't kill her. I told her "I love you" countless times. My feelings for her wasn't that deep. If I left her, I won't have anymore sex and she'll be heartbroken and I will start paying for child support if she did got pregnant. I never fell in love with her. If I did fell in love with her, I know I will be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I am sad. To be honest, I am not sad. Before she died, she said, "I am very happy to have meet you in my life." When she was alive, I treated her like a queen.

2007-02-27 17:43:27 · 4 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-27 17:43:20 · 5 answers · asked by i love u 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 54 years old and my wife died when she was 51 years old. She loves me so much. I don't have any feelings for her. We have been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. She died from an accident. I didn't kill her. I told her "I love you" countless times. My feelings for her wasn't that deep. If I left her, I won't have anymore sex and she'll be heartbroken and I will start paying for child support if she did got pregnant. I never fell in love with her. If I did fell in love with her, I know I will be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I am sad. To be honest, I am not sad. Before she died, she said, "I am very happy to have meet you in my life." When she was alive, I treated her like a queen.

2007-02-27 17:42:48 · 7 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a very nice friend but things r going a little hard with both of us. She is not having time for me and I am feeling like I have become a burden on her. I think now she even needs space and even I need time to think and sort out things. I heard absence makes a person miss u. So I want to be absent so that maybe she miss me. Can any 1 tell me what can make her miss me? or how should I avoid her for a few days? I cant tell her I want time to be alone. I dont want to be rude with her. So plz tell me what should I do so that she starts missing me.

2007-02-27 17:41:09 · 8 answers · asked by Help me 1 in Friends

why does she get so jealous?
whenever im around my other friends she acts all mad and stuck up.and i ask her whats up and she says shes not mad and nothings wrong. we were pretty attached at the hip but i do have other friends. she dont even talk to me.i kinda think theres sum stuff shes not tellin me.help need advice

2007-02-27 17:39:53 · 5 answers · asked by rockinweirdo 1 in Friends

2007-02-27 17:39:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when I give a guy friend a birthday card, will he misunderstand that I have special feeling for him?

2007-02-27 17:39:20 · 5 answers · asked by arien_le 2 in Friends

2007-02-27 17:39:16 · 5 answers · asked by NEMESIS 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so I have a guy friend who I know is trying to get me in the sack, and he's recently been thinking that I want to go through with that even though we're just friends. How do I stop him from trying to get with me? I can't completely avoid him since I have dance class with him at school and he often ends up being my partner.

2007-02-27 17:38:52 · 5 answers · asked by :) 3 in Singles & Dating

to make a long story short, im 20, im a fulltime college student, part time worker, hes 22 and he works nights (10pm-5am) we never got to see each other && we never got to talk on the phone, i was constantly miserable, but i really like him - but we didnt have anytime to see each other or talk, and he finally broke it off.

when he was telling me our relationship wasnt working (which i agreed) && we should be friends and he told me he loved me and he loved my family, he said i was cool and a great girl & he really liked me and he would still like to come up to my house and he asked me if it would be alright if he could still call me.

what does it sound like to you? idk either to take it it that he doesnt want to be anything else but friends even if in the near future we did have time for each other -or- that he does like me very much and maybe we can get back together once we have some more time..

im not sure, whats ur opinions..

2007-02-27 17:38:20 · 12 answers · asked by Alisha 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I have my first date coming up on friday. I haven't been on a date in a long time and I want to do something romantic/spontaneous/funny and I was wondering what you would think about this ...

-When I pick her up for the date ... pull out a rose from the center console in my car and say that I stole it from my neighbor? Would that sound funny, cheap, or lame? I'm trying to make it sound less intense.

_What if I say something like, "on my here I saw this house with the most beautiful flowers and I just had to take one" then start laughing so she knows i'm joking a little and then pull out a rose?

Just trying to decide if I should even give her a single rose at all.

2007-02-27 17:38:10 · 9 answers · asked by BlueEyez84 1 in Singles & Dating

I am very religious and i try my best to be the righteous as I can but it is extremely difficult because i can't forgive my father for what he did to my family.
He emotionally abused my siblings and myself then he and physically and emotionally abused my mother and sometimes my grandmother.
And it's like the things he said to me scarred me and i stayed with me and i try so hard to ignore it but it made me so selfconscience and insecure and i try to rise from my adversities but it is easier said then done, and everyday i hope i could find it in my heart to forgive him, but its like that part went numb, cuz it feels like yesterday that i found purple and blue bruises on my mom's skin and my grandmother having difficulty breathing because of everything that was going on.
My parents are divorced if you wanted to know. And its like he did this so many times before and he always said that he was sorry but he would continue to hurt me and my family. I can't even trust him? what do i do?

2007-02-27 17:36:37 · 13 answers · asked by dancingqueen 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My man complains that i am dryer than i used to be. So I go to the doctor and tell him that at my annual physical. My doctor tells me to tell him that I am not going thru the change. That we need to have a longer time in the foreplay area. He also said that some women take longer than others. However my man is so quick with the foreplay with his part. So I can do my part. How do I make him not be selfish and do me a little longer?

2007-02-27 17:36:19 · 12 answers · asked by needing attention 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-27 17:35:44 · 11 answers · asked by NEMESIS 3 in Singles & Dating

Ive noticed lots of my friends make the females pay on the dayes now
is this how its supposed to be? is this what the females want with womans rights?

usually when i go on a date with a female, ill let the bill pass me and let her pay
rarely do i pay for a female, unless shes really hot and i want to get get her drunk

2007-02-27 17:35:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(I'm a Senior in HS) I feel that in the past year with this girl that I've really liked, (who now doesn't want anything to do with me and we haven't talked for ten months) that I've learned

What it's like to fall in love
What it's like to love who I feel is the perfect girl for me
What it's like to be rejected by the perfect girl
What it's like to lose and be without the perfect girl
What mistakes not to repeat
Humility
How to forgive
How to accept
And most importantly, but the hardest lesson to learn
How to let go.
I think that maybe the reason this girl came in y life was for me to really like her, and that maybe had I not met her I wouldn't be as confident around girls as I am now, I wouldn't have learned so many things about them like for example they do prefer a sweet guy and have told me or stated in my abscence that I'm sweet (I overheard a girl saying "he's so sweet" as I left the room and asked about it later :)). Maybe I was supposed to get hurt so I could be

2007-02-27 17:35:11 · 12 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

He has gone through a rough patch with his old school, with a kid he has been in competition with. He is a little beat up. How do I help him know the best way to enter a new school. Obviously, I don't want him on the defensive, but I don't want him to make everyone his friend the first day. By the way he is in 5th grade

2007-02-27 17:33:17 · 2 answers · asked by ggirl 3 in Friends

Its like we are married now two year, the other female is her best frend since child hood and she also married , and she has shown her hots for me on more then one occasion , I am in a dilmma, how to handle this?. We got out as couples and have good fun. But I am never relaxed because of this? Should I tell her and break the freindship ...its crazy ...give me a good answer ...

2007-02-27 17:32:40 · 9 answers · asked by Smarts 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a misunderstanding over emails with my gf during the vacation and I ended up sending her an offending email. She got very offended. I apologized over emails, sent her a sorry card and gifts. No reply. As she was not ready to answer my call, I dropped by her work just to ask when can we meet. She was rude and angry, turned me away and asked me to wait.

I waited for around 10 days. Then, I could not resist and dropped by her apt. I called on her phone from outside and sent a text message that I am outside her apartment and let us meet and talk. No reply. I came back home and found an angry one-liner email from her saying that we are broken and not to contact her.

I tried to reach her over phone, contacted her roomie. All in vain. In fact, she got further offended and sent another rude email that she would file a restraining order.

I finally sent a polite email apologizing and telling her that she is more than welcome to contact me once her anger is calmed.

Would she?

2007-02-27 17:32:14 · 6 answers · asked by skumar221 1 in Singles & Dating

She for some reason said "It's not an affair"
married for 10 years then two weeks before she left me she purchased about 20 pairs of "G" string panties,which of course she told me that they where for me. I never saw them on her! Told me that she kissed him. Stayed at his house but only slept in the "guest bedroom"-whatever! Coworker told me that he crossed the line with a married women . Friend of mine saw her car at his house about 4 times while married. Rented a room in the nearby city to visit a counselor ,she told me that he came to the room and they just "talked". She blew the meeting with the counselor the next day and bought him breakfast . Its like she has zero freakin respect for me. What does a guy gotta do?????

2007-02-27 17:31:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am married but, I still keep in contact with my ex-boyfriend. Who I am in love with. I feel myself thinking about him more and more each day. Wondering what it would be like to be with him again. We have stop talking in the past but, we find ourselves missing each other and start talking again.

2007-02-27 17:30:32 · 16 answers · asked by needing attention 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-27 17:29:02 · 11 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i have three qoustions, one for the women, does size of the penis really matter when it come to sex? and for everyone,two how can u make the penis bigger? and three, does a penis pump really work, i mean does it actually make ur penis bigger

2007-02-27 17:28:58 · 1 answers · asked by armysoldier 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't know what kind of girl i want. ha ha. seriously they're all the same to me. i really don't know what my "type" is. i just know i want a pretty face with a nice personality but that's kinda vague don't you think? almost makes me yearn for the days of arranged marriages!

2007-02-27 17:28:49 · 14 answers · asked by RSDX 1 in Singles & Dating

he really thinks he is.

2007-02-27 17:28:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating