is it ok if a man doesnt fone his lady for 3days? if a lady asks her man when she's gona see him and he responds by sayin "i dont know" is this a sign of him wantin 2 break up?
2007-02-27 00:16:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a sign that he is more interested in other things. For me, I can't wait for the next moment to see and speak to my girlfriend.....and it has always been that way. I know that I am lucky to have found someone like I have. If you don't have that feeling, then perhaps be cautious....might not be The One.
2007-02-27 00:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Chaos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As they always say.....details details details.....we need more details.
Without knowing the circumstances and your relationship, I wouldn't worry too bad right now. You know how guys are...no matter the age. They can be read like a book one day and then the next, they are like ventriloquists' dummy, not knowing what will come out of their mouth or how they will act.
But I would guess that he want some space for the time being. Again, without details, I would guess that he just had a bad day and took it out on you. In any case, he should have been more caring in his response and let you know in a more reasonable reply like, "I don't know hon, when I can finish up all this mess I got stuck with here at work." He should at least tell you why he is in a pissy mood if he was rather than snapping at you the way it sounded.
Although, three days without calling is going to the extreme though. If he was moody, a day or two is sufficient to cool down and call you again. Sit with him the next chance you get and see if there really is something bothering him, relationship wise. Talk it out before taking drastic measures or having such thoughts. No matter what form of relationship, always talk it out and find out the problem then work on resolving it before thinking the worse or taking the drastic means.
Hope you will get your answers..... =)
2007-02-27 08:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by indyhype 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear in love, it is not OK for man to go 3 days with out talking there is 24 hours in a day and 10 minutes out his time to call and talk is not going to throw his day off its axis people make time for whats important to them, and if he says I don't know on when you cats are going to meet up, well I do know one thing unless he has been working 72 hours (3 days) nonstop to buy you a 3 carat ring for your birthday you need to boot him to the curb
Judging by your screen name this may be tough but there are better people in this world than that who will treat you better and show that they care for you unlike this guy and as a lady you should not have to put up with that nonsense from a man I hope this works out in your favor and good luck
2007-02-27 08:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, it will gonna hurt you but yea,
don't hurt your self by expecting from this
relationship, he's starting to distant himself,
a sign of moving on.
But it's better to move on now that having some
more of those frustrations till you're suffocated,
then you still have to go.
If you say goodbye to your relationship now, then
you will know if he loves you if he apologize and
get you back. . If he don't, then be strong . .
becoz you can do it . . I've done it . .
.
2007-02-27 08:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like he is not very interested in the relationship. You might ask him if something is going on in his life (work, etc...) that would be preventing him from calling and making dates.
Short of that...if my guy did not call me or let me know he would be seeing me soon...I would think that he had NO interest in the relationship and is probably playing me or stringing me along while he is seeing others.
Just a guess here.
be cool...
2007-02-27 08:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a sign that she isnt being treated in the way of a true relationship. he makes no effort and she makes herself available because he's starving her emotionally.
this is a sign of her wanting to break up, she just hasn't read it yet.
2007-02-27 08:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by tata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like most men to me. No, it's not a sign that he wants to break up. More likely you want to break up.
2007-02-27 08:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That certainly is not a good sign. Next time you do see or talk to him I would ask what his problem is. You deserve better!
2007-02-27 08:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by Drunk365 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do get those kind of responses, he doesn't consider what you think you have as a relationship... He's stringing you along for some reason... more than likely not a good one for you...
2007-02-27 08:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is a sign of "I want to be left alone until I feel like bothering with you again." Follow his lead, or disappear...
2007-02-27 08:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋