Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

I have asked this question before but no one has really helped me so i thought i would try again, my ex and I were dating for three years, we broke up about 4 months ago beacuse we were always fighting we both agreed that we didnt want to stay in a relationship were all their was fighting, but since our break up i have relized what i have lost, I love him more then anything in this world, we talked today and he said that the only thing stopping him is the fighting (whitch i understand) I know that he doesnt want to be with someone where all they do is fight but i think now that we been broken up for so long that if we got back together we could be happy and not fight about the same stuff we once fought about, I think I have gotten better and I want to show him that we could be happy in a relationship again and not fight, I want to work everything out and be with him again, how do i start this process with getting him back and what are some tips i could use to show him that i mean it?

2007-02-27 15:51:44 · 5 answers · asked by Brooke 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 15:51:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 15:51:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 15:50:50 · 11 answers · asked by LostMyMind 3 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that guys are infatuated with Asian girls? Most of the guys I know and run across LOVE Asian girls and are looking to have sex with them. What is it with Asian girls?

P.S. I don't have anything against them other than I'm pretty jealous of their following (at least I'm being honest).

2007-02-27 15:50:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok besides a girls figure, what grabs your attention the most? do you pay attention to her body language to how often she looks at you (not staring). do you like it or think its annoying if you catch her looking at you? whats the best way to start a convo with a guy?

2007-02-27 15:49:27 · 11 answers · asked by mandyxox321 2 in Singles & Dating

What now?... Seems as if we are arguing over the Stupidest crap!... I know it's not that, it can't be... you know how certain things just Get to You!, and can get under your skin, but you can Normally brush most of them off?... most of the time at least?... well anyway, alot of little crap has been really getting to me lately that he (my boyfriend) does, or Doesn't do... I feel like I am Constantly repeating myself to him to get something done and it Never gets done, it seems like only those Certain Few little things he seems to remember, like asking him to reset the alarm for say 7:30am, since he has to get up earlier so I can go back to sleep, he can remember to do that, but when I tell him certain things that Really Bug Me that he does, it NEVER STOPS AND HE NEVER CHANGES IT!!!... Makes me feel he doesn't care, or it just isn't important enough to him, yet, to do a damn thing about it!, and then it just ALL Seems to add up into one Huge ball of C-R-A-P!!!!!! to me!!....

2007-02-27 15:48:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Signs of trusting someone completely
Also how do you get trust back once it has been broken?

2007-02-27 15:48:52 · 11 answers · asked by Tgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not spam

2007-02-27 15:48:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been liking this same girl for 6 1/2 now (You may laugh.) and I've never told anyone except my best friend. It's been really bothering lately if she likes me. Here are some things she done that may have hinted it:
-If I'm not with my best friend, she'll come up to me and ask me where he is, though it doesn't really seem she cares where he is.
-One time, she went up to me and told me, "[best friend's name here] talks to me, but you don't. Why don't you talk to me much?" and it was random.
-Also, when we were in the same "buzz group" for morals class, she would always share what she thought about. I would rarely say anything, and she would always say things like "Let's see what [my name] thinks." and she'd just look at me directly in the eyes.

It was also a joke one time, I think, that someone who sits by her wrote "[Her name] loves [my name]". I have no idea if she really likes me or what.

Also on one more note, she doesn't pay attention to me much that I can notice.

2007-02-27 15:47:00 · 6 answers · asked by Nanashi 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl I like but I can only hang out with her after school, her friend Christen... she hates me being close to her for some reason. I am not shur if I can ask he out, or if it is too soon. I havent known her for very long (1 month), but I do know we like the exact same things,yet I dont know how to ask her out. HELP ME PLEEEEEEESE!!!

2007-02-27 15:46:56 · 6 answers · asked by chris_3_rock 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is 16 years old and we've been together almost 4 months. He says he wants to be with me for the rest of his life and if he can't, he'll die. I'm a senior and probably going off to college soon...so there's no way around it, I'm gonna HAVE to leave him :( Well today we got into a fight and while we were talking about it tonight, I asked him if he thought we should take a little break. He said "NO! We can work it out..." Then I got quiet and he started crying, saying I didn't love him, saying that God was doing this to him. I tried to reason with him but he got really emotional.
The last thing he said before he hung up was: You won't see me tomorrow.

I am SO frustrated and confused....what can I do?????

2007-02-27 15:46:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you like dance the whole night with your date? or is there like a lot of socializing? slow dance a lot? is it fun? is it romantic? would a really close friend turns into your girlfriend in that night?..soryy its my first time. lol

2007-02-27 15:46:14 · 8 answers · asked by Tyler 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, so I want to message a couple of seemingly nice Christian girls from Myspace. The problem is that I don't think that they will appreciate being messaged for dating purposes on myspace, even from another Christian guy. I was wondering, what would a guy have to write in his message to get her to RESPOND? That is the main question I guess. What should I write to get a response from her? Please be as specific as possible. What would you respond to?

2007-02-27 15:46:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been friends for a long time and she is a christion and so am i i do not want to hurt her feelings bc they get hurt really bad what can i say to her.

2007-02-27 15:45:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you don't like a guy, how do turn down a date with him without hurting his feelings?

2007-02-27 15:45:46 · 5 answers · asked by flowerz 2 in Singles & Dating

whenever i see him i get so nervous and can barely even look at him. He probably thinks i am the biggest loser because i can barely hold a conversation with him. how embaressing. I really do like this guy but he has a girlfriend and of course i have my boyfriend. I honesly have fantasys about this guy though. i feel as though i am in jr high even though i am in college. I have never felt this way about a guy before. What the heck do i do

2007-02-27 15:45:02 · 5 answers · asked by Lynne. 2 in Singles & Dating

None of my friends are getting married and if me and my boyfriend do talk about it, its always in the future one day far, far away.
I'm 28 holy cow!

2007-02-27 15:44:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My hubby and I fight all of the time, and it's starting to really wear me down. I'm only 28, and it hurts so much that it's giving me chest pains.

He doesn't want to listen. If he would just LISTEN before he got all mad and defensive, I wouldn't be writing this.

I'm tired, but I hurt so bad that I can't sleep. He's out driving somewhere. I know that he's not cheating, by the way, for those of you who may ask.

I can't eat, either.

Why does it hurt so much? I just want to quit.

2007-02-27 15:44:02 · 26 answers · asked by <3 The Pest <3 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-27 15:43:44 · 15 answers · asked by LostMyMind 3 in Singles & Dating

is that considered a lot of money?? I mean...I know it is, but am I secure with this amount?? I am single so am curious if a woman would be comfortable with this. be superficial here...I know a woman should love me for me, but I am asking youto answer superficially.

2007-02-27 15:42:23 · 13 answers · asked by micg70 1 in Singles & Dating

Not sure what to get him I wanna get him this watch the link below and an I.D. bracelet. Is the watch nice? Any other ideas on what I should get him would be greatly appreciated!

http://guess.com/PopupLargerView.aspx?name=Silver+Prism+Watch&image=12557L-NC

2007-02-27 15:41:58 · 8 answers · asked by laura m 1 in Singles & Dating

My whole life with my pearnts has been hell. I want to move to my best frineds house where i am welcomed and i would still be going to the same school and everything. Any one know the step to get out of my pearnts house?

2007-02-27 15:41:55 · 4 answers · asked by someone 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend lost someone she love years ago, and everytime the time of year comes again, she becomes depressed and will...do things. Is there anything right to say instead of the whole 'i'm sorry' or 'wow' or something stupid. i wanna say something meaningful, something that'll get them through this. please.

2007-02-27 15:41:50 · 8 answers · asked by Mechanical Mayhem 2 in Friends

we are both in high school i really like him and today on the instant messenger i told him
"good luck and god bless :P hahaha"
he replied
"not so much ;-) "
what does that mean?
thank you!!!

2007-02-27 15:41:41 · 3 answers · asked by Hummus! 1 in Singles & Dating

Why take a burden throughout my life.

2007-02-27 15:40:51 · 14 answers · asked by pillai v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-27 15:40:37 · 17 answers · asked by beerengine3 1 in Family

2007-02-27 15:40:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There was this guy who liked me, but for the past week, he's been ignoring me. I try to find opportunities to talk to him, but they are so few and far in between. I think he's given up, I've missed my chance. Is there any way I can turn this around? I never realized just how much I liked him until this moment, I feel empty inside when he's not around, it hurts me so much when he just ignores me like this. :(

I mean, we never even went out, I was just about to ask him out.

2007-02-27 15:39:46 · 37 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 18. I have a 5 year old baby brother. And my mom and dad. That's it. Just the 4 of us. I have a lot of worries...

1.I am scared time will tear me and my brother's relationship apart.
I am started college this year and I won't get to see him that much.

2. After college I am planning on going back to my country but my parents and my brother are staying here. What will I do there by myself without the people I love the most in my life?

3.What if I find my partner in college, will he be willing to move with me to a "strange" country, something he is not used to? Will he sacrifice such a big thing for me?

4.If I stay here (U.S.) than I am not happy even though I have my loved ones with me because I want to live there but if I live there I won't be happy because my loved one's are here so I'll be alone.

P.S.-I am not happy here because I feel like I don't fit in with the society like something is missing in my life here and I long for that life I had back there.

2007-02-27 15:39:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family