My older sis is going to college next year and I feel like we're really unclose. I am always nice to her, asking how her day was, keeping her updated about my life, letting her know I admire her. But all I ever get back is hate.
She won't talk to me one on one. The only time we talk is if our parents or brother or cousins are around.
When I wave to her at school she puts her head down and walks away.
She always tells people how much better they are then me.
Is this just normal sibling rivalry? I really do love my sister, i mean she's my sister! So how can I break down these walls and become her friend before she goes away?
2007-02-27 17:21:52 · 10 answers · asked by unoulvme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
some siblings just don't get along... i only have one sister and i go months without talking to her. whenever i do, it's because we're at our parents during the holidays. we don't argue or hold anything against each other, we just have little in common despite the fact that she's 3 years older.
families are not perfect.
2007-02-27 17:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her a small note telling her that you love her and wish her the best in college. Tell her that you hope one day she will feel the same way too.
It's all you can do. Sometimes sisters just hate you because of jealousy, sometimes no reason at all. It's nice that you love her. Hopefully telling her will be enough. Just put silly notes all over for her to find.
2007-02-27 17:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just try talking to her about how you feel. Tell her you don't feel close to her and would like to change that before she goes away because she's your sister and you are going to miss her. Even if you get a negative response at the time, you 'll probably find that what you say will stick with her and you'll get closer as you both get older.
2007-02-27 17:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o hunny, your sister doesn't hate you trust me! its just sibling rivalry! we dont know what we have until its gone. trust me. i have a younger sister and i never paid her any mind. we always fought back and forth like cats and dogs and i thought i couldn't stand her for half of my life. now were older and shes the one who is distant from me. i realize now all those years that she actually looked up to me and that i should have been a better sister to her. but its too late and she no longer cares about anything, and i wish i could have given her better advice for her life. trust me your sister doesn't hate you, she loves you. she just takes everything for granted right now, but she will realize as the both of you mature that you are her younger sister and that means a lot.
little things that touched me that my little sis did was leave me "i love you notes" and once for my birthday she put a dime that had the year i was born on it stuck to my b-day card, and i cried :)
2007-02-27 17:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by april 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may be on a I can't get over myself kick. Just keep being nice and let her go and don't go out of your way to wave to her. How can she be better than you? She is jealous it sounds like to me and has issues maybe someday she'll come around you just get your education and go to college and try not to let her hurt you we have to many evil people running our world, you just concentrate on your grades and a good education and maybe you will be one of the one to be nice and honest and a leader of this Country. Good Luck, head up and be proud and don't let her or them hurt you.
2007-02-27 17:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by rainingonme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are loving your sister really & if she knows it & if she never mind means.
She things that some one taking care then you, may be she might fall in love. you try to know about your sister well that what she likes and dislike help her in the critical situtation.
I hope you will succed KEEP LOVING YOUR SISTER day's may turn to your side
2007-02-27 17:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by The Undertaker (DEADMAN) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't hate you. My brother is a bit like you and i am somewhat like your sister , we are completley different so i never talk to him but in the end he is my brother and i love him even though i dont show it. You dont need to sho love to feel it.
2007-02-27 17:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by dancrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have to do is go buy her some nice gift and tell her how you truly feel .then you guys should go out and talk about the problem you guys are having . just tell how it is aight ,..
2007-02-27 17:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by Bounchuae M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really hurting satiation you must talk once with your sister clearly that
What is actually problem she feel with you must talk her that what is problem and what act you did that she hate you
2007-02-27 17:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by Akmal Zaidi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope Phuck your sister and don't say anything there is no point to give and give and not receive anything....my opinion
2007-02-27 17:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Iam_canadian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋