Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

2007-02-27 14:41:59 · 6 answers · asked by Charm 1 in Singles & Dating

been completely miserable for about 2 yrs now. Above all, I really think we have just gotten too comfortable around each other, and are just best friends, more than a married couple. The love is there, just not married love. Those that are married understand what i'm saying. So, I refuse to see a counselor. I'm not big on someone getting into my head to tell me things I already know. She sees this as a sign of me giving up.....I think after 2 years of misery, i've already given this all I can. I've tried to express myself b4, but she'll just cry and run away, w/out ever facing my concerns. In turn, I've just needed to repress these concerns, and bottle 'em up. Well, now it's come to a head, and I'm thinking of leaving. Not permanently, just to clear my head. We have no kids, so they're not in the equation. And quite honestly, I think I'm already at the end of my rope. And there's no 3rd party involvement either. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-02-27 14:40:50 · 24 answers · asked by Marriage Troubles 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a crush whenever I want to touch him I always end up hitting him or doing something that I consider juvenille. I keep poking him and pushing him and he gets annoyed. I was wondering if anybody else has had this problem?

2007-02-27 14:40:46 · 7 answers · asked by courtygurl28 2 in Singles & Dating

I am new at this and am petrified to be on top during sex. So any tips that you can give as to what to do when your up there...anything at all..would be great...any other sex advice always helps also

2007-02-27 14:40:14 · 10 answers · asked by Lindsey H 1 in Singles & Dating

She is from Bradford, PA. She used to live in Oklahoma with her husband. Brandy is 27 or 28 and has blonde hair. She has two children and her mother lives in Florida. She does go by a married name, but I do not know what it is.

2007-02-27 14:39:41 · 1 answers · asked by kmf77 3 in Friends

It's a good subject because it makes you think about you own life and maybe let you do those things you want to before your gone. Let's hear some good responses time to think about your place in the world and what one song sums that up.

2007-02-27 14:39:33 · 17 answers · asked by WarforPeace 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-27 14:39:26 · 12 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

lives 5 states over, no digital to prove it...will be seeing him in a few weeks, how do i bring it up? as to show me the ring? without seeming desperate or needy? thanks!

2007-02-27 14:39:25 · 5 answers · asked by ria k 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 14:38:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am sort of lacking, when i'm in the mall i try and hide I don't look people in the eyes and yeah my friends are alot shrink down which is horrid because to be there height i'd have to shrink down 8". My friends say i'm good looking so do males but i still lack the confidence and always think they're lying please help me i don't want to live the rest of my life hunched over and afraid.

2007-02-27 14:37:16 · 14 answers · asked by Love everyone 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my in-laws have temporary custudy of my kids. i want to get them back, but i dont want a lawyer. how do you go about getting your case in motion?

2007-02-27 14:37:15 · 6 answers · asked by scootdawg06 1 in Family

My boyfriend never compliments me, and I like it when I guy does...how do I get him to? He knows I like it, but he chooses not to?? hmm what's his deal??!Like he never uses cute name,,, how do I get him to?

2007-02-27 14:36:47 · 5 answers · asked by Haley 1 in Singles & Dating

If two people are in a relationship but don't live together, what's the #1 sign they could be cheating?

2007-02-27 14:36:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do?! The guy I like just got a girlfriend and she is a friend! What should I do!!!

2007-02-27 14:36:26 · 12 answers · asked by Tater 1 in Friends

My mom tried to commit suicide back awhile ago and its sad, trust me. I dont want to see this anymore and when she did commit suicide, she was in the hospital and i was there with her for an hour and for a second, i thought she was dying and i felt reliefed and happy for a minute. I dont know why but i thought this might be best for her so she wont live in pain anymore?

Is that wrong?

She's been in rehabd backa nd fourth too many times and she was never a good mother, shes been through a lot and she tried to take an overdose o fpills to kill herself. I dont get it...is this feeling wrong? I just thought it might be best for her...

2007-02-27 14:36:12 · 1 answers · asked by Where's the sunrise? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If someone added you on msn/yahoo and you never really talked to them before. What would you think if they added you all of a sudden and started talking to you?

Thanx;)

2007-02-27 14:35:59 · 5 answers · asked by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter turned 18 in Jan. We adopted her at 5 yrs. She has been such a joy to us and the light of our life. She left us and her siblings yesterday because the boy she wants to see and his parents said she could live with them. What makes a person completely turn against the family that has loved her so much? He 8 yr old sister cried until her eyes were so swollen. She has hurt us so much. By law I can't do anything about it so what do I do, just forget her? How do you loose someone that has been so important to you? Our family is Christian and she grew up loving God with the goal of being a neo-natal nurse. She has now tossed it all away for a kid that has a bad reputation. Someone please help me understand this. If you're a mom and have been through this please answer me. Please, only serious answers. My heart is broken.

2007-02-27 14:35:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm not attracted to black men at all, does anyone else feel this way

2007-02-27 14:35:34 · 9 answers · asked by Peacen 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok...we are doing a joining of the families type thing during our ceremony. It calls for giving the child a pendant but two of them are boys....what are some good ideas for the boys??

2007-02-27 14:35:15 · 7 answers · asked by Soon2BMrsCarlson 3 in Weddings

When I found out my second child was going to be a boy, I gave the majority of my girl clothes to my sister-in-law (who's girl is younger than mine). This winter was especially cold in our house, so I asked her if I could BORROW the fleece sleeper outfits I gave her because my son wears two of them to bed and it wouldn’t matter if the underneath one was pink. She has borrowed almost every piece of baby equipment I own--even my electric breast pump! For weeks she gave me the “cold shoulder” and I had no idea why. Today, it came out that she was annoyed that I asked her for the clothes back (about six outfits from the hundreds that I gave her). I even made it VERY clear that I was only going to borrow them. She’s not even using them. They were just sitting in a box.

MY QUESTION IS…is it wrong to ask to borrow something that you gave to someone even though they are not even using it (and never did use it, I might add)?

2007-02-27 14:35:05 · 3 answers · asked by IKEA freak 1 in Family

I guess this applies mainly to girls, or gay boys. But why is it that everybody seems to be like "Wahhh my life is horrible when I'm single, I WILL NEVER BE HAPPY".

Honestly, it's not that bad. I'm thinking maybe we put our happiness in others' hands too often? Or something.

Thoughts?

2007-02-27 14:34:44 · 14 answers · asked by Mark E 1 in Singles & Dating

hooked up with his co worker. he said it happened just once and it was just s e x. the girl has a bf. what would you do if you were in my place?

2007-02-27 14:34:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife was loyal for 13 years. Her life became all secrets as she drank more. Had affair with a man, one sex meeting with man and even with one woman. Heavily into cyber-sex. She blames alcohol. She is 30 day in-patient treatment and wants to quit. I am worried 1. Will she become attached to some guy in re-hab and end up having affair with him or can I trust she will be loyal when she gets out. The affairs were sex only. I really thinks she loves me and does not want a divorce but i don't want to be a fool, either. Her life is all secrets. She is only one with password for computer etc.

2007-02-27 14:34:28 · 1 answers · asked by dvdknc3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He sits near me at lunch, and talks to my friend all of the time. I find it really unsettling because I don't know what they are talking about. When I see him in the halls I veer to the other way. When he sits down at the table I scooch down. I often say mean things about him without thinking. I don't know why I feel this way now. I used to like him soo much.. then I was embarrased.. now I'm ticked. Am I acting a little too mean?

2007-02-27 14:33:41 · 4 answers · asked by Millie 3 in Singles & Dating

My moms in rehab and i dont want to live with her anymore, i want to move back to boston with my dad and live there. What do i need to do?

2007-02-27 14:33:34 · 9 answers · asked by Where's the sunrise? 1 in Family

does that mean that he just does not care about you? Or could all his excuses really be valid (busy, not having his phone, etc.) This has consistently occured in a long distance relationship over the past 3 years or so. Getting him to call/text me back is a huge production. My brother says if a guy truly cares about you and loves you then he will look forward to talking to you and always make time. Is this true?

2007-02-27 14:33:06 · 2 answers · asked by goldengirl 4 in Singles & Dating

I was talking about someone I meant to say she was a slutie-tramp but instead I said slampie trut!!!! I love that, its my new word

2007-02-27 14:32:31 · 6 answers · asked by M 2 in Friends

I like this guy and he is in two of my classes and Im a shy person so I want him to notice me and talk to me more WHat do I do?

2007-02-27 14:32:11 · 6 answers · asked by Natalie F 1 in Singles & Dating

My kiddy just toddled down the driveway onto the interstate. OH GOD there's nothing left of him. WHAT DO I DO?

2007-02-27 14:31:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancee is a dork and she likes to make an a** out of me help

2007-02-27 14:31:04 · 4 answers · asked by LOOK!!! there he is. 4 in Singles & Dating