Is it my experience or do people thonk more and more married men are curious and trying homo activity as extra marital enjoyment?
2007-02-27 00:31:50 · 20 answers · asked by David 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think the main reason why married men are trying homosexual activities is because they can have some fun outside marriage and dont even have to lie to there wives by saying that there is no other women in his life and feel guilty. So in other words, he want to have his CAKE and eat it TOO.
2007-02-27 00:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Stann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think more and more married men are gay or bi-curious as extra-marital enjoyment. I think you are just hearing more about it in the past because homosexuality was just not talked about 30 years ago.
I think that many gay men deny that in themselves and get married to life the "right" life as they are told they should do, but are not happy. So they have extramarital affairs just like heterosexual people do, but they do it with another man. Some men finally admit it to themselves and their wife and move on. Some admit it to their wife and they decide to stay married. Others live unhappily the rest of their life.
2007-02-27 11:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your experience is, as to whether you've had friends, et al., that have done this. It is so dangerous and not fair to anybody involved in the marriage. You may be right, though. I work with guys that are married ( although for a front) and are having gay relationships. What would be hard for the wife is that, a woman can't compete with a man. It's just perverse.
2007-02-27 08:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by mop-27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I have friends who say they are one bad relationship away from gay. I could never do it but I enjoy male friends more than I do sexual relationships with women. For one thing woman expect so much and give so little in return and I am not talk just about sex. I would like to say to all women: try being nice to your man. Try listening and try pleasing him just like you want to be pleased by him.
2007-02-27 09:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if anyone has reliable data on the topic.
But if you deny a guy sex long enough some of them obviously will consider any kind of sex compared to no sex at all.
I blame mis-matched sex drives for lots of this activity.
2007-02-27 08:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. if they are predisposed to homosexuality then they may start to try it in spite of being married. Hetrosexual men will never experiement with other men unless they have gay tendencies to begin with.
2007-02-27 09:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anastasia S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it is your experience or not, only you know that
I think the rest of your statement that more and more men are doing this is not valid...I don't think they are in other words
sick people if they are
Sorry, just my opinion
be cool...
2007-02-27 08:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your experience, a man who is not homosexual will notfind that attractive and will not consider it for extra marital enjoyment
2007-02-27 08:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by xcapee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is historical fact that (some) men have done this for thousands of years.
2007-02-27 09:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope not. I have zero homo interest personally.
2007-02-27 09:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋