we went out for three months then broke up and we still talk and he keeps flirting with me and stuff but then he says we just friends though. and i keep feeling stupid cause one minute it's like we gonna get back together then the next its like we just friends and i can't handle the just friends so i just stop calling and talking to him but i really miss him what should i do? i just don't want to be lead on anymore should i move on or should i wait. its like playing Yo-Yo with my emotions it really hurts cause i know i want to be with him but im not sure if he wants to be with me becuase of all these signals which are confusing the hell outta me!
2007-02-27 16:26:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went through almost the exact same thing.Except I went through it for 3 years!Its the only thing in my life that I regret.I just kept on letting my ex string me along,and I ended up wasting 3 of my teenage years.I eventually realized I was just like his toy...something he felt he could pick up use when he pleased.So I finally wised up and moved on.So if you don't want the same thing happening to you my suggestion is too be honest with him and tell him exactly how you feel.If he still persists that he just wants to be friends..well then....you should really just move on and for awhile even though I know it will be really hard just separate yourself from him.Just keep yourself busy with friends or anything you find fun so you wont think about him.
2007-02-27 16:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hews just keeping you interested in case he cant find something better or he gets in a slump for a while he wants you to be his back up and thats not a good place to be if you have actual feeling in volved you will constantly think your hetting back together and it will never really happen
2007-02-28 00:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, you need to get a grip, move on with someone else, if you really are a texas cutie then it will be no problem, you sound like a kid, so, grow up and get to living.
2007-02-28 00:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by TEXASMALE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, i think he still loves u but he's afraid of commitment. dun hurt urself act as how u feel & want, if possible always tell that u still care for him. he might get back to u when he's ready.
2007-02-28 00:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think this go up to him and talk to him private ask him are you sure do u just want to be friends.tell him you have feelings for him.dont be scared.i did this and now im dating someon
2007-02-28 00:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should move on. u cannot force anyone to like u.
2007-02-28 00:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by spice* with ice** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋