Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

I am in a 22 year marriage that has serious problems. I have tried with all my heart to work our problems out and am told by my husband that he is trying also ( i don't feel this is true however) When do I as the wife know when it's finally time to Give Up! I have been told numerous times by my family members that I don't Know When To Give Up! Can anyone tell me when it's TRULY Time?

2007-02-27 15:08:09 · 20 answers · asked by mercedes5girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean,
your loving affection,
goodnight peeps,

xxx
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2007-02-27 15:07:49 · 6 answers · asked by qwerty 3 in Friends

My wife has a fantasy about having someone watch us have sex, should I do this and if so, how should we go about finding someine?

2007-02-27 15:07:34 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Who spends more time with his friends than me. So he also spends time with my best friends.

2007-02-27 15:07:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-27 15:05:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres 2 girls that I can ask out they both like me and stuff and I do to, but I cant decide which one to ask out. How do I decide which one I like more and which one I should as out? And dont tell me to follow my heart cuz that has never helped me before.

2007-02-27 15:04:26 · 8 answers · asked by .......... 4 in Singles & Dating

Do you sometimes feel, working so hard to have a good life and provide for your family, the appreciation, you should get from doing such a good job, is overlooked by society or perhaps those who are close to you? WHY???

2007-02-27 15:03:40 · 4 answers · asked by hbuckmeister 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm currently in college right now. This girl and I have been good friends since November, and I've suspected multiple times that she's wanted me to ask her out. At the time, I didn't have any interest.

Not to sound like a jerk.....but I'm one of those guys whose usually confident, laid back, and doesn't care what people think. I think that's one of the reasons my friend *might* be attracted to me......however, I've developed feelings for her and asked her out on a date. She accepted, but admitted this will be awkward as hell, considering we're in all of the same classes until graduation.

I know her pretty well. But for some reason, ever since I developed feelings for her my confidence around her has gone to nothing. I'm wondering how to overcome this? It has never been a problem before. What's going on

2007-02-27 15:03:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a little problem. You see, I have been going out with my girlfriend now for a year and two months, and I love her with all of my heart, as she does me. But when we first started dating, we had a couple of milestones to set. She was a virgin, but she fooled around with her friends – who were female. There were two of them, and one of them always tried to seduce her whenever she got the chance. For the first few months of our relationship, we all fooled around together. In essence, it was a foursome. I couldn’t complain. But it started to change when she said she didn’t want to stop since it was going on since before me. I said that it was ok, and the next time she slept over at the other friends’ house, they fooled around. Now, fooling around – just for the records – means fingering and cunnilingus, as well as just “fooling around”. You know, experimenting or whatever. She told me of this, and I felt betrayed and sad. I don’t know if I did it to test her or be nice, but I didn’t like what happened. Especially since her friends could make her come but I couldn’t. There were a few times when we all masturbated in the same room, and one of the last times was the hardest because I was starting to really dislike it, because I love her so much. My girlfriend’s sister was there a few of the times as well. She has heard me and seen me – all of me – and so has my girlfriend’s friends. On my 18th birthday, someone had the idea to play spin the bottle. I was the only guy there, with the exception of a friend – and ex-short-time-boyfriend of my girlfriend’s. So we played, even though I really didn’t want to. In total, there were 5 girls and 2 boys. I should have felt lucky. Maybe I did. Until the game progressed, and my girlfriend started biting, making out with, and doing erotic things to her ex-boyfriend. Now mind you, I had kissed her best friend, but not to this caliber. I had kissed her sister a few times, just lightly. But when I saw that, I needed revenge. The bottle landed on her best friend – who had wanted to go out with me before, but I chose my girl instead – and I can’t help but think I influenced it to land there. When it did, I leaned in and viciously made out with her, and did some other things a few times – like kissing the chest, nibbling the ear, you know – romantic/erotic stuff. My girlfriend gave me a look that could have killed a lesser man. But when we realized what was going on, and the bottle landed on my girlfriend the next time, I tackled her and she loved it. She tackled me back, too. But when I had kissed her friends all those times – and all were known to like me, except her sister (whom I had suspicions about – but she didn’t even kiss back), I liked it at the time. The friends loved it, and my girlfriend bragged about me being a good kisser. But that night was the end of it. Before, she was talking to her ex-boyfriend about covering him in chocolate and licking it off, and doing a bunch of nasty stuff – and it was my birthday. I sat in the laundry room, depressed. She said she was speaking for her friend that liked him, like she was the friend – but that’s just not something to say, especially on your boyfriends birthday, and at the party. But after that, she didn’t fool around with her friends anymore, and neither did I. She promised me that she would stop, and I was happy. There was one incident where her friend kissed her (I heard it) and she said she kissed her for a minute before feeling like it was wrong, then she backed off and distracted her friend with her breasts before turning her over to her other friend, who were all sleeping together – and still do, sometimes. I ask her about this now, and she barely remembers kissing her then, regardless of how long she did. That friend still tries to seduce her, but she never gives in anymore. I don’t want her to sleep over at her house anymore, either. But the time passed, and the last incident was in the fifth month of our relationship, but I started becoming obsessed. Here is where the problem starts. I don’t know what it comes from, either wanting revenge or the memory of before, or even something like cabin fever – since I’m stuck at home every day without a license. But I started becoming obsessed with her best friend – who doesn’t really look better than my girlfriend, but has a nicer toned body – and her sister, who is a year younger than her. I don’t know what to do. I have tried everything, it seems, but its like the thought won’t go away, and its not even a real thought. Her sister has given me some signs of liking me, and I can’t help but notice and be attracted. She does weird stuff – flirty stuff – like backing into me in the hall when we walk down it, sticking her butt out. She kicks me in the butt constantly, gives me the “look” sometimes and sometimes I can feel that when we are sitting or standing close to each other, she means to be so close and tries to get closer. Once, she was kneeling on the floor facing me and my girlfriend (who were sitting together on the couch). There was an entertainment center behind her, with all sorts of reflective surfaces. She pulled the back of her pants down, not affecting the front, and scratched at something for a second – which I caught in the reflection – and then she glanced quickly at me, kind of telling me that she meant for me to see. Just the other day I was helping her with her myspace, and she started kicking me in the butt, and I kneed her in hers. It was all in fun, but it felt like more. Then, she tried to get all up in my face – which I was scratching – and she ran into my hand. As she did this, I felt her lips sort of kiss it. I just looked at her as she looked at me, and smiled. Then I was sitting at the computer later, and she came over and sat on my lap. My hand was under her for a second, but I extracted it slowly and put it to the side of her, kind of on her leg. She got up a minute later. Stuff like this is just driving me crazy, because I never used to have real friends, and my mother never mothered me. She tried, but she never loved me like a mother should. I never hug her, let alone kiss her, just because I never did. I wish I could and feel ok though, because I feel like I missed something. But I don’t know if this is just like a friend thing, a sisterly love thing, or if she is interested in me – because lately, I have been more and more obsessed and attracted to her and my girlfriend’s friend – the one I made out with. I’m not planning anything, and I don’t want anything to happen, but I can’t help but fantasize sometimes. I never want to be with anyone else but my girl, and I would never cheat on her. But this stuff is getting to me and distracting me from her. Not that anything would happen, but you know the deal. What should I do? I want the wanting to stop.

2007-02-27 15:02:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Look, I don't want child support. In the state of Idaho it seems they MAKE you have it. Does anyone have any advice as to how I can avoid this whole issue?

2007-02-27 15:01:21 · 21 answers · asked by drachflakes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am married, own and run a successfull buisness, and want to have a baby. my parents have told me that i am too young and it will ruin my life. should i listen to them or follow my heart and have a baby?

2007-02-27 15:01:21 · 27 answers · asked by cat t 1 in Family

My sister-in- law is going with us on a sea cruise in the next coming months. Well she has been up and down if she is going or not, since all she does is fight with her boyfriend and it is really draining me with negative enegry. I am tired of hearing that he is going or not going on this trip. Then she does not return calls so I can get a final answer. What should I do? I am tired of dealing with an unbalanced sister in law.

2007-02-27 15:00:01 · 13 answers · asked by karen 2 in Family

you see i have this friend. Her name is ashley. her and her old friend got in a fight and they havent been friends since. well after that me and her became good friends. all of a sudden she became friends with another girl which i didnt care but after that she started leaving me out and b4 i knew it she wasnt tlking to me at all. i dont know why or what i did and i need help. so pleez help me!

2007-02-27 14:59:47 · 10 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Friends

party. He's 10 yrs younger than myself and she was just setting us up for a one time deal. WEll...we hit it off, and he kissed goodnight that night. He started calling me and at the time, I was in an on again off again relationship which turned out to be mainly off so I took him up on his offer. The night we were supposed to go out, he pretty much stood me up, I mean he called but never showed up. Now he calls me months later and he came over last night. I found out my friend & her husband (his bro) were not too crazy about him dating me and pretty much told him I was taken so he backed off. I also found out he shared with them all our communication. He says he's wiser now and refuses to share anything with them. My question is I don't know what to do? Should I go out? Should we continue? What the heck does he want from me? Does he really like me? Last night he came over and we did kiss pretty passionately. Am I just the forbidden fruit? I'm a little upset she tried to jeopardize us

2007-02-27 14:59:38 · 2 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

I am putting together a power point for my eldest sister who is graduating this may with a Masters degree in Law and i need help finding a good song(s) that i can play during the power point . My sister has really put alot of ppl before herself and has really gone through alot of obstacles to get to where she is today, She has done so much for everyone in the family, we just want to send her some love and support and make this x-tra special for her. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

2007-02-27 14:59:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-27 14:59:13 · 20 answers · asked by terra 4 in Friends

I'm at university and this freak was on the roof threatening to jump off and I screamed up at him to do us all a favour and jump AND HE DID. OH GOD, EVERYONE SAW HIM FALL 20 STORIES AND HE SMASHED INTO THE FOUNTAIN. I HIGHTAILED IT OUT OF THERE AND NOW I'M AT HOME. THIS ISN'T MY FAULT RIGHT? RIGHT?

2007-02-27 14:59:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what atracs u most from a girl

2007-02-27 14:59:07 · 14 answers · asked by gloria s 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, At my school girls seem to go out with the meanest, horrible guys ever.

So people like me dont have girlfriends... :( and it makes me too afraid to ask one on a date.

First of all I am and 18 year old guy, I am a senior in high school. I believe that Guys should cherish their girlfriends, and treat them like princesses. Once I have a girlfriend I dont own her, I can let her do things without me. I let her cry on my shoulder, and she should let me cry on her shoulder. I would call her beautiful, gorgeous, and pretty. I wouldnt use words like hot, sexy or those.

So please lets me know what you think.

Also, you should know a little about me. I am a quiet, Christian guy. I have blonde hair blue eyes, I am kind, honest, sweet, and some girls say I'm good looking.

my myspace is myspace.com/petjack

My myspace has pictures of me... With my former girlfriend before she moved away :(

2007-02-27 14:58:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been with the same man for 9 yrs we are married and have 3 kids he says all the time he wants me to lose weight and look like i did when we first got togather (i was 15) , But today we was gong to have sex and he said he didnt want to be on top cause he would throw up on me he isnt sick either so what would you do

2007-02-27 14:58:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am helping plan a bridal shower and i need ideas. games and restruants, that have a banquet hall. perferably in the 626 area.. please let me know..
stephanie

2007-02-27 14:58:03 · 1 answers · asked by yp_stephanie_el_monte 2 in Weddings

2007-02-27 14:57:54 · 5 answers · asked by asdude 1 in Singles & Dating

Just want to ensure you fully understand that YOU, ladies, you made me what I am. You, as mother, sister, friend, girlfriend, fiencee and wife you gave me the best of yourself, asking for nothing. You, everyday, the way you look, you dress, you move, you talk, you smile, you just make happier. I love your womanish ways, the way you see the world, the way you do what you do.
Thank you women of the world for being there, making this world a better place, thank you God for making women so incredibly fascinating.
I love you

2007-02-27 14:57:42 · 26 answers · asked by Ciccio 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay. So I like this kid. He knows I like him and for like the past week or something, we've been avoiding each other completely. I have confrontation problems, what should I do? I really like him.

2007-02-27 14:56:48 · 3 answers · asked by Manny 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 1year. We both are employed keep good jobs, but are young. We pay bills maintain and support each other. My boyfriend has a temper problem he always has. Until recently he had never reacted on me. We seperated, and recently explored other people. I admitted for once he wasnt the only one intrested in someone else. And he went crazy on me. 3 stitches I have. The DA wants me to press charges. I want him to get help prison will not help him and I am more than sure his next girlfriend will experience the same if he doesnt learn how to control his anger. I am not afraid of him. He knows he was wrong and sits in a jail with his destiny in my hands. He admits to me he didnt realize what happened until my blood covered his hands, and barely remembers. What is his problem and how can he get help and will I get in trouble for not co-operating with the DA? I love him enough to kno he lost it and kno he needs help but how do I get him help without jailtime

2007-02-27 14:56:36 · 14 answers · asked by Desire` 3 in Friends

if i am with my friends and one of us says something where it seems like there is absolutely no possible way 2 make it sound perverted one of them always finds a way 2 make it perverted. like if i were 2 say something like "do you want this banana" one of them would find a way 2 make it seem like i wanted them 2 take it the wrong way. its really starting 2 bug me and i've told them that it is and they said they would try 2 stop. that was 3 months ago and only one of my friends has stopped completely. is there any other way besides telling them it bugs me 2 get them 2 stop??

2007-02-27 14:55:46 · 33 answers · asked by the idiot down the road 4 in Friends

I'm married with 2 kids. I was looking for a christan chat room on yahoo. It seems like all is about singles christians trying to find a date. Anyone know of a christain chat room that not about trying to find a date?

2007-02-27 14:54:59 · 1 answers · asked by light224 1 in Friends

Ok ive known him for 4 years and i really like him and he likes me i know it and do you think i should ask him out?
i know everything about him we know each other as if we were brother and sister lol but were not (Thank God lol) But i want to so badly but do you think i should ask him out???

2007-02-27 14:53:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

never knowing what it would be like to be truly loved

2007-02-27 14:53:40 · 8 answers · asked by dee_ann 6 in Singles & Dating

I don't know why, but I've always had a habit of telling people as little about me as possible. My boyfriend loves me and thinks he knows everything about me, but there are a lot of things I've hidden from him for no real reason. For example, I got a new laptop last year, a few months after I met him. He thinks I don't have one, and even mentioned once that I should get one, but I just didn't respond. It always starts out with me not telling him something because it doesn't seem necessary enough. Then as time goes on I feel like I can't tell him, because then he'd want to know why I never mentioned it before. I end up basically lying to him when everything would be fine if I'd just told him from the start.

It's not like I'm hiding some deep dark secret, but I have been dishonest to him, and I feel horrible about it. Should I be apologizing profusely and begging him to forgive me, or would it be enough to say something like "Oh, hey, I have a laptop. I'm sorry I never mentioned it"?

2007-02-27 14:53:35 · 5 answers · asked by bluie 2 in Singles & Dating