I am new at this and am petrified to be on top during sex. So any tips that you can give as to what to do when your up there...anything at all..would be great...any other sex advice always helps also
2007-02-27 14:40:14 · 10 answers · asked by Lindsey H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In addition to riding with your knees close to his body and touching the bed or other surface, you could also ride in a squatting position. This makes it possible for deeper penetration. Pace yourself as this does require a little more work on your body and legs---but well worth it for you and your guy. Also, pay attention to if/how he guides your body. This will give you a clue as to what he likes. Mix it up a little, by allowing full penetration on some strokes and then only partial penetration on others. You can alter the penetration depth and feel of things by leaning forward toward him. The straighter up your body is the deeper the penetration. Also, leaning forward toward him may increase your chance of having an orgasm, if you find your G spot. There's really not a wrong way---just depends on your comfort and what you and your guy like individually and together. Take your time and remember not to go too fast either. And as always, practice safely!
2007-02-27 15:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Naive Unintentions 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, it will come naturally. If you are not sure of things while in the act, just ask your partner for their advice. The best sex is when the partners share their feelings and ideas, just be open about it.
2007-02-27 14:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by curtf1964 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is coming from a guy so bear with me most guys like you go all the way down but i know a lot of females that cant (there size, his size) it hurts you can grind swivel bounce in a somewhat roundabout way just experiment youll figure it out
2007-02-27 14:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by milifis frikngret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man, I personally find that it's not the up-down motion of the body that feels good (it actually doesn't for me), but the moving of the hips. Try it out.
2007-02-27 14:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by Antonio 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Grind if you can. I know my man likes it. And dont be scared to touch your assests while up there. Im sure he would love to see you playing with your little ( or big ) ones to. Have fun and let loose! Good luck!!
2007-02-27 14:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jess Allene 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember the mechanical horse at the grocery store when you were younger, ride'em cowgirl.
2007-02-27 14:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
ok... BACKWARDS COWGIRL. need i say anymore?? face his feet, he will LOVE the visual of your a*s and more (you know the "ins and outs") umm... play with the boys while you're there. hope this helps without being too too graphic
2007-02-27 14:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by christopher_austins_mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. It is much better, you can control the friction and find your spot and it is easier to reach orgasm.
2007-02-27 14:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry. Just do what comes naturally. Believe me you will know know what to do.
2007-02-27 14:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a cowboy hat.
2007-02-27 14:49:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋