Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

hey i am 23, a guy, i find myself to be a cool laidback kind of guy. i want some details from you ladies, and guys i guess would be cool to. with summer, warm weather, or at least my travels will be warm destinations, what would be a cool hot look in attire for me to wear when walking around town, just staying outside the entire time, in say 90* heat? details would be cool from feet, above the waist, below the waist, head...of what to wear, what not to wear. thanks soo much for your details! im searching for a cool look that will make me stylish comfortable and get some girls hehe..... by the way I am 5'11, 190, white, soon to be tan, flat stomach.

2007-02-27 00:40:16 · 8 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2 in Singles & Dating

My problem is that I like my best friends's brother. I think he may like me to, but he keeps sending me these mixed signals. One day I am , yes he likes me, the other he appears to be indifferent. I am wondering, if he does like me, is he not making a move because I am his sister's best friend?

2007-02-27 00:40:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf and i went thru a really tough time, we broke up becos of so many reasons both on my part and his. it was a mutual break up and like any other break ups, it feels so devastating. we have been together for 3 yrs, btw. he wanted us to be friends, he wanted us not to lose our contact with each other. i have been having a very difficult time moving on, dont know where and how to start. it will really kill me if he is going to tell me sooner or later, that he has a new woman in his life. is friendship still possible after a break up? or should i just cut all communication with him?

2007-02-27 00:40:05 · 9 answers · asked by intense35 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Even if it was just TWO tears... When and how did it make you feel?

2007-02-27 00:39:53 · 24 answers · asked by reba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-27 00:39:37 · 7 answers · asked by Highbury 2 in Friends

2007-02-27 00:39:04 · 9 answers · asked by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3 in Singles & Dating

the reason that i asked one day me and my daddy were walking outside the store and a man asked my dad for 38 cent and we were like why did he ask for just 38 cent and so my daddy told him that when he come out he will give him 38 cent so he bought a ham i think that is what it was an when he got through paying for it my dads change was 38 cent!!! crazy huh so my dad gave it to him and i was just wondering what did the number 38 mean to you

2007-02-27 00:38:39 · 2 answers · asked by Brandi S 4 in Family

Dear All,

I divorced a while ago and have one child. I have him stay at my house about 50% of the time and the other 50% he is at mommys house.

I have a new girlfriend and she gets on fantastically well with my son and accepts him. Just recently she admitted to me that she is finding it hard that she can't be with me and just me. She does not have children and is used to being in child free relationships where she did not always have to concider her partners child and could do spontanious things.

What is the best way to deal with this? How do I explain to her that I am different from her previous partners because of my child and that she has no option not to be selfish and accept that I am different to the relationships that she has previously been in?

Hope that you can understand my question.

I guess that with time she will be more accepting of the situation once she realises that relationships can be just as good with or without children.

Thanks.

2007-02-27 00:38:37 · 25 answers · asked by kwambonambi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Whats the best way to ask a girl if she is in a relationdship without saying, do u hav a boyfriend?

2007-02-27 00:38:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can a man of 44 be trusted after he has lied over a 2yr period off and on? his he set in his ways. he is also a dj and he always gawks at women in front of me. his family always want him to do a party and im just tired of the whole thing. i want to be his friend but he wants me back and i just cant go thru it anymore. when ever we argue about him going here and there all the time he gets mad and tell me he doesnt have to report to me his every move. he has lied in the past about his where abouts and he is kind of stingy. so what should i do. cuz not a bad person just got some ways that i personally cant deal with. i stopped having sex with him and he dont like that. so what should i do and will he change. i feel also he puts his entire family before me .

2007-02-27 00:34:51 · 33 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 00:33:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 00:33:01 · 11 answers · asked by larry f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it my experience or do people thonk more and more married men are curious and trying homo activity as extra marital enjoyment?

2007-02-27 00:31:50 · 20 answers · asked by David 1 in Marriage & Divorce

All you do is pay a bunch of money to have sex. your having it so much you don't even really get out of the room. So whats the point can't you just do that at home?

2007-02-27 00:31:41 · 20 answers · asked by :) 5 in Weddings

2007-02-27 00:31:21 · 10 answers · asked by iain xx 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

In my daydreams of her I thought that she is polite and nice. However, because I was blinded by love, I did not see that she has also very big evil part of her heart. Now I am shocked. The girl that used to apear as so nice suddenly became evil. Was she always evil or life has made her different? I cannot recognise her anymore!

2007-02-27 00:31:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend has left for a while because of work. We have never been apart for no more than a couple of days. He's been gone now for almost 2 weeks. Although he's coming back home soon, I find it getting harder on me. I miss him an awful lot. He says he misses me more and that work isn't the same since I'm not close to him. We've only talked twice to each other since he's been away. What I want to know is, what can I do romantically for him when he comes back home? I want to make him feel special and loved. I need a lot of options. Give me every one you can think of.

2007-02-27 00:29:14 · 9 answers · asked by Essence 2 in Singles & Dating

umm ! therers this guys i really like he the one i did the damn thing with. i didnt know this but he fale to tell me he had a gurl after everything happened what should i do i cant stop thinking about him.....?????~

2007-02-27 00:27:28 · 10 answers · asked by ReSa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 00:27:00 · 3 answers · asked by Zita 2 in Friends

If your mum and dad spilt when you were young ,cause my friends mum and dad did and it happent years ago but he has real bad abandomrnt issues and cant get into a serious relation ship cause he to scared

2007-02-27 00:24:53 · 17 answers · asked by xhehehexx 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-27 00:24:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when I had 14 years I went to holiday alone. There one girl liked me. However, there were some 18 old males that were very jealous and they attacked me and hurted me badly. They was only better than me in fighting. Do you agree that problems about girls should be solved with fighting?

2007-02-27 00:23:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i met this girl and from the first minutes i fell for her and i showed her my 100% real character and my true feelings that came later. on the 12 of this month her father died from cancer :( and she msg to me and told me that he was gone.. i told her i will be there for you at all times when you need me. she send me later that she was going to move to her house and that she was going to leave her study s from my town (40minutes away) . and that she want me to be only her friend and that she will maybe not come back to my town.. i told her ok and that it was no problem. we spoke for days late at night but i asked her if she was ok the previous day and she didn't answered me yet. i don't want to loose her and i know she needs time but is she coming back? she told me some days ago that it was not fair if i waited for her and that she is not thinking me as much as i do and she dont like that. i told her to go see her and she told me no. btw i ma 20 and she is 22 .

2007-02-27 00:23:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

You know when you jokingly tell yourself, "What's the worst that could happen?" when you go for an interview, try something for the first time, stick your neck out...
But then for me, it was WORSE than my origional answer to that question! It's like The Secret book in reverse! Without going into it (again), basically since then I've felt very discouraged, "what's the point", "what am I doing with my life", "now what" since that happened. What do you do to keep your dreams alive?

2007-02-27 00:21:45 · 4 answers · asked by emilsignia 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I do like the freakiness off of the question What should i do? I like that. What he does 2 me.It feels good

2007-02-27 00:20:33 · 10 answers · asked by mybabyboymalike 1 in Singles & Dating

social workers r involved becuz my ex calls repeatdly 2 report false allegations. trying 2 find a worker 2 believe him im also in 5 malicious intent cases against him (2 get access 2 the "annonymous reports" 2 gain access 2 him making these reports) there is nothing more 2 the story other then him lying, ive got set visitation, every other week spring/xmas breaks & a month in summer, but the judge hasnt heard the whole case due to the fact that it took a yr &a half (after 3 continuances on his side) 2 get back in2 court . have a guardian adlitem she is totally for me, but neither she or social services can force him 2 go 2 counseling, we fought back n forth (thru lawyers due 2 the fact my ex wont speak with me) until my last court date & he agreed 2 everything i asked for. which was totally opposite up to the point of walking in2 the court room. but now he is reappealing the order???? my lawyer & the guardian ad litem say i need 2 wait a yr 2 go 4 custody menwhil the kids suffer????

2007-02-27 00:19:48 · 2 answers · asked by somerandomchick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-27 00:19:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 15 she lives with me but has only for the last 4 months, she was living with her father who brainwashes her soooo bad. He tells her that things are so bad at my house and tells her things are so perfect there, No things arent perfect at my house but they are just ordinary. Every weekend she goes over there he brain washes her move to move back in with him, I dont have the money he has so I cant buy her all the things he can and I have 3 other children to show my attn too, she is the only child over there. She choose to come and live with me, I didnt pressure her like he does. She tells me he makes her believe things are so bad at my house when she is at his, but when she gets home she realizes that they are not. I think she is playing both sides,
What do I do? He pressures her to be perfect. She cant even wear sweatpants thats how bad he is. She is a gymnast, in cheerleading and softball, very active but thinks she has to be perfect for him. Can anyone help Please!

2007-02-27 00:19:11 · 5 answers · asked by bradosmom 3 in Family

the girl I loved has found another lover and now she want to revenge me. She has persuaded her lover to revenge to me in her name and therefore she provocates me to accept direct fight with her 'friends'. They want to beat me to death because 'I cause her worries".
They say that I am coward because they want direct fight where they will be stronger and with opportunity to hurt my body.
Are such people real friend of her? I have never attacked her or treat her in any form. However, she do not want to talk with me but she want to hurt my body. What should I do?

2007-02-27 00:19:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is it ok if a man doesnt fone his lady for 3days? if a lady asks her man when she's gona see him and he responds by sayin "i dont know" is this a sign of him wantin 2 break up?

2007-02-27 00:16:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating