Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

k me and my friend are arguing about this.. shes kinda dating a guy thats 36 and shes only almost 17!!! i say its stupid for her to do that. but she says its fine cuz age doesnt matter and they love each other!! k he has a family and she knows! in matter of fact shes pretty much like best friends with his daughter.. its step daughter but still!!! and shes really good friends with his wife too.. shes close to his whole family!! i think its extremely gross.. but she just WONT LISTEN TO ME!!! please tell me what i can do to tell her to stop this.!!?! please.. i dont want her to be a homewrecker or something like that!!! please help me!

2007-02-27 17:28:03 · 22 answers · asked by im just me*** 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-27 17:28:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a horrible mother who is very manipulative, and my grandmother is sick and can barely talk. I have I'm 19 years old and Ive been moving from house to house since I was 17 and working in strip clubs to pay serious bills. Now that I'm living with my grandma I can just finish up my 1 1/2 credits to get my diploma and get a respectable job and not worry about bills. But my mother and Aunt just got my granma to kick me out, and I'm back to square 1! God, I dont want to strip again and I'm tired of moving now I'm in someones house and their gonna let me finish school here then I'm going to live with my father! My aunt just played me by saying, "thats why you don't have a pot to piss in, and a window to throw it out, and all of our bills will be paid." That **** just hurt my family can be sooooo cruel my mom and my aunt is living off of the Army ANYWAY! Can someone give me tips on how to make myself happy, and at least make $100,000 a year as soon as possible! You know the 6 figure job

2007-02-27 17:28:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if he says he doesn't trust you on a night out with some friends even though you have never done anything that would/should make your man suspicious.

2007-02-27 17:27:47 · 8 answers · asked by Amanda S 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that I've known for some time. We have been in an enormous fight for the last six months, and I feel terrible. It was over the fact that sometimes she can be really horrible about other people, which I thought was very cruel. We haven't spoken to eachother for so long. I feel terrible because I've made friends with another person, who is a nice girl, but I know that my other freind is far more important to me- this new friend is a rather weak person, and tends to just follow anybody who is considered to be worth knowing. She hasn't got a backbone and that really irritates me. My problem is that both my ex friend and I are very proud, stubborn people (which is probably why we were friends in the first place!!) and neither of us can bring ourselves to apologise. She made an attempt to talk to me a week after the arguement happened, but I brushed her off. How can we rekindle our friendship again? HELP!!!

2007-02-27 17:27:45 · 7 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Friends

How much does a girl's athletic ability play into how attracted you are to her?

2007-02-27 17:27:33 · 4 answers · asked by unoulvme 2 in Singles & Dating

I do not like sticking around when they are here. Where should i go to pass the time? I do not know anyone out here. (I am in Seattle btw)

2007-02-27 17:27:24 · 6 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Singles & Dating

my family really needs to know.

2007-02-27 17:27:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she comes to me at night, and the worst part is, i don't believe in ghosts, at least i didn't. it scares the s-hit out of me and i'm not one to be afraid of much. i hear her voice, i see her when i blink, when i close my eyes, i'm afraid to close my eyes, and then i'm afraid to open them. i lost her to a car crash 3 months ago, we were closer than you can imagine, i loved her more than anything. she says the same thing to me most of the time, i can't really understand it but it sounds like this "skyin grinmee doovell ny", does this sound like another language? can anybody read it? i can't sleep anymore, what do i do?

2007-02-27 17:27:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm feeling alright, some good, you know. Just want to here from all you people around the world. It's good to here different voices (although I can't hear you literaly). Maybe if you say were you from it will be cool. Hey, I ain't no creep or weirdo, ok? So, please don't think bad. You take care and Peace!

2007-02-27 17:26:32 · 12 answers · asked by Drivliam 6 in Friends

He acts as if i'm unattractive sexually and when i do the first move his reaction is unbearable. it's as if i was about to punish him. I never had this problem with any of my ex bf .
now we have sex like once a month (not enough!!!)
he has cholesterol can it be it?

2007-02-27 17:26:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you guys know any cute love quotes?
All quotes will be good too.

2007-02-27 17:25:15 · 5 answers · asked by I love you 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. we're both 19 years old. He is the most amazing person i've ever met but i feel the end is near.... because
1) we're going to different universities
2) his parents want him to find an asian girl instead
3) im not rich like him and im not accepted like he is
4) I dont see him as often as i like anymore

please help me... i dont want to lose him... he is amazingly RICH (dad's a real estate mogul), he has an amazing body, he is the smartest person from my highschool (going to med school now) and most importantly he is a gentleman and everyone i know loves him. I dont know what i should do, this is the only way i think he will for sure stay with me... HELP!!!

2007-02-27 17:24:56 · 23 answers · asked by bustyblondegirls007 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 17:24:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-27 17:24:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years, and are engaged. However, over Christmas break, he suddenly seems to have lost interest in me and is hanging out with another girl he knows. I was quite upset by this and started checking the online messages he was sending her; I was/ am shocked to find him sending messages like "I love you" and calling her adoring names that he rarely calls me. I even found pictures of them together online, having fun that I wasn't having. Every message he sends her upsets me, and I of course confront him about them. It generally leads to a fight and him changing his password again. It goes on even now, where my only insight into what's up is to check his messages.
I can't tell him not to see or talk with her anymore, I'm afraid this will only make him want to see her more and desire me less. And yet I'm terrified that once Summer break rolls around he'll go running back to her and spend zero time with me, despite what he's promised.
Please help!

2007-02-27 17:22:52 · 7 answers · asked by banvivirie 2 in Singles & Dating

ok...im not jealous but his bestfriend has some serious problems. his bestfriend told me he wanted to rape me and kill me and stuff and he told me he hates me. his brother raped his lilttle 6yr old cousin when he was 16. his mom was doing a lot of drugs when she had them. my boyfriend and his bestfriend grew up together. i really need help.

2007-02-27 17:22:52 · 7 answers · asked by xlilslickshortyx 5 in Singles & Dating

My older sis is going to college next year and I feel like we're really unclose. I am always nice to her, asking how her day was, keeping her updated about my life, letting her know I admire her. But all I ever get back is hate.
She won't talk to me one on one. The only time we talk is if our parents or brother or cousins are around.
When I wave to her at school she puts her head down and walks away.
She always tells people how much better they are then me.
Is this just normal sibling rivalry? I really do love my sister, i mean she's my sister! So how can I break down these walls and become her friend before she goes away?

2007-02-27 17:21:52 · 10 answers · asked by unoulvme 2 in Family

yay or nay? Kinda tired of the bar scene, wanted to know if anyones tried it, and if so do you reccomend any sites?

2007-02-27 17:20:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is always complaining that I don't have time for him and that I am never in the "mood". I am always so exhausted at the end of he day that I don't feel like having sex. This is the last thing I have in mind...he feels dejected and hurt everytime he tries to come close to me.....what can I do? I am always sleep deprived and look for short naps during the day and try to go to bed early. My relationship with my husband is going down the drain and I can't help it. I love him very much and want him to be happy in this relationship...why can't he understand?

2007-02-27 17:20:19 · 16 answers · asked by Nancy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He lives in a nextdoor small town. he goes to highschool in my town, I go 2 the closest big town. He's 16 im 14 we're both in highschool he's realllllly realy sweetl

2007-02-27 17:19:27 · 9 answers · asked by maybe_its_so 1 in Singles & Dating

hi i was wondering what perfume i should wear on my wedding day and one where the scent will last, i love wearing perfume and i do have quite a few, i love alien, Dkny, escape (calvin Klien) Eternity, Kenzo Flowers, Havent brought a new one for ages but up for great ideas on what to buy please help thank you ames

2007-02-27 17:19:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

c, me and my cuzzin were talkin then we got are friends into wats better love or lust, c my cuzzin says love becuz it lasts forever gushy stuff blah blah blah i said lust because its fun and an experience to meet people....
think about it when you meet them you dont fall head over heels for them something about the just made you think damn or somthin

2007-02-27 17:17:39 · 25 answers · asked by physco_porsche 2 in Singles & Dating

OK so I met a women who is 11 yrs older than me. Im 24, shes 35. The night I met her we had sex and fooled around. Everything felt comfortable and there was nothing weird about it. We kinda even cuddled or whatever after and just layed together and fell asleep. I drove her home and called her a couple days later. We talked for a bit on the phone and had good conversation. I basically said feel free to call me during the week otherwise maybe I'll talk to you this weekend. So should I just let it ride and see if she calls and if not, call this weekend to see what her plans are?

2007-02-27 17:16:32 · 18 answers · asked by wheelsup 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i have three qoustions, one for the women, does size of the penis really matter when it come to sex? and for everyone,two how can u make the penis bigger? and three, does a penis pump really work, i mean does it actually make ur penis bigger

2007-02-27 17:15:30 · 7 answers · asked by armysoldier 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 17:15:20 · 3 answers · asked by southsidetag 1 in Weddings

2007-02-27 17:15:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-27 17:13:59 · 15 answers · asked by Praveen C 2 in Singles & Dating

ok my girlfriend is saying thatis till need to ask her to prom...

i thought it was weird lol

but after awhile i realized i would just so her senior prom would be good....


i need to firgue out a way to make it official!!!

what are some ideas on asking her to prom????


be creative

2007-02-27 17:13:57 · 6 answers · asked by umm hahah 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean not just broke your heart but ripped it to shreds?
and not just ripped it to shreds but ripped thse shreds into tinier bits and pieces???

what if you loved them so much and they broke up with you through a text message and wouldn't even give you a straight reason to your face, and then you found out later that they're only reason for dating you in the first place is cause they wanted to get laid??????????

it hurts so much but i can't stop thinking of him!
he was everything i wanted and even though everyone knows we hate each other he still smiles at me in the hall sometimes
i don't know what to do
i can't still be in love with him
can i??

and don't worry, he didn't get laid

2007-02-27 17:12:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating