Its like we are married now two year, the other female is her best frend since child hood and she also married , and she has shown her hots for me on more then one occasion , I am in a dilmma, how to handle this?. We got out as couples and have good fun. But I am never relaxed because of this? Should I tell her and break the freindship ...its crazy ...give me a good answer ...
2007-02-27 17:32:40 · 9 answers · asked by Smarts 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell your wife, just so she is aware that her friend is even doing this. this would possible cause her to trust you more, because you came straight to her with this issue.
if she still wants to be this persons friend for whatever reason; you two can collective come up with a way not to put you and the girl who has a crush on you in a compromising position.
hope this helps. DEFINITELY be honest with your wife upfront. just let her know, you just wanted her to be aware of the situation and how it makes you feel.
i think any woman would be impressed if you did such a responsible thing.
2007-02-27 18:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by Queenly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you leave things alone, they will only get worse. Your best bet is to first tell the friend that the attention is not wanted or appreciated. Then, you need to let you spouse know, because the friend may go to her and try to blame it on you.
Honesty is best. The friendship may be ruined, but it won't be because of your doing something wrong, but instead the friend.
2007-02-27 17:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by extremesuccesscoaching 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my wifes friends had a crush on me, I wasnt sure but my wife realised it soon (women have a way of knowing these things). She was initially suspicious of me but I talked to her and told her that I havent had any affair with her friend , that settled things down.
Beware of such women they can also create suspicions in your spouse's mind by making weird remarks. Talk to your wife immediately, be on Red Alert.
2007-02-27 20:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well good for you for not considering goin gthere. cause that would be so low down, espcially since they are best freinds. I think u should express your concerns to your wife and tell her it would be good if u didnt have to hang out with the best freind anymore
2007-02-27 17:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE LADYS CRUSH IS GOING TO CRUSH UR FAMILY LIFE.get rid of her.tell her in no uncertain words that u love ur wife more than anything in the world.and if her actions continue warn her that u will reveal her behaviour to her husband and close ones.
2007-02-28 00:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by mots 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you shld talk with her and be frank about what you feel. If you are not comfortable avoid them if still not possible tell your wife and then i think everything will be fine.
2007-02-27 19:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by madhu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man!Tell her she will not be allowed to disrespect your wife like that! Or, sleep with her and destroy 2 families! your choice!
2007-02-27 17:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to keep happy ur slef...ask what she intresed in u..to find oher person..who can make her happy..so that u helped both
2007-02-27 17:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by manhihash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh please!!!
2007-02-27 17:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sandora 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋