I am 54 years old and my wife died when she was 51 years old. She loves me so much. I don't have any feelings for her. We have been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. She died from an accident. I didn't kill her. I told her "I love you" countless times. My feelings for her wasn't that deep. If I left her, I won't have anymore sex and she'll be heartbroken and I will start paying for child support if she did got pregnant. I never fell in love with her. If I did fell in love with her, I know I will be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I am sad. To be honest, I am not sad. Before she died, she said, "I am very happy to have meet you in my life." When she was alive, I treated her like a queen.
2007-02-27 17:43:27 · 4 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When she was alive, I never once cheated on her. I knew if I cheated on her, she will leave me. I don't love her. I only like her.
2007-02-27 17:47:36 · update #1
and for christ's sake, does the tenses really matter??? jezz! fine, tomorrow, I will double check my grammar and repost this question tomorrow. I am in a hurry to post this question. that is why my grammar is wrong.
2007-02-27 17:50:47 · update #2
Even if she wasn't the great love of your life, she was at least your friend.
You will probably miss not seeing her day to day.
It's OK to feel the way you do.
My condolences and best wishes.
2007-02-27 17:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Stan W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that you dont need to explain your self to anyone you had
a loving marriage with someone for 30 years. so what every
your feeling for her it was something that gave her the joy
that she need, she love you and you treated her llike the
queen she was. some people live a lifetime with out find that
special someone that give them half of what you did for her.
if nothing else you were her best friend. and she was lucky
to have you there. so peace be with you.
2007-02-28 01:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean. I was never in love with my husband. I loved him. I was never sexually attracted to him. The feeling you have are real and they are yours. You are a good man for not cheating on her.Much respect fro you!!
2007-02-28 01:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it seems like it is time for u to go out there and start meeting sum suitable candidates! However, try not to let her family find out,... They may get pissed at ya,..
Take care! Have fun 'searching'!!
2007-02-28 01:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋