I started to IM this lady about three years ago when I lived in California, I moved to the same state she lives in about two years ago. I have found her on myspace & yahoo personals, I also have her on my IM Friends list. Every time I try to contact her she either doesn't respond or she always has to get off (never seems to want to talk to me). I get up this monring and she left an off line message asking me "why haven't you ever ask me out?" I think she is attractive and I use to love talking to her when we did...?
2007-02-27 01:23:40 · 7 answers · asked by utahbugtussel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am liking the answers so far but I just want to make this clear, I moved here for family not her. I was born and raised here in the State.
2007-02-27 01:39:10 · update #1
she's playing games. PLAYA PLAYA!!!
2007-02-27 01:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. San 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know...I had a similiar situation where a woman didn't talk to me for a couple of months. Maybe she just had a lot going on in her life and some things have cleared up. I would just respond something like "lets have dinner" and come up with a specific place to meet her at. The woman I didn't talk to for 2 months...we have been dating constantly now for 2 months...go figure!!
2007-02-27 10:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by joey_z40 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's being honest when she says she has to get offline. Girls usually dont like when guys are pushy and clingy so I would back off a bit, and wait for her to make the move. But if she ever asks make sure you let her know you care.
2007-02-27 09:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by Morgan**<3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since you like old trucks I really cant bash you because anyone who likes old trucks has taste.
But honestly, women online and moving around for them is a complete waste of time. Just forget about her and find someone in realty, she might just be playing with your head for attention man, you never know what your getting into online.
2007-02-27 09:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly she is insecure of what you may feel or want with her. She is waiting for you to make the first move!!!! She is playing hard to get, this is what we do! So go ahead , play , invite her out see where it goes...
2007-02-27 09:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by EV 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well ask her out then, she obviously likes you and thinks your not interested. Best thing is to tell her that you like her and that you would really like to take her out - call her bluff and see what she does! What have you got to loose!
2007-02-27 09:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you thought that she wasn't interested in you and see where that goes. Maybe she just had alot going on.
2007-02-27 09:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋