Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

2007-02-27 01:29:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a year and a half ago my step daughter came to live with us she is now 17 her mother could not control her, we have been firm with her made her go to school etc. she is very promiscuous her mother is her legal guardian but refuses to take her back l do not want her in my house anymore her father agrees we have done everything we can, she says she wants to go live with a friend and her parents is that legal if she runs away are we legally responsible and can we make her mother take her we live in florida

2007-02-27 01:29:11 · 8 answers · asked by shelaghann1 1 in Family

I don't really want to be "friends", I've been out with other girls...but I keep thinking about HER. Is this ever going to end? I'm getting sick of it.

2007-02-27 01:28:36 · 13 answers · asked by Skeezix 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 01:27:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A few days ago I posted a problem about my youngest cousin and some serious stress she'd been under,the problem was two-fold the first part was her school which i've stepped in on.The second part apparently is me.My job means that I have to travel alot (I work at sea) and i'm rarely at home for more than 3 weeks,but I have a very close bond with my family,especially my youngest cousin.According to her mother her depressive traumatised state reoccurs everytime I leave.To me this is a real problem,I keep in contact as much as possible while i'm away but the knowledge that I am the cause of her problems tears me up inside,especially when she's normally so happy.I really don't know what to do,can anyone suggest a way I might help her?
School problems I can handle but I can't fix what's inside her head.

2007-02-27 01:27:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I flatshare with the a man i work with and since i moved in rumours have spread that we are having an affair. people have got quite rude about it and yesterday my boss phoned to ask me if it was true i was pregnant?. I told him no this isnt true as well as making clear im not having an affair with my co worker. my problem is i could lose my job my boss doesnt allow people in a relationship to work together and even though we have a purely platonic relationship i think this latest nasty rumour may cost me my job. can i do anything legally to defend myself as opposed to attacking these people violently which is how im beginning to feel im going to react soon. this has gone on for nearly a year!

2007-02-27 01:26:56 · 10 answers · asked by bexta 1 in Singles & Dating

want to know if any women out there older the better must be over 26 need a bit of spice in their life. i can fill your lonely days if you know what i mean

2007-02-27 01:26:55 · 12 answers · asked by tony m 1 in Singles & Dating

i love drunk girls and would love to be the only boy with a group of them and let them take advantage of me. girls has there ever been a time when you & your friends were drunk and there was only one boy with you. what did you do to the boy, how did you and your friends take advantage of him.

2007-02-27 01:26:39 · 17 answers · asked by girls_are_the_best 1 in Friends

2007-02-27 01:25:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a indian girl born and raised in the uk,was just wondering what guys find attractive about asian girls,i mean physically..

2007-02-27 01:25:10 · 12 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't get it. I've met some really nice girls here, but having made it clear from the outset that sex between us would be wrong (especially as we hadn't even met!), they've become very distant and our seemingly good friendship has all but ended. Having said that, I'm so grateful for the friends I do have. Surely friendships shouldn't have to be such hard work, should they?

2007-02-27 01:24:28 · 42 answers · asked by Fragile Rock 5 in Friends

2007-02-27 01:24:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can u give your self to the person u really love?

2007-02-27 01:23:51 · 2 answers · asked by zaf_ra56g 1 in Singles & Dating

I started to IM this lady about three years ago when I lived in California, I moved to the same state she lives in about two years ago. I have found her on myspace & yahoo personals, I also have her on my IM Friends list. Every time I try to contact her she either doesn't respond or she always has to get off (never seems to want to talk to me). I get up this monring and she left an off line message asking me "why haven't you ever ask me out?" I think she is attractive and I use to love talking to her when we did...?

2007-02-27 01:23:40 · 7 answers · asked by utahbugtussel 3 in Singles & Dating

I saw an episode of Independent Lens on PBS recently. It was on Rap Music (which I'm not a fan of). However, it posed an interesting idea as it relates to rappers and the mindset that you have to be "hard" to the world in order to be taken seriously, in order to be taken as a man.
That made me wonder, what do other cultures think "being a man" is? What do I think? What do you fine people on YA think? Does society value certain traits that you don't?
Tell me YA, What makes a man?

2007-02-27 01:23:14 · 10 answers · asked by Tonya in TX - Duck 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think i choose Mexico, it sounds so exotic. And very luxurious so i have been told.

2007-02-27 01:23:07 · 40 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Weddings

Im not the best when it comes to making a romantic evening, i am on a budget and i would like to know a quick yet romantic way to impress a lady???

2007-02-27 01:22:31 · 10 answers · asked by Curious 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is in a relationship where it is clear it is one sided. She is alwatys intitiating meetings with him, said I love you first and they barely see each other. Why are some people so blind and why are some men cruel enough to let it go on?

2007-02-27 01:22:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is the guitar player in a band. They played at the bar this past weekend. A group of girls started chanting, "Take it off! Take it off! Take it off!" so he took off his shirt and continued playing guitar. I got mad at him. Was I overreacting, or within my rights to be upset?

2007-02-27 01:21:59 · 20 answers · asked by Jennifer S 1 in Singles & Dating

my aunt was suppose to come down to see me this weekend. she is my favorite aunt lika a mom to me cuz i don't have one. 2 days ago i called and ask her if she was still coming to see me guess what she said '' oh taylores got her banquet thing this weekend, so i can't come'' how dumb is that she goes to all of that spoiled brats functions. gymnastics,dance class 3 of em, cheerleading,basket-ball u name it she does it. i know thats her daughter but come on i was really looking forard to her coming. she was'nt even gon tell me thats she was'nt coming. im mad at her. and my question is. should i be mad, should i tell her how i feel ?

2007-02-27 01:21:57 · 14 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Family

2007-02-27 01:21:53 · 2 answers · asked by fastwateruk 1 in Friends

2007-02-27 01:21:52 · 29 answers · asked by Zhelyz 2 in Weddings

he never use the home computer 2 send mail . i got his Mobile's list in which he had called HER a no. of times.but he isnt admitting it. actually i dont have to prove he has given us 2 bad treatment so 2 make him feel bad i have to do this . but how ? as he has a secret sim card i can't get it's list to find whether he's calling to her or not . i can't take a divorce ( i think ... ) He is making many financial problems 4 me by giving me very bit money etc.
b'coz i am a house wife and it will affect my daughter's life (?)
plz suggest me solutions on this .I stared the production of Indian spices and food but then he came to know that if i will get money , i won't listen to him . so he made the production close .
I wanted 2 hire a detective but then i thought that they can sell 2 my hus. by taking more money from him (
i think as i am in India the show 'Cheaters' can't help me .
I am 2 tense about it and bcoz of this i am having many health problems like hair - fall , headache ..
Help

2007-02-27 01:20:12 · 20 answers · asked by Neeta 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Women only...please indicate your age.

2007-02-27 01:19:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have found out that they are in contact several times a week, and occassionally he will drop by to visit her. When I try to discuss how this makes me feel, He gets very angry with me. I have asked that he stop hidding the phone calls and start letting me know when he plans on going over there. I don't think this is asking to much, but he says I am being controlling. We have been dating for two years, and this problem has been going on most of the time. I am tired of not knowing what is going on, and I am tired of the secrets. I like him a lot, but I dont think anything is going to change. I could use some advice.

2007-02-27 01:19:26 · 11 answers · asked by sunshineasd 1 in Singles & Dating

I choked my chicken! That thing was right outside my window cockadoodle-dooing since 5am. I couldn't help myself. I needed satisfaction. What did you do this morning?

2007-02-27 01:18:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

naughty nurse, OR?

2007-02-27 01:18:46 · 4 answers · asked by SEAHAWKS P.O.ED 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting the sense that the guy I'm seeing is seeing other people, or hanging out with women at the least. He works at a strip club and I often find him hanging there on his days off. When he first got the job there, he said all the guys that work there are trying to get involved with some of the dancers and they hang around at the bar to watch them even when they (the guys) aren't working. He said he'd never do that. Now, he'll say he's just having a drink on his days off. I straight out asked him was he seeing one of the dancers or anyone else for that matter and he got mad. What's wrong with being straightforward instead of guessing and being all shocked when your suspicions are right (or wrong). I'm happy he said no, but why did he get all mad?

2007-02-27 01:18:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I had a talk last night, he was telling me how he could be happier, he is not really happy, we been together for about 12 month we really don’t know much about each other, we are just together, I mean all the stuff he was saying to me was mean. And he had a nerve to say that for his b-day I got him a blow up bad, because he didn’t had a bed when he moved in to a new home he was sleeping on the floor, I thought about him and I got him a bed and he was saying that was nice but I could gotten him something else, I buy him close, shoes, food I cook for him and he NEVER bought me anything for my b-day NOTHING he doesn’t buy he anything even when I ask him for money he have to whine about it before he give me. and last night we went out to eat and even do his food was about $20 and mine was $7.50 he said so are u expecting me to pay for this I had money in my packet but I said yes I want u to pay for it and he was compelling and he even ask for the money when we got in the car he said can I please have the money he just mad me mad more, and he talks about all I thing about is money is a big issue in our relationship, he is the one doesn’t want to pay for nothing he just make me so angry. I cant argue at all and he is really taking advantage of that can someone help me how to stand for my self

2007-02-27 01:18:25 · 9 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Singles & Dating

im pretty sure she loves me.ive been backing off of her but i dont want to lose her because i love her sooo much.

whats the best thing i can do in a situation like this.i dont want to lose her.i love her!!

no stupid answers plzz.

2007-02-27 01:18:14 · 3 answers · asked by forest lover 2 in Singles & Dating