Older women and when to call?

Question

OK so I met a women who is 11 yrs older than me. Im 24, shes 35. The night I met her we had sex and fooled around. Everything felt comfortable and there was nothing weird about it. We kinda even cuddled or whatever after and just layed together and fell asleep. I drove her home and called her a couple days later. We talked for a bit on the phone and had good conversation. I basically said feel free to call me during the week otherwise maybe I'll talk to you this weekend. So should I just let it ride and see if she calls and if not, call this weekend to see what her plans are?

Answer 1

What I'm about to tell you is GOLD, so remember it.

NEVER say things like "I'll call this weekend" or "You call me tonight". A simply TTYL is better because it isn't like a PROMISE to call later. You need to understand that if you call earlier than what you said, you're actually giving your power away and showing you are too eager. AND you limit her to not be able to call you if she felt like it because SHE'D be giving her power away and she'll think she's being over-eager. (Yes girls over-analyze EVERYTHING they do)

NEXT: WTF? You think an older woman who's probably been around the block wants a little boy who wants to know what the woman wants to do? HELLZ NO! You call her, tell her that you're going rollerblading in the park or something and that if she's good, maybe you'll teach her how to skate. (Seriously, try it... EXACT WORDS!! Not only is it pretty damn original, but you won't have to think about too much on the date, it costs nothing, and you can actually get to know her or get naughty in the park)

Good luck,
Franklin

PS. You said call me or MAYBE blah blah... FORGET the word maybe. Older women LOVE it when you're decisive. Even is you're wrong because it shows you're strong and have confidence in yourself.

Answer 2

You should call her even if you told her to call anytime. Women normally don't like to call a guy especially in the beginning of a relationship. Good luck!

Answer 3

You better be prepared to be serous about where your taking this because at her age she has no time to be playing around if you no what I mean.Any relationship she has she has one thing on her mind and that is marriage.I'm her age so I no what she wants from you,you just don't no that yet.I'm warning you be very careful because she will have your head so turned around you won't no what happened until you wake up one morning with a ring on your finger.Us women are very, very clever when it comes to getting what we want.

Answer 4

from my experiences. Women normally always wait for the guy to call first. They also like to have alot of notice. They dont like last minute calls.. makes them feel like a last resort. I say call her on Thursday to make plans for Saturday.

Answer 5

Coming from a 35 yr old...call her and yes that is hot that ur younger!! my ex bf is now 22...but he wanted to get married...scared the heck out of me!!

Answer 6

just do what you said. Wait till the weekend. Even if she calls call her back that weekend.

Answer 7

If you want to see her this weekend, then call her up and ask her out. Older women are still women, they still enjoy being pursued.

Answer 8

There are no good nicknames for them. Their needs are seen shameful. (For no extremely solid reason. in fact, adult men who prefer older women persons have strangely solid judgment.)

Answer 9

yeah man u gotta jus let it ride and c if she call u. but if she dont and she dont call durin the weekend i think u should jus let it b cause if she dont call dat means she not really n2 it, she jus wanted a 1 nite jawn.

Answer 10

Call her. But after that don't be the one always calling.