Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

One of my friends who's been away for 2 years moved back into town, and contacted me about 3 weeks ago. We were talking everyday online, and had a couple phone calls. Friday, he even called me while I was on the way to work at 11:30 at night.

And then since then, I haven't heard from him. He doesn't respond to my emails (I replied to one of his, and then a few days later sent him another, and he apparently ignored both), and I don't wanna send more and be all pushy or whatever. And his sn doesn't appear on my buddy list, so I thought he just wasn't signing on, but on his myspace, the last log-in date has changed to today, so I know he's been on.

So how come he talked with me so much for so many days, and then now he's completely ignoring me? And guys say girls are weird...

2007-02-27 16:39:48 · 13 answers · asked by Queen Queso 6 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy online a month ago. We have never had a real date but we have chatted alot and he did come by to see me at work. He is a nice guy, not a pyscho or anything. There are things that I don't like about him like the fact that he has 2 young children when I have one who is almost grown and he is much older than me. He is very busy not necessary with work, although it does cause him to travel some, but with social work and his church. He does alot of good I am sure but he seems to put dating on the back burner although he says he is looking for someone to spend his life with. We agree on alot of stuff and I enjoy talking to him but he is not available alot because he is tired from doing stuff all day so he can't even call. We are going out this week (during the day because he picks his kids up after school) but I would rather go out in the evening. I am going to end up sitting home friday night. I want to maintain a friendship with him but don't know if I should.

2007-02-27 16:39:16 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

Or desperate? I don't feel like i can get close to anyone anymore cause of past problems. How long does it take to move on, isnt four years enough? does anyone feel the same way?

2007-02-27 16:39:07 · 5 answers · asked by Mechanical Mayhem 2 in Singles & Dating

Me ex of 7 years left me 8 months pregnant. This is kind of therapy for me because I love hearing advice..He moved 2 months ago to take a job with his daddy..then called a month ago to break it off with me..We was supposed to be moving there anyhow..I know it isn't another woman...which was my first thought. He calls all the time and tonight we got in a arguement about child support..he thinks that I am stupid...He doesn't want me to go to court. He wants to get a statement signed by witnesses. He is making almost 5 grand a month and only wants to send me 500?? ha! The convo first started off by me asking him if he was SURE that we wasn't going to ever be together again and he said "pretty sure...why" then I started about the child support and he flipped. I told him we shouldn't talk for awhile because we need to clear our heads and he needs to be sure he is making the right choice..Should I still go for child support or just give it a few weeks? I don't know if I can until I have him.

2007-02-27 16:38:52 · 1 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Singles & Dating

Maybe i'm just Niave but it seems to me that if you did the deed without protection, you shouldn't be so surprised.....Is it one of those things where it could never happen to them ?

2007-02-27 16:38:32 · 5 answers · asked by Matthew K 2 in Singles & Dating

people, what possibily be wrong wif me? i know i am having a crush wif this..and day dreaming that he too might like me from all his behaviour (i know its stupid cuz he dont even bother abt me, just say i am invisible to him.)..how to over come this?

2007-02-27 16:37:49 · 2 answers · asked by L_n_C_fReAk 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 16:37:26 · 8 answers · asked by shaista 1 in Singles & Dating

Looks on a % scale
Personality on a % scale

total answer must equal 10. I also want you to add an explanation but I want to see numbers in order to get the best answer. Must be a Christian woman to answer.

2007-02-27 16:37:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met the woman of my dreams. We dated for 1 year and saved ourselves for each other till marrage. We were married 9 months ago. Heres the problem, On our honeymoon (In Cozumel) We tried to have sex but it was too painful for her. She says my member is too large (11 inches to be exact). She refuses to try it again... Ever! She said its not really important anyway as long as we love one another. So, we have never had sex!! I'm dying here!! C'Mon people, what in the world should I do??

2007-02-27 16:37:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just came back from cancun 2 days ago and i got a great dark tan. i am getting way more attention from girls in the last 2 days than i used it. why is it that girls prefer for a guy to be tanned rather than a white guy?

2007-02-27 16:36:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i'm with a guy, and he is nice and everything, but when we have sex I'm not enjoying it. I am kind bored because I can never orgasm. I never faked it, but I guess he thinks it's ok and I don't want to talk to him about it and make him feel bad. He wants to have sex every day and for me that is just a waste of time... what should I do? should I just end the relationship?

2007-02-27 16:35:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 16:35:13 · 18 answers · asked by shweta 1 in Friends

same thing day after day always wondering is this it is this all there is

2007-02-27 16:33:58 · 12 answers · asked by dee_ann 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, explain to me why a very beautiful (I mean a really gasping head turner), highly intelligent, multilingual, intruiging, socially smart, and socially/intellectually/spiritually aware women CANNOT find a man, is rarely approached, can't keep a man....PLEASE explain this to me!

2007-02-27 16:33:30 · 12 answers · asked by kookoo 2 in Singles & Dating

If there was one thing that you could tell her/him that would save your relationship, what would it be?

2007-02-27 16:32:50 · 11 answers · asked by I'm daddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She always tells me about the fights and horrible things her husband does, yet she never does anything about it. Im starting to get annoyed because it seems like she LIKES the drama. I dont know what to say to her anymore, because its always the same story, and she never does anything about it- like, go to counseling, or see a divorce lawyer! Advice?

2007-02-27 16:31:14 · 11 answers · asked by Penny P 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-27 16:29:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my friends who's been away for 2 years moved back into town, and contacted me about 3 weeks ago. We were talking everyday online, and had a couple phone calls. Friday, he even called me while I was on the way to work at 11:30 at night.

And then since then, I haven't heard from him. He doesn't respond to my emails (I replied to one of his, and then a few days later sent him another, and he apparently ignored both), and I don't wanna send more and be all pushy or whatever. And his sn doesn't appear on my buddy list, so I thought he just wasn't signing on, but on his myspace, the last log-in date has changed to today, so I know he's been on.

So how come he talked with me so much for so many days, and then now he's completely ignoring me? And guys say girls are weird...

2007-02-27 16:29:44 · 2 answers · asked by Queen Queso 6 in Friends

This question is probably really dumb but.. does heavy breathing usually mean that a guy is turned on? I was dancing with this guy, and I know he could have just been breathing heavily from moving around or whatever, but it was definitely heavier than I was breathing and then he had to take a bathroom break..

2007-02-27 16:29:32 · 12 answers · asked by liliaceae_aletris 2 in Singles & Dating

i was talking to this guy a little over a year ago who went off to the navy. well he's been gone about a year and 2 months...i've not even remotly been interested in a guy since he's been gone. we decided before he left we wouldn't start and relationship...it'd be too hard. and i didn't wanna pressure him...i wrote him every chance i got while he was in boot camp.. and when he was at his first base .i talked to him on myspace a little...i even called a few times. we never really talked bout us...just what's been going on. he's coming back here for a few weeks starting next week...and just talking to him i've fallen in love with him...do you think he'll want to start something even though we've not seen each other in so long??

2007-02-27 16:28:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I moved from another state to be in a relationship for 6yrs and had 2 children with this man. I dont drink and smoke, I'm very dedicated to my family in everything i do. I thought all the good would last forever. Recently my boyfriend has been very addicted to porn, (videos, internet, strip clubs). Knowing it makes me mad he runs to a hotel to watch his porn and to the strip clubs, and would still lie about it. Hes had a internet account i never knew about for about a year now and has a password I cant use and will not give to me. Ive taken a cord that goes to the computer and he bought another one. He works full time m-f when weekends come hes gone for 5-7 hrs at a time and im still home with the kids. I feel something isnt right and wondering the heck is wrong with this man. What is it that im not seeing. I want to leave and move home but i keep coming back. Can you please help with this situation. Im very sad and depressed.

2007-02-27 16:28:11 · 7 answers · asked by Mammaluv78 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What i mean is that men sholud be given thesame right as women,meaning a man should be allowed to decide if he want a child or not, it is not fair for women to be given all the rights and power to make that kind of decision especially when that decision will affect another persons live . I am a woman and i think the govt. of my country USA should pass a law if a man is not ready to be a dad he should not be held accountable for the child financially.This type of law will be very helpful for the country financially and also there will be less crime. This will make a lot of people think really long and hard if they are ready mentally, financially and or otherwise to be a parent. Just thought i ask

2007-02-27 16:27:57 · 33 answers · asked by Heather 06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-27 16:27:29 · 13 answers · asked by dearbrother121 1 in Friends

2007-02-27 16:27:23 · 7 answers · asked by mamiprincessa 1 in Singles & Dating

we went out for three months then broke up and we still talk and he keeps flirting with me and stuff but then he says we just friends though. and i keep feeling stupid cause one minute it's like we gonna get back together then the next its like we just friends and i can't handle the just friends so i just stop calling and talking to him but i really miss him what should i do? i just don't want to be lead on anymore should i move on or should i wait. its like playing Yo-Yo with my emotions it really hurts cause i know i want to be with him but im not sure if he wants to be with me becuase of all these signals which are confusing the hell outta me!

2007-02-27 16:26:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my younger brother and sister are doing well in their studies but i want them to do their best to be someone in the future. the problem is sometimes they ignore their responsibility. I dont like to make them feel they are pressed by me rather to encourage them in a way that make them to appreciate my advise and do their job sincerely. thanks

2007-02-27 16:26:28 · 5 answers · asked by jo_icsl 1 in Family

Well, I haven't been seen her more than 2 years, and she is Indian, honestly, she love to smile, but she don't smile much and never show her teeth, probably because she don't like to be in photos. What I can't forget about her is her smile. Someday if I wanna fix a date to meet her, I will love to take photos and using camcorder to video her, do you think she will smile? cause I don't even know how to make girls smile, and her teeth is pearly white & straight, like she wore braces before. (She never wore braces.)

2007-02-27 16:25:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

K, so I am a 15 year old boy (grade 9) and I am madely in love this girl in my grade as well. Just for background, I am extremely athletic and smart. I am very outgoing around EVERYONE except her which is getting in the way. She does not like me back but we are quite good friends. She says I am to shy around her although it seems like she is a bit shy and uncomfortable because she knows I like her. I think I need to flirt with her more but I just don't know what to do. On valentines day I wrote her a poem and gave it to her and she said she really liked it. Just recently, I was talking to her online and asked her why she doesn't talk to me at school a lot. She said because she didn't want to lead me on. That hurt me pretty bad. What can I do (say, physically do) to her that will change her mind about me? Any good flirting techniques? Feel free to email me at senshockey12345@hotmail.com. ANY help is appreciated.

Thanks

2007-02-27 16:25:02 · 12 answers · asked by hahaha 1 in Singles & Dating

Hes married with children and I am so horny all the time. Its convient. I have never had anyone sex me the way he can. What is my problem besides being a who*e? What can I seriously do to stop!?

2007-02-27 16:22:16 · 8 answers · asked by jill 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 16:22:08 · 21 answers · asked by bandits_my_hereo2004 1 in Singles & Dating