I do not like sticking around when they are here. Where should i go to pass the time? I do not know anyone out here. (I am in Seattle btw)
2007-02-27 17:27:24 · 6 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is there that much, it sounds like he needs to be paying a third of the rent! There is no reason that these two should be allowed to make you uncomfortable in your own home. Dont let them chase you off like that!
2007-02-27 17:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by whissp_4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from what you said, it doesn't seem like your roommate's doing anything that you can tell her to stop. If she was making out with him passionately in front of you all the time, I'd say she was being invasive, but it sounds like you just don't like being around them when they're having couple time. Some ideas:
-If you have work that you can do at home, go to a library or coffee shop and work on it.
-Go out for dinner with other friends.
-Work out. Join a gym or just go for a walk/jog somewhere.
Other than that, you could always try to get to know the boyfriend to the point where he's like a friend or brother to you (assuming he's not a completely repulsive jerk or anything) and you don't mind him being around.
2007-02-28 01:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by alanna1star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived in this situation, and it was a good friend I was roomates with. I approached her and told her how I felt about the situation, and nothing seemed to change. You should try talking to her and then if things don't get better decide if you just want to deal with it or move out. I ended up moving out, and it was honestly the best decision I ever made! Good luck, hope things work out.
2007-02-28 01:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by Loving Life! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her straight to the point that you feel awkward with her boyfriend around. You have the right since you also pay the rent of that apartment. If they still do the same, that's the time you try to look for another house where you could live alone.
2007-02-28 01:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by boobsy star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
starbucks-barnes & noble - borders - library - museums - on a nice day, go for a run or go to the gym - stay at work a little later - www.kickball.com - check out meetup.com to meet people. is it ok to just hang out in your room while they are there? are they loud?
2007-02-28 01:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by gigi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coffeehouse, bring laptop and waste time on Internet.
2007-02-28 01:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by Vegan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋