My bf and I had a talk last night, he was telling me how he could be happier, he is not really happy, we been together for about 12 month we really don’t know much about each other, we are just together, I mean all the stuff he was saying to me was mean. And he had a nerve to say that for his b-day I got him a blow up bad, because he didn’t had a bed when he moved in to a new home he was sleeping on the floor, I thought about him and I got him a bed and he was saying that was nice but I could gotten him something else, I buy him close, shoes, food I cook for him and he NEVER bought me anything for my b-day NOTHING he doesn’t buy he anything even when I ask him for money he have to whine about it before he give me. and last night we went out to eat and even do his food was about $20 and mine was $7.50 he said so are u expecting me to pay for this I had money in my packet but I said yes I want u to pay for it and he was compelling and he even ask for the money when we got in the car he said can I please have the money he just mad me mad more, and he talks about all I thing about is money is a big issue in our relationship, he is the one doesn’t want to pay for nothing he just make me so angry. I cant argue at all and he is really taking advantage of that can someone help me how to stand for my self
2007-02-27 01:18:25 · 9 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like your bf has a lot of issues, and that he has no idea what's it like to have a gf. You need to talk to him and try to make him understand that he is being slightly unappreciative of the things you do for him. If that doesn't work, then maybe you could consider not buying him anything for a while, to make him realize that you are not just like a bank. If that doesn't work either, then maybe you need a different bf, someone who deserves you and appreciates you a bit more. Good luck.
2007-02-27 01:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to see a girl in a relationship like this, it makes ALL men look BAD..you need to get out from this relationship, i mean, what the hell kind of guy is he that he cant have his own bed and sleeps on a floor?? what would ever happen if you got married??? what a sorry guy he is. so stop helping him and get out of there.
2007-02-27 09:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he did not want money to be in between the relationship and he might have had some bad experiences before... If it is the issue again and again i think i should advice u to consider new bf... he is jus using u.
2007-02-27 09:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by ee2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think you need to get some serious self confidence. You need to think of yourself as a princess and start doing things for yourself. People will only treat you the way that you allow them to treat you, so this is what he is doing. Start loving yourself first and respecting yourself first and then you will have better relationships
2007-02-27 09:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by caramel_angelkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why put up with this kind of person,he is just using you,dump him and find some think else, this person is like a leash, pain on the head.
2007-02-27 09:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by nomasjoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP im hes a user! get out. anwser me this question ; can u see yourself spending the rest of your life with this looser? its because you so nice that he walks all over you.! good luck dont put up with it.
2007-02-27 09:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by nuttytart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry tell him to pack his bags and get out of your life --- you dont need that kind of treatment --- find someone who does care for you and who is more interested in you than money ---- best wishes
2007-02-27 09:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you with him? seems like you can find a guy who cares about you.
2007-02-27 09:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the answer to your question. Leave him.
2007-02-27 09:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by devildog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋