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I had a misunderstanding over emails with my gf during the vacation and I ended up sending her an offending email. She got very offended. I apologized over emails, sent her a sorry card and gifts. No reply. As she was not ready to answer my call, I dropped by her work just to ask when can we meet. She was rude and angry, turned me away and asked me to wait.

I waited for around 10 days. Then, I could not resist and dropped by her apt. I called on her phone from outside and sent a text message that I am outside her apartment and let us meet and talk. No reply. I came back home and found an angry one-liner email from her saying that we are broken and not to contact her.

I tried to reach her over phone, contacted her roomie. All in vain. In fact, she got further offended and sent another rude email that she would file a restraining order.

I finally sent a polite email apologizing and telling her that she is more than welcome to contact me once her anger is calmed.

Would she?

2007-02-27 17:32:14 · 6 answers · asked by skumar221 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

she might. give her time to cool off. once a woman is angry there is nothing you can say or do at that time to make her happy. let her vent. once she calms down she is going to look back at the situation and think about how angry she got and realize that she done too much. then she is going to call. if she thinks that people in relationships are not suposed to argue and she is that angry. then im sorry but let the b#$ch go. i dont think it was that serious to where she is threatening restraining orders on you. i believe that once you involve the police then you really dont want to be with that person. you dont need that on your record. it is better to let her go. so give her some time and if she doesnt call then, hey get a new girl

2007-02-27 17:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by misseshodges 2 · 0 0

You have made all the mistakes a man could make when a women gets pissed and breaks up. Since you can't take all that crazy stalker stuff back, the only thing you can do is cut off all communication. Do the best you can to forget about the situation. Hang out more with the fellas, and try to replace her with local bar girls that are only good for one night stands because we both know you don't need another relationship right now. If....and it's a big if...she contacts you, play it cool like you don't care and you're really busy. Tell her you'll call back and make her wait a day or so. The longer the better. Tell her your going to Las Vegas and your having the time of your life. What ever you do.....DON'T APPOLOGIZE AGAIN!!!! When you finally talk, don't say one word....just listen and agree. If she calls you stupid, tell her that you are stupid....basically repeat back everything she says. Do not explain your self or try to solve her problem...just shut up and listen and agree. If she cries, kiss her and hold her like there is no tomorrow...and shut up and listen and agree. Good luck to you man...stay strong and be patient!!!

~moralityisrelative1~

2007-02-27 17:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by moralityisrelative1 1 · 0 0

well I don't know what you could've said that would've made her that angry but try leaving her alone for a while maybe she'll come back if she's willing to end it all just like that over an email or misunderstanding then she is very immature and it is best you move on anyway good luck!

2007-02-27 17:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by MelC 6 · 0 0

hopefully she will. not sure how long youve been together or what kind of history you have together but maybe your gal needs more time to cool down and put whatever offended her into perspective. not everyone is willing to reconcile or even knows how. peace

2007-02-27 17:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i sure when things clear up with her she will give you a call but
you did all you can do. you aology to her. that all you can do
if she want to get it touch she will so just give her the space
and see how things go. good luck.

2007-02-27 17:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0 0

probably not. if girls want to break up they try to find something that u did wrong and expand it until u thnk its your fault when it really isnt.

ps its a girls way of breaking up without blaming themselves

2007-03-07 16:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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