I'm currently in college right now. This girl and I have been good friends since November, and I've suspected multiple times that she's wanted me to ask her out. At the time, I didn't have any interest.
Not to sound like a jerk.....but I'm one of those guys whose usually confident, laid back, and doesn't care what people think. I think that's one of the reasons my friend *might* be attracted to me......however, I've developed feelings for her and asked her out on a date. She accepted, but admitted this will be awkward as hell, considering we're in all of the same classes until graduation.
I know her pretty well. But for some reason, ever since I developed feelings for her my confidence around her has gone to nothing. I'm wondering how to overcome this? It has never been a problem before. What's going on
2007-02-27 15:03:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you love someone you start being afraid of them. Theres no magic way to get rid of it you just have to overcome your fears. It happened to me trust me with practice it will go away.
2007-02-27 15:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by .......... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your problem is that you feel that you let your guard down by developing feelings for this girl.That's why you are not confident. Tell yourself this. I know this girl and I know she is good. If there is anyone i can trust intimately, it is her. You have to start somewhere and it might as well be her. You are still young and even if you do make mistakes there is still a lot of time left to do right. Have confidence and let yourself go, everything will slowly come to you.
2007-02-27 15:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by serphex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First know that you going to mess up a little and that no matter what happens that you going to get though it and after you going to be alive. all you have to do is do kind thing, even if awkward. At the very least show that your trying. If you know this going into a data you will feel better and think that you'll have a good time. But don't try to be anyone but your self. You'll find whoever God wants you to and weather this is lady is her or not.
2007-02-27 15:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by Thehelper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah first days of faculty are nerve wraking from time to time. Like what in the experience that your schedule is tousled and additionally you may desire to stand up in front of the completed classification and say what's incorrect, then the instructor sends you to the workplace the place there are like yet another hundred human beings waiting to get their schedules replaced. Then the bell rings for the subsequent classification and additionally you're nonetheless in line after which you may desire to pass over the class. So, you permit out your 2nd classification and the counselor ultimately see's you. nicely it seems the coulselor gets a decision and has to pass someplace, so which you're sitting in the chilly workplace thinking while the counselor will come again and likewise thinking in the experience that your hair is nice because of the fact your weigh down is status precise exterior of the door. the counselor ultimately comes, and it takes like 2 seconds to repair the undertaking, now the real undertaking is having to sqweez in the path of the gang to be late to your 2nd classification in basic terms to realize which you acquire your 2nd classification tousled besides so which you may desire to pass returned. so which you attempt to get into the class that your weigh down is going into and once you ultimately do, he dropped it for wiegt lifting. then you pass homestead and think of "oh crap" when you consider which you sighned your self up for 2 AP training and 2 honors training and this is all down hill from right here. so yeah =)
2016-10-02 02:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by launer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you try to potray your self as a one cool dude
one who think the world revolves around you
but when cupid hit your heart
you act as if your a lost puppy
that is love!!! go and try to be a friend with her
your mature enough to know how to please her
invite her to dinner or see a movie
that will be a good start
goodluck
2007-02-27 15:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man that happened to me too...
All that matters is that
You know she likes you, and you got nothing to worry about...
It's not like she is going to beat you up if you make a mistake.
The biggest mistake to make is to worry your going make a mistake.
2007-02-27 15:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋