hooked up with his co worker. he said it happened just once and it was just s e x. the girl has a bf. what would you do if you were in my place?
2007-02-27 14:34:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
R U off or what? HE CHEATED ON YOU! What is there to consider. I guess if you r not looking for a long-term or even a committed relationship then it is cool. But if u are then there's nothing to talk about. It should be over. If u had "just sex" with someone do u think that it would be ok with him? Picture yourself married years from now. U find out that your husband has cheated on u but it was "just sex." is that ok with u? U need to set the foundation for what u want now and don't bend on your beliefs.
2007-02-27 14:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy says it was just sex, then you can believe him. For guys, sex and emotions aren't in the same category. Hell, they aren't in the same universe.
But you should leave him. Don't kid yourself, if he's done it once he'll do it again.
Once a cheater always a cheater and what happens the next time he wants 'just sex'??? Spare yourself the heartache and find someone who only wants to be with you.
Good Luck.
2007-02-27 14:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being cheated on IS horrible... BUT if you really like your bf then you should understand it from his point of view. And if you know he'll do it again then girl he's out the door.... just talk to him about it but make sure that what decision you make.. it won 't hurt you. Good Luck!
2007-02-27 14:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you guys should talk about this before taking any actions. Second, sex is never just sex it usually leads to other things, and he can cheat again, so i think you need to ask yourself if you really love this guy and do you love him enough to forget about this and make this work. Because if you dont forget and forgive you might always doubt him and that will not lead to a lasting relationship.
2007-02-27 14:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by jb2ds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your place...
1st I would try to tell the co-workers boyfriend..
But, at least you talked to him about it.. and if hes sorry and wont do it again.. keep him..
but if you get suspious.. dump him
2007-02-27 14:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by Haley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he had sex with his co worker they have obviously been flirting for a while and he wanted it to happen so if i were you i'd be saying good bye to him right now and then i would follow that chick home and tell her man that she screwed yours.
2007-02-27 14:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that jerk deserves to be punished. so have the joy of dumping him to let him know he can no do that to you. It might hurt you -- but dump him before he think about dumping you. He could be lying about doing it just once.
2007-02-27 14:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by baby doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coola, come on! do you really have to question what to do in this situation? drop him. he couldve come up with a better excuse than that. he doesnt respect you or the relationship. so since he thinks it was just sex.........then tell him he's just dumped!
2007-02-27 14:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up him with. That's all what it takes, girl. Good Luck!
2007-02-27 14:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell does he mean just sex? theres no such thing
break it off. once a cheater always a cheater...
2007-02-27 14:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by NotMeorYou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋