My wife has a fantasy about having someone watch us have sex, should I do this and if so, how should we go about finding someine?
2007-02-27 15:07:34 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first of all, if you dont feel comfortable, dont do it. i have a big thing about wantin someone to watch me and my fiance, but he doesnt, so we wont do that. if you are ok with it, ask a close friend. not just some stranger. ask a friend that you know wont judge you or freak out. if you cant find someone, think of something else. like taping yourselves and watching it another night. you can do many things. but make sure you are also comfortable with the ideas, as for her. good luck! and HAVE FUN!!!
2007-02-27 15:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wife Wants To Be Watched
2016-10-14 01:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex between a husband and wife should be an intimate and private thing. Having someone watch could permanently alter your relationship with your wife. I do not recommend giving in to her fantasy. If she must be watched, get some full length mirrors and place them around the bed so you can watch each other. That could be VERY erotic and satisfy her fantasy. You could also try setting up a video camera and tape yourselves having sex, but the downside of that is the video could get into wrong hands sometime down the line. Are you ready for that?
2007-02-27 15:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Katykins 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
well, she will get someone to watch at some point. If a fantasy is no fulfilled right by you, there is always someone willing to do so in your place. And the safest way I would think would be with a cam on the internet. You can set it up for private view. You would not real people in your home or even knowing you in a city. there are crazy people. A web cam is safe.....no personal contact
2007-02-27 15:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by sgtmouse4875 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have any doubts or reservations about it, don't do it. Those feeling you will have to live with. Also, you must think if your feelings toward your wife might change; and is it worth it in the long run.
2007-02-27 15:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by danaluana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't do it. That is a weird fantasy your wife has. If you did do it then the person you find might want to join you and your wife while your doing it. So it's not a good idea in my opinion.
2007-02-27 15:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by Josh D 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I would prefer your wife having sex with me.
2007-02-27 15:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This will be a quick opening for her to invite someone into your bed. If you are comfortable with an open marriage then do it. If you aren't then don't open you bedroom to anyone you aren't married to.
2007-02-27 15:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by mildred d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn,t do it because the sexz you share with your wife is private.if you must do something get a camera and tape you and your wife in you and her, watch it together.its never a good idea to let others watch your love making.
2007-02-27 15:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by annjilena 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No! This will end your marriage for sure...been there, done it, got the t-shirt, went to divorce court. No!! This will only lead to having sex with others. I wrote on my blog about swinging if you want to read it feel free...its at: http://www.louisvillemojo.com/blogs/Archives.Cfm?BlogID=6997&blcid=2053
Just talk to her and find out why she wants to do this...what's missing to make her want to do this?
2007-02-27 15:24:19 · answer #10 · answered by Kellie~Baby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋