How do I get my boyfriend to be more romantic and cutesy?

Question

My boyfriend never compliments me, and I like it when I guy does...how do I get him to? He knows I like it, but he chooses not to?? hmm what's his deal??!Like he never uses cute name,,, how do I get him to?

Answer 1

Some people just don't feel comfortable complimenting and being romantic and cutesy. Mostly guys, but some girls are like that too... If you really like him you need to try to realise that there are other ways of showing affection. Does he act like he thinks you're smart, fun, pretty, etc without saying it? If he makes you feel good by the way he acts around you and how much he wants to spend time with you, try to accept that as good enough. Because if someone isn't comfortable being romantic or cutesy they will never be, it's something that comes naturally or not at all. It doesn't mean he doesn't think romantic things that he can't say! It's just like how some people can write poetry, and the rest of us would be hugely embarassed to even try if someone wanted us to write them a poem...

Answer 2

I think that's the way he is. I don't think he'll change. If you really like for a guy to do that, then you probably won't ever get it from him. This may be an issure if you're still with him after a while. You should decide if this is ok with you or if not, leave him. It will not get better.

Answer 3

keep reminding him that is what u like 2 hear... but don't nag him. if that doesn't work then give it up & just luv him or get u some 1 that will tell u what u want 2 hear.

Answer 4

Some guys just aren't into that. It's not really worth breaking up with him for it.

My suggestion? Wait until your first question is closed before asking the same question again.

Answer 5

Reward him with sex when he does. That will get his attention ...