My boyfriend has left for a while because of work. We have never been apart for no more than a couple of days. He's been gone now for almost 2 weeks. Although he's coming back home soon, I find it getting harder on me. I miss him an awful lot. He says he misses me more and that work isn't the same since I'm not close to him. We've only talked twice to each other since he's been away. What I want to know is, what can I do romantically for him when he comes back home? I want to make him feel special and loved. I need a lot of options. Give me every one you can think of.
2007-02-27 00:29:14 · 9 answers · asked by Essence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all don't listen to any of the other people who said you had to worry about him because he only called twice.I'm a man and i have had to leave for work many times because of the kind of work i did and sometimes with the hours i worked it was just not possible to make phone calls.When he comes home greet him with a big hug and kiss.Then let him have a few moments to himself to relax..unpack his clothes and put them in the wash..he'll want to take a nice hot shower at home because no matter where you go there is no place like home..then make his favorite meal and you should allready have gone out to your local video store and got a new release movie that you know you both would like to watch .then after supper cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie..i bet you anything by the time the movie is half way done he'll be passed out from being gone for two weeks..then when it's time for bed get some massage oil and give him a nice massage and if it turns to sex all the better but if it doens't get him first thing in the morning...i'm a guy and i have alot of friends who work out of town and as much as we say the first thing we are going to do is jump our wives when we get home it almost never goes that way...when we get home the only thing we really want to do is sit back and relax and maybe have a beer and get caught up on what is going on with the rest of the world..
2007-02-27 01:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by rcbrokebones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two (2) weeks and only two (2) phone calls? There are over 500 million phones in America, and he has not been near 1 of them?
Possibly, but doubt it. - What is he, an Astronaut?
I smell a bigger problem here.
I would worry less about him, and more about you. If he really missed you so much, NOTHING could keep him from calling you if he really wanted to.
You should let him go. I would focus on myself, get a plan, an education, and build up your own self worth and strength.
Then, if you ever ran into him again, I would let him explain why he has been out-of-touch for so long. By then, hopefully, his answer wouldn't matter.
Unfortunately, I believe you are being played (absent an AWESOME excuse).
Either way, the focus should be on you!
Good Luck.
2007-02-27 00:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by Krystoff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through the first few year the my fiance and I were dating he had to go on alot of business trips or would be busy with his company.
The best thing is to make him dinner and watch a movie together that he will enjoy, he probably won't want to do much but relax when he gets home. IMy fiance and I have done that for each other when we were out of town for a good number of days because all you want to do after traveling is relax
2007-02-27 00:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by scarlett13854 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Massage, BBBJ and rough sex until he is milked dry...then, fix him something he loves to eat and take a shower while he watches the TV and eats and be fresh and ready when he finishes for another round before you let him sleep until morning...
2007-02-27 00:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like maby he's trying to say that he needs space. He may just want to be alone for awhile. Then,maby you can feel things out,and see how he really feels.
I hope that this helps.
Kat
2007-02-27 00:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by uaw8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Amanda! What better gifts than yourself, and a great meal?!? Enjoy!!
2007-02-27 00:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being such a spoiled brat. He'll be back!
2007-02-27 00:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Candle lit dinner, bubble bath, hot sex?
2007-02-27 00:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a hot sweaty sex when he return ..ahahaha..let him screw you whatever way or styles he wants....satisfy him....have sex till he's flat....ok come on~!give me credit for this advice...choose mine as the best the answer......or ill screw you till you forget him
2007-02-27 00:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋